THE Dj School mentality (with an active journal)

[SouLeeian]

Why hello fellow highschoolers! I am the SouLeeian! I discovered this site through one of my friends (2months ago) and ever since then was hooked on looking at this great mindset called Don Juan. It has changed my perception about women COMPLETELY. Im going to share the daily social interactions i have in highschool I have and mainly how to deal with them.

8/8/11]
I am a Senior this year and school has started, i've been practicing this mindset over summer and it is my first day(in school). Today i woke up (and god i'll NEVER do this again!) at 5:50, I brushed my teeth, picked my afro, got those new tags off my clothes. I Read some DJ articles to practice consciously, Mainly ones about:
- Eye Contact
- Smiling
- Charm
- Being the greatest "Catch"
And what can i say? It was a dope day! I did everything i had practiced! (Eye contact, smiling. Etc.)but because i don't have them down so good where i can just subconsciously be doing it i have to keep telling myself in my head "Do this", "Don't do that", "Saying nothing right now will make YOU the dominant one". That takes a bit of time but im getting it. Here's one of the situations I found myself in.

Situation: My friend(Whom i have a considerable amount of rapport with) is engaged in a set of 3-4 women (RB6-7's) while im watching from a different circle not so far away.

So what did i do? I weighed my options:
a) Go talk with them and practice the mind set while having as much fun as possible.
b) Stand their and keep talking to people i already know like a Fu*^ing AFC Loser
I went over their with the mindset: I'm going to have fun and **** around right now.

So i went in and i approached my friend and these three women, first by greeting my friend not acknowledging them. I said something funny to him that made the whole group laugh. This was important as an icebreaker for the rest of the group. I asked the whole group their names WITHOUT saying my own. One girl,

(RB7) said "Well what's your name?"
SouLeeian: "Well what grade are you in?"
RB7: "Im a junior."
SouLeeian: "My name? Well it doesn't belong in the hands of a junior"
RB7: "Why not?"

Now it was hear when i switched my mentality to the "She wants to be with me" Mindset and replied:
SouLeeian: "Because a junior doesn't deserve to know my name for simply nothing."
RB7: Aww please?
SouLeeian: (As a smiled) I'll see you ladies later.

And i got out! Now while it might not have been the smoothest dialogue in the world, but i'll tell you she did glance at me from time to time as i stood back with my friends. I figured i accomplished a few things talked about here on this site like the "Mystery" part and also made her Want me instead of the other way around. And as all of you may notice about the advice on this site, almost ALL of it is very good, but, some are very contradictory so it is MUST that you CHOOSE THE ADVICE THAT FITS YOUR SITUATION! This is the single MOST IMPORTANT part of learning from this site

Now, all in all after this i was just having fun recollecting with old friends and still meeting new people but what can i say? Today was a good day. I will actively keep updating this weeks at a time but to my fellow Dj's, Play on, Because the game JUST got easier.

 

[Nino-Tk]

Welcome home player, looking forward to reading more and seeing you grow. You right about the advice, in any situation, you should learn to trust your gut and not necessarily some article you read. Big ups player.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

I like this. I can definately identify with having to think about all the concepts and actions conciously in the beginning. It's like a phase you go through. It will be internalized the more you practice it.
I also see that you have a very analytical approach right now, but honestly, I think you will pass that too, and it will serve you well right now.
Nice interaction btw.
Looking forward for more

 

[Richmond69]

Dude thats sick that's ur doing this log. I have a question though, how big is your school? Mines tiny there is no way a junior wountdnt know a seniors name haha. Good job so far though

 

[SouLeeian]

Who is THE SouLeeian

Hey guys, it's definitely been awhile. Gettin caught up with school and whetnot (Damn AP classes), but i came back because i actually like the thought of keeping track of my progress and making all of you giggle like Japanese school girls behind your computer screens(Because i KNOW i do). At any rate i realized that i hadn't really gave you any background on my situation, So here goes.

- Senior this year (Obviously)
- Classes
- English(Scifi)
- Gov and politics(Ap)
- Calculus (AP)
- Ceramics
- TA (For Calc)
No first period because.... Well who the fvck feels like getting up at 6:30? xD
- Now i have a girlfriend, but i got her before i had my mentality i have so she was spoiled by my AFC'ness
- Drivers license in about 2 weeks
- I Breakdance (And trust me, it doesn't hurt your chances{Raises significantly!})
- I have a bit of muscle, mostly toned though
- I have an Afro (Just felt like throwing that in)

Just a little background but i have goals too dammit!

1) Maintain a 3.5
2) Pass my Calculus AP test
3) Get a more broad group of friends to hang and party with
4) Become better at my dance and self expression
5) Fvck my girlfriend
6) Being able to get ANY girl i want

More on the subject of my girlfriend, I started dating her when she was my TA last year in my math class. I saw her walk by and i said to myself " NO LONGER WILL THAT SWEET ASS WALK BY ME AND I DO NOTHING!" So one day her friend (Which whom my girlfriend normally walks with to the parking lot) after class said why don't you walk me to the parking lot?
(my mind): YESSSSS!!!!!
I said "sure" with no expression on my face. xD
So i started walking them to the parking lot and we reach the parking lot where they normally break off and go separate ways, so this is how it played out.

SouLeeian: So are you guys gonna make out and leave now?
Both: (Giggling) Hahaha No!
Friend: Way to make things awkward! (Still giggling)
SouLeeian: So is this happenening or not?
They hug while still laughing and start to leave parting ways except my girlfriend was walking the same why i was, so i did something SOOO Textbook.

(A bit of Flufftalk before this)
Souleeian: So how are WE gonna do my homework tonight?
Girlfriend: What do you mean we?
SouLeeian: I mean i need help.
Girlfriend: Oh what do you want me to do? come over?
That was an obvious trap btw, OF COURSE she wouldn't. Barely knew her
SouLeeian: Hell naw nigga! I was thinking texting and getting off topic on the way down.
Girlfriend: Hahaha. Alright.
Got the digits, we walk for a bit and then i said:
SouLeeian: Oh wait, let me get a picture for my phone. (Takes picture of her ass xD)
She giggles giving me kino all the way through telling me to erase it. We soon leave after that. AND BOOM! After we " Got off topic on the way down" We went on a couple of dates, then i made her ask me to become exclusive. The thing is though, I was able to keep my cool during all that, but then my AFC came out when sh*t started to go down ( Becoming too serious, Not about fun, Failing **** tests). The relationship was shakey for awhile, then she left to Mexico over the Sumer and my good friend Domo_Arigatoo Showed me this site, AND MY LIFE CHANGED! NO LONGER was I the one trying to chase after her, seeing her on a pedestal (But it did take awhile for her to see that i wasn't gonna put up with her "Sh!t" anymore). At this point its about August ( She left for 3 weeks) and I totally was having things my way, and dare i say it, soon to be sex if i kept it up. The last catch is, I have a time limit because she is going to college and we are breaking it off then. But i'll fill you guys in later about that.

Something i will mention, I know this site is good and bullsh!t like that, but Seriously, the blueprint gave me all the concepts i needed to achieving all the success with women i'd ever need. And the thing about this is after awhile, all the concepts learned from this site, or the blueprint, or wherever the fvck your reading, stops being concepts and becomes an UNDERSTANDING you have with yourself. It creates a trust to be you and never to be afraid of letting the others see it. WATCH THE BLUEPRINT.

On another note, since i've been off for awhile i've done so many approaches from that time til now, so i'll update from the start of those and then work my way to the present, and throughout i'll breakdown what i'm doing and why i'm doing/ saying the sh!t i am so it can all be understood. For now i Homework/ LoL, Later this week comes a barrage of approaches.

SouLeeian out.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

THE BLUEPRINT DE-CODED! YEAH!!!!!!! hahahaha. I'll add you on skype bro, just PM me your nick.

 

[Domo_Arigatoo]

Souleeian...
you gay bro.

 

[SouLeeian]

My Trophy Girl

You guys ever play a game and then realize "AWHH FvCK! I DIDN'T SAVE." Well that sh!t happened to me as i was writing and then my laptop lost power and it didn't save. It has taken me all the time til now to build up wanting to rewrite this. At any rate I don't feel like going to as much detail as I was going to go into when I originally posted this, but i'll give you guys the gist of things.

Ahh, A date i've already forgotten.
8/22/11

It was about 5:00 (Because i normally breakdance and workout before i come home everyday) and I am home. Went to the fridge, got some grub, put that ***** in the microwave and ate. As I am eating, I get a text from Domo_Arigatoo that says this simple sentence.

"Sarge" (Subject: Sarge Verb: Sarge Predicate: Sarge)

I tell him i can't because my dad acts funny if i ask him something last minute. He then calls me and it goes something like this.

SouLeeian: Yo b what's up?
Domo_Arigatoo: Bro, we gotta sarge today
SouLeeian: I can't man I told you
Domo_Arigatoo: I need you to wing me man, Your the only one I can trust with this.
(That Bast*rd knew that if he said some sh!t like that i would do it. Usin DJ skills on me. Faggot.)
SouLeeian: Ugh, alright fine, but i don't have a ride
Domo_Arigatoo: Ask Jimmy. He's going to the sublime concert
(Jimmy is a friend, and The band sublime was coming to play at the fair that night).
SouLeeian: Alright.
Hangs up*

My friend jimmy proceeds to picking me up and we are well on our way. Upon arriving I inquire that Arigatoo got in for free because some Mexican dude went in the fair and "Left", and when you leave you get a stamp in case you want to get back in. So Domo tells me that the stamp was wet enough for him to just press his hand against his and he was good to go. My friends Jimmy andVictor in the car with me have tickets (Pre-purchased) and I decide that they are going to do that for me because i dont want to pay 9$. When we arrive we proceed with the plan, they go in through the admission tent and then "Leave" bringing Arigatoo back with them (He had already been there). When the rendezvous happens we all come to realize that the stamp was too dry to put back on my hand. Me not thinking says "Lick it, and put it on my hand"

Now think.
1) Either Jimmy licks his hand and puts his Saliva all over my hand
2) I lick Jimmy's hand(and catch cancer) and put my saliva on my hand

1) Lose 2) Lose 3) This answer is broken

Wellp 1) ends up happening, and my friend not only licks his hand, but he makes sure we'll never have another drought again and presses it against my hand before i can even pull it away. As this goes on, my friends and I end up laughing and gaining state off of this (Not evening knowing what state was back then) because it's hilarious.At the admission tent we all breeze through, and the funny thing is the ***** didn't even check. . The smell off funnel cakes, and the atmosphere of the fair . We then part ways with Jimmy and Victor as they were going to the sublime concert and we are sarging. So as a bit of "Warm-ups" I myself decide to compliment everyone i see that has the least bit of something eye catching. Now this worked for me helping me gain state, but i'll never do it again. It is such a bad tactic and as I heard tyler talk on the subject about achieving state he explained what doing that really is. But on with the story. Arigatoo and I walk around for a bit , and i keep " Warming up" and then our first approach comes.

Situation: I see a girl in a cute dress I held eye contact with while I was walking and also notice that she is in the same place she was in before Arigatoo and I walked around once. She has on a cute dress so she will be HBCute Dress, she is accompanied by an UG friend so she will be UGWho gives a Fvxk

SouLeeian: Yo, we walked all the way around the fair and you guys are still in the same spot!
HBCute dress: Yeah I know, I'm waiting for my boyfriend
SouLeeian: That's cool, but in the meantime your talking to us
Now the rest was fluff really, but as i Left I say
SouLeeian: Alright peace, But if I see you in the same spot again im gonna beat your ass
HBCute dress&UGWho gives a Fvck: Hahahaha okay.

Now, one of the more notable things to take from this is mainly the opener. It was situational and didn't give any power away from myself as opposed to opening with a chodey line like " I like your dress". THAT is BAD, not saying that it can't work, but it is bad, it gives away power and , makes you seem low value. On with the story. Arigatoo and I Keep walking around and Arigatoo says his cousin Jarell wants to come and Sarge with us, so we go pick him up and go back to sarging. As we are together walking in a group I am standing in the middle of them and I come up with the most Gangster approach of the night.

WARNING: Don't try and unless you don't give a FVCK!
So this one is called the "Tricycle". And It comes upon me as I am walking in the middle of Arigatoo and Jarell. This is what happens The person standing in the middle puts his arms around the others neck and lifts himself up as he starts peddling in the air with his feet, as his "Wheels" (The ones carrying him) Drop him off at the set. I start doing this jokingly and then my friends are like "Yeah, do it man!". We try it once. It Fails. Miserably. We try it again except not me this time. It Fails. Miserably. we try it a last time, and... The girls looked and IMMEDIATELY put there heads down and dodged like they saw a plague spreading and we were the source. LOL. But it doesn't matter anyways we got a kick out of this.

The Sublime concert was ending and Jarell had left, but Jimmy and Victor rejoined us and we started sarging from that point.

Situation: We see these Three *****es (HBMiss America(8.7), a 7.5, and and UG) We ALL looked at each other and Made a U-Turn. We approach and start some talk, Turns out they were all beauty queens, but as Arigatoo and I both realize we are giving all our attention to HBMiss America so we disperse to the other girls and let Victor handle HBMiss America. He ends up Number closing, but he did it like a chode. Haha. At any rate, that gave us some good state.

The Last approach for the night was made minutes later as we stayed in the same area we were in by some ride. What had happened was I see some girl (HBBlack) giving me HEAVY IOI's while I am walking, namely Eye contact for extensive periods of time. The thing was, she was in a group, so I turned to Arigatoo and say " You got my back?" He replies with a " Fa sho" and we are on our way, But as I turn around I see that she is right next to us about to walk away. So I straight up clawed her xD. I pull her towards me.

SouLeeian: Hi
HBBlack: Uhmm, Your cute. Giggles*
After this she tries to walk away while her hand still belongs to me, It was then that my claw evolved from being one of those Weenie claws you try to win stuffed animals from and became a Pincer (http://guidesmedia.ign.com/guides/9846/images/pinsir.gif) as i pull her back and say:
SouLeeian: What is this? A compliment drive by? Get the hell Over here.
HBBlack: Giggles*
We start some fluff, One thing that was cool was that I had such high value and back then my conversation wasn't that good so i was basically just riding off my value. I ended up number closing, not intentionally, and I didn't save the number because at this time I still had a girlfriend at the time. We also take a picture together and that was that. After this Victor tells me he know her and that apparantly she like black guys... (HBBLACK) xD

Some stuff about this. At this time i was about a month or so into the DJ website so my reality and Alot of hings still weren't strong. I just knew the book of Pook really and that i am the greatest "catch". But all n all I Leveled up that night and had alot of fun. I'll start updating some more recent things soon so the growth can be seen, but until then, Sarge on brothers.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

The Last approach for the night was made minutes later as we stayed in the same area we were in by some ride. What had happened was I see some girl (HBBlack) giving me HEAVY IOI's while I am walking, namely Eye contact for extensive periods of time. The thing was, she was in a group, so I turned to Arigatoo and say " You got my back?" He replies with a " Fa sho" and we are on our way, But as I turn around I see that she is right next to us about to walk away. So I straight up clawed her xD. I pull her towards me.

SouLeeian: Hi
HBBlack: Uhmm, Your cute. Giggles*
After this she tries to walk away while her hand still belongs to me, It was then that my claw evolved from being one of those Weenie claws you try to win stuffed animals from and became a Pincer (http://guidesmedia.ign.com/guides/9846/images/pinsir.gif) as i pull her back and say:
SouLeeian: What is this? A compliment drive by? ****ING YES Get the hell Over here.
HBBlack: Giggles*
This is where you may pull her in for the kiss. Pure ****ing man style.

I like this stuff dude.
I can identify so much with the "She's walking away, while her hand belongs to me" Damn, you'd know if you've read my journal. Just spin her back into your arms, this is often where you go very direct. On another note, I can't believe how well filtering girls with your hands (high5's, holding hands etc) works when I think of it. Hah.

 

[SouLeeian]

Yeah, the thing is back then I was new to these concepts and it was hard for me to really grasp what to do. If I were to replay i'd definitely kiss her now, but it sall good. And I started to read your journal Ironically the day after this. xD

 

[AJ-47]

hey souleeian how dark are u on a scale of 1 to 10.