Desdinova said:
So last night I went out for my birthday. I had designated drivers lined up to take me home, but the hostess (who's a HB7.5) begged to drive me home (she's got a bf). She had a dude hanging around her all night and was insisting that he was going to her place after closing time.
Dude followed her all the way to my place. On the way, she was telling me that 5hit like this is a regular occurrence for her. When we arrived, I invited her in and assured her I could blast a potato into the side of his car with my spud gun, but she told me she could lose him on the way home which was on the other side of town. Turns out she wasn't able to, so she drove to a friend's place for safety. He sat outside, waiting for her for 10 minutes before he took off.
This 5hit just blows me away. How in hell is it that guys can't realize that this is creepy and unattractive? He probably wasted 1/4 tank of gas stalking this chick.
I don't know Des, you should be careful with dealing with any type of chick that says she has stuff like this happen on a regular occurrence and the ONLY thing she does is drive through a few side streets or use other driving maneuvers to try and "lose" the guy, instead of picking up her damn cell phone to call 9-11 like any REASONABLE person would do. A person following you home could be doing so to kill you, rape you, rob you, whatever. That shyt is serious.
From your viewpoint and our view from reading the story, yes, it appears as though the guy might have been drunk/high off something as well as desperate. But who knows? Could have been a guy a chick was using to set you up to get robbed (with him finding out where you stay), or it could be an Attention ***** type of chick that gets guys to do this for some reason, I don't know?
What I DO know, is that any reasonable chick that had a situation like this happening on a recurring basis would not just brush it off like that. She would have it reported, especially if the SAME GUY did it more than once.