UltimateScoundrel
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 18, 2001
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Lets start with a question. Why did you come to sosuave.com?
I came for the same reason many come here. To learn how to make women like me. To learn how to attract women. It seemed like a very good idea at the time, but now I realize that it was utter foolishness.
It was foolishness because my underlying goal was deeply flawed.
After some time here I have come to a simple realization. You cannot make women attracted to you. It's not possible.
The fact is every person has a set of physical standards that must be met by a mate, and a set of qualities that turn them on so to speak. Most people's standards are not too high. I personally, and most other idividuals simply look for a partner who is not ugly or obese. That's about it for my physical standards and those of women. The qualities that turn me on: a good sense of humor, excellent conversationalist, shared interests, great body, and so on.
Suddenly I realized that it must be the same for women as it is for men in that respect. Therefore, we all already posess what qualities are required to attract certain females. For others we don't. It's really that simple.
So, the question is no longer changing their standards, but meeting them. The whole idea behind sosuave.com is not making women like you, but emphasizing your better qualities, and learning to display them without fear to the opposite sex. Only then will they see those qualities that they find attractive.
Why do women like confidence? Because the essence of confidence is the ability to display your very best without fear. Women are not attracted to confidence at all really. It is simply required for any man who wishes to display his better qualities. Therefore, confidence itself is not attractive, but is instead mutually inclusive with the ability to attract women. Ergo, women who are attracted by men have seen the confidence displayed by men mistakenly think it to be a quality that attracts them.
Use this site to learn what women want, find that in yourself, bring it out, and put it on display for all women to see. They will then come to you. When you try to force attraction upon a woman it will simply drive her away. This is why you will rarely be able to effectively go out and use these techniques with the goal of making her attracted to you. Instead, use these techniques with the goal of displaying the best parts of yourself, and let compatible people find you.
My greatest successes were never "intentional." Did I want to attract these women, yes, but did I actively try to force it upon them, no. In fact I never even considered what was going to happen later. I just acted like myself. The best parts of myself, and everything fell into place.
Use sosuave.com not as techniques to snatch women up, but instead to bait them in.
I came for the same reason many come here. To learn how to make women like me. To learn how to attract women. It seemed like a very good idea at the time, but now I realize that it was utter foolishness.
It was foolishness because my underlying goal was deeply flawed.
After some time here I have come to a simple realization. You cannot make women attracted to you. It's not possible.
The fact is every person has a set of physical standards that must be met by a mate, and a set of qualities that turn them on so to speak. Most people's standards are not too high. I personally, and most other idividuals simply look for a partner who is not ugly or obese. That's about it for my physical standards and those of women. The qualities that turn me on: a good sense of humor, excellent conversationalist, shared interests, great body, and so on.
Suddenly I realized that it must be the same for women as it is for men in that respect. Therefore, we all already posess what qualities are required to attract certain females. For others we don't. It's really that simple.
So, the question is no longer changing their standards, but meeting them. The whole idea behind sosuave.com is not making women like you, but emphasizing your better qualities, and learning to display them without fear to the opposite sex. Only then will they see those qualities that they find attractive.
Why do women like confidence? Because the essence of confidence is the ability to display your very best without fear. Women are not attracted to confidence at all really. It is simply required for any man who wishes to display his better qualities. Therefore, confidence itself is not attractive, but is instead mutually inclusive with the ability to attract women. Ergo, women who are attracted by men have seen the confidence displayed by men mistakenly think it to be a quality that attracts them.
Use this site to learn what women want, find that in yourself, bring it out, and put it on display for all women to see. They will then come to you. When you try to force attraction upon a woman it will simply drive her away. This is why you will rarely be able to effectively go out and use these techniques with the goal of making her attracted to you. Instead, use these techniques with the goal of displaying the best parts of yourself, and let compatible people find you.
My greatest successes were never "intentional." Did I want to attract these women, yes, but did I actively try to force it upon them, no. In fact I never even considered what was going to happen later. I just acted like myself. The best parts of myself, and everything fell into place.
Use sosuave.com not as techniques to snatch women up, but instead to bait them in.
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