The easiest way to know what makes an alpha

SargeMaximus

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… Is to do what women complain the HVM in their life do/did. It’s a rough blueprint but it works.
 

Robert28

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And what to high value males do that women complain about?
Be a drunk, do some drugs, be a bum with no job or a sh!t job, have a couple felonies, a bunch of gawdy tattoos that look like they were done in a garage by your cousin Jimbo, don’t drive or have a license. You know, the opposite of normal stuff.
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I'm on this forum since 2006 if I'm not mistaken and this alpha and beta talk never reach an end.

For each member, the definitions of alpha and beta are full of generalizations.

Some think it's the tattooed, coke-snorting bad boy who beats up their girlfriends.

Others say it's the millionaire who runs a large organization and bosses over 1,000,000 employees, drives a Lamborghini and seduces his secretary.

We will never reach a verdict, and this talk will never end.
 

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It's probably safe to say those who worry the most about it aren't alpha.
 

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If you need to know what makes an alpha, you're prob not an alpha.

Alpha males are just dudes who stand by their own code of ethics and morals, have things they stand for.. Who don't fold for other peoples standards. Who speak their mind, don't care too much if people like them or not, but are self aware to know how to manage in any environment, who are pretty rigid in their ways, who focus and give their attention to mostly whats important to them. Who aren't very empathetic when it comes to problems they can't relate to. Who excel when it comes to qualities such as leadership, persistence, mental and physical strength, determination, who are self confident/self assured and have self respect. I would even say you have to be socially adept/calibrated to be an alpha male and have charisma.

To simplify it, think of the person or people in your lif e who always Set their mind to goals and objectives that are often seem daunting and then attack the goal and get it done.. Who don't fold under pressure when others all take one stance opposing a stance of their own. and who have built for themselves tangible products of their willpower, whether a nice strong physique, an abundant lifestyle, a strong group of friends, a room full of trophies, etc and often call out things that go against what they believe or call out bull.sht or injustices.
 

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High value and Alpha aren't the same. HVM needs money, alpha doesn't. I think alpha is more a way of being, the way you carry yourself, your integrity, confidence, ability to lead, and your capabilities as a man. High value is more money, success, network, and physical prowess counts for less with HVM compared to alpha, the key is in the word "value". Alpha is more innate. Try to be both.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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If a man is dating and having sex with a hot blonde girl between:

18-22 - he is 100% Alpha
23-27 - 75% Alpha
28-33 - 50% Alpha
34-38 - 25% Alpha
38+ - 0% Aloha 100% Beta

Little more leeway if the girl has black hair, but not much.
 
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