The Digital Blocking Game

[logicallefty]

I recently ended a STR with a 39yo BPD/sociopath/psychopath that I saw for about a month. WOW.

All I can say is that I am glad I didn't date her earlier in life like 10 years ago when she first got the hots for me. (I posted about her in MM subform a few weeks ago)... I thank all you brothers here on SS, along with my personal experiences too, for getting me the knowledge that I have today so I knew to eject when I did. Or this would have gone really, really bad! So, back to topic:

I ended the STR. She left one item at my house and wanted me to bring it to her. It's a pretty big item she was storing there for her daughter for Christmas. I said no, have someone you know come pick it up at a time they arrange with me, but don't come yourself... She said she would have one of her orbiters who is a cop come get it. I said great idea, I know him and would be great to see him again (I am a cop too, as most know). Then she back peddled on him coming... Then I said "I don't care who you send so long as it isn't yourself. But tell whichever orbiter you send that they need to be nice to me, fake it if they have to, or I will physically escort them off my property and they will not get your stuff"... She turned that into "You threatened me and my friends, I am going to call the Sheriff on you for threats!".. I sent her one final text and told her to never contact me again, EVER... I blocked her on FB and thru my cell provider. A bit later she calls me from another number... Told me that blocking her was "immature" and that she "never blocks anybody" because she is a bigger adult than that.... She started crying, screaming, that she didn't want it to end like this... I said "well it's ending like this, I never want anything to do with you again but I will give you your stuff back if you send someone to get it per our original conversation"... She finally said "OK, ok, can you at least unblock me on FB so we can discuss how I can get my stuff".. I went ahead and did that later in the night because I wanted our conversation to be in writing and not by phone.... Then messaged her on FB and said I would take her stuff to a store in which her mother works which is right by where I work, but that's as far as I was going to go with it... Then, she never responded, and blocked me!! After just telling me that blocking her was immature!!!

WOW, just wow.. Anyone else ever seen this blocking BS? I think she only wanted me to unblock her so she could block me and have "the last" because that's what crazy 39yo brats do.. WOW, just wow!!

 

[blind_one]

WOWW, you dodged a bullet there. Your final assumption is spot on imho, she wanted some ''psychopatic closure'' by ending it with a block haha. Well played.

 

[dustmuffin]

She taught you a lesson....She is the blocker not you! TAke that!

 

[Desdinova]

Wow, didn't take long for that one to turn into 5hit!

The whole blocking/unblocking situation has been interesting to me to say the least. I've had chicks whom I've easily written off block me. I've also had chicks block and unblock me repeatedly, even though I'm no longer in contact with them. Blocking makes a woman feel like she's in control of the situation and her emotions. They get mad when you take that away from them by blocking them yourself.

I ended the STR. She left one item at my house and wanted me to bring it to her. It's a pretty big item she was storing there for her daughter for Christmas. I said no, have someone you know come pick it up at a time they arrange with me, but don't come yourself...

With regards to giving a woman's stuff back, there's a lesson I've learned a long time ago... Get her stuff back to her in the most efficient way possible. I usually like dropping it off on their doorstep in the wee hours of the night, or sending it through the mail. Sure the mail costs money, but it gets the fvcking job done. NEVER put the responsibility of returning her stuff in her hands. It will never get done and she will drag it out as long as possible. This goes hand-in-hand with blocking; she feels like she's in control of the situation.

Take the control away from her. Block her ass and send back her 5hit through the mail.

 

[nismo-4]

I laughed!

She just wanted control one more time. There is a reason why I tell men to delete a woman from all platforms, and block if it helps.

You dodged a bullet. I had a 51 y.o. b**ch like this. Sweet, but tried to belittle me a lot. I just feel bad I kissed her. It took me a lot not to throw her ass out the car halfway home. Oh yeah, she kept talking like she was my driver's ed teacher. Until I pulled over, cut the car off, and told her to get the f**k out.

I knew I had to get rid of her because I would have eventually busted her lip.

Every woman is crazy. How much crazy do you want to put up with? That's the question.

 

[El Payaso]

What a nutjob. Very good on you for recognizing her craziness and having the guts to end it.

 

[ubercat]

Well played you did the right thing and handled her tantrums nicely at the same time. And good idea dealing with her in writing. My friend had an intervention order taken out against him, got marched of his own property. That froze his access to the joint account where had a lot of money. Of course you never know what happens in a relationship but I don't believe it he's British very polite and very respectful of women.

Yeah of course this wasn't an ltr but still a good idea to deal in writing. They love using the system against you anytime their egos are damaged.

 

[Sprayarc]

Most women are petty. She just wanted to "win".

 

[logicallefty]

I have an update to this that's gonna give you guys even more laughs..

She and I went to the same school up to like 4th grade but how we hooked up this time was through a good male friend of mine who used to live in Illinois until a year ago and moved to Texas. She was his property at one time but now they are just good friends too. When I got out of my last LTR he told her "Lefty is single, you better make your move quick because he don't stay single long".. So he gave her my FB page info. I have a FB page with a fake name for several reasons and only my good, good, closest friends know about it. Anyway..

I messaged him earlier today in Texas and respectfully asked him to not ever say my name to her because I didn't want her to even remember my existance...And that she gave me too much dejavu compared to my other crazy exes. In a joking way because thats how he is, he said "I coulda' told you she was crazy.. She loves to be chased.. I thought you would have fun chasing her!". WTF!!! I said "There in lies the problem bro, I didn't chase her at all, I turned around and walked when she started her crap..." He said "Serves you right for trying to fvck her! haha".. I said "Oh, I did fvck her, but it wasn't that great I have had so much better".. He said "You want more of my leftovers up there? Want me to tell you some of my other crazy exes who are single?" I said "haha no thanks brother but I will go my own way.. I can find my own crazy pvssy next time don't need help!" Then we started talking about other stuff.

What a "d|ckhead"! My buddy knew what he was setting me up for. Just funny I dont think he thought I would ever actually catch it, but I railed her 3x. haha

 

[Sprayarc]

I have an update to this that's gonna give you guys even more laughs..

She and I went to the same school up to like 4th grade but how we hooked up this time was through a good male friend of mine who used to live in Illinois until a year ago and moved to Texas. She was his property at one time but now they are just good friends too. When I got out of my last LTR he told her "Lefty is single, you better make your move quick because he don't stay single long".. So he gave her my FB page info. I have a FB page with a fake name for several reasons and only my good, good, closest friends know about it. Anyway..

I messaged him earlier today in Texas and respectfully asked him to not ever say my name to her because I didn't want her to even remember my existance...And that she gave me too much dejavu compared to my other crazy exes. In a joking way because thats how he is, he said "I coulda' told you she was crazy.. She loves to be chased.. I thought you would have fun chasing her!". WTF!!! I said "There in lies the problem bro, I didn't chase her at all, I turned around and walked when she started her crap..." He said "Serves you right for trying to fvck her! haha".. I said "Oh, I did fvck her, but it wasn't that great I have had so much better".. He said "You want more of my leftovers up there? Want me to tell you some of my other crazy exes who are single?" I said "haha no thanks brother but I will go my own way.. I can find my own crazy pvssy next time don't need help!" Then we started talking about other stuff.

What a "d|ckhead"! My buddy knew what he was setting me up for. Just funny I dont think he thought I would ever actually catch it, but I railed her 3x. haha

Your friend is kinda fvcked up.