The Dating Power Flip at Age 30

[BadBoy89]

An article about the dating “power flip” at 30. Women have the power in their 20s, lose some of it in their 30s and all of it in 40s.

The Dating Power Flip at Age 30

Talking to many women like her, it’s intriguing how many look back on past relationships where they let good men get away because they weren’t ready

danielmiessler.com

Thoughts?

 

[Willie Naylor]

An article about the dating “power flip” at 30. Women have the power in their 20s, lose some of it in their 30s and all of it in 40s.

The Dating Power Flip at Age 30

Talking to many women like her, it’s intriguing how many look back on past relationships where they let good men get away because they weren’t ready

danielmiessler.com

Thoughts?

Between 28-30, all women who are still single have an 'Epiphany.'

At this point, they become the pursuers. They know their biological clock is ticking.

 

[Plinco]

An article about the dating “power flip” at 30. Women have the power in their 20s, lose some of it in their 30s and all of it in 40s.

The Dating Power Flip at Age 30

Talking to many women like her, it’s intriguing how many look back on past relationships where they let good men get away because they weren’t ready

danielmiessler.com

Thoughts?

That's a concept that needs context. If I have no need for sex with any particular woman, regardless of my age, then I would have all of the power.

 

[Alvafe]

meh his obervations(conclusions) are weak all the rest is just observations you get when you understand how dating works


the other link of his on the original article are more interesting

 

[Robert28]

So why do women seem to become miserable spinsters at 35 and beyond?

 

[Willie Naylor]

So why do women seem to become miserable spinsters at 35 and beyond?

I don't know. Send a DM to your fellow pessimists here and figure it out.

 

[EyeBRollin]

So why do women seem to become miserable spinsters at 35 and beyond?

Because they struck out. Only desperate simps want them by then.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Age pill is a cope

 

[2Rocky]

So by this theory women (single, childless) should be easier to date in their 30's, but in practice they are harder. They don't need to rely on a man because they have their own money, and have 12-15 years of independent decision making and are not going to let "some guy" tell them what to do.

Up until now there is always a few guys willing to treat them like a princess, if she keeps her mouth shut and looks good on his boat or in his pickup.. That doesn't cut it for her anymore. And they have met and dated (once) all these Basement dwellers who moved back in with Mom and are looking for someone to cook them breakfast and do their laundry. All their friends are married and too busy to go out to the places they used to go. Her social circle shrinks...The only growth comes from work and newly divorced people her age.

She can't date a single dad long term, because she has no parenting experience, or qualification or desire to mom a kid or tween. She's never bonded to a child. She hates competing for single dad's time with his child, and career, and his buddies. She gets P'n'D'ed a lot. This is why I DQ'ed the single/divorced childless women as LTR's .

I think single childless guys in their 40's can have success with 30 year old childless professional women if they date them on weekends and live separately. He is gonna have to earn more than her for her to respect him. They are each others dates for events for years but never move in together because they are both too independent...

The women who seemed to me to chase harder were mothers in their 40's trying to relive their younger carefree days. Often their 30's were hell as a single mother to little kids. Especially if they didn't have a support system of family to help with them. Once those kids are in High school, they can meet the divorced dads who appreciate their struggle, (and have a little more time since kids are kinda independant) .

Just my observations within my social circles....

 

[EyeBRollin]

So by this theory women (single, childless) should be easier to date in their 30's, but in practice they are harder. They don't need to rely on a man because they have their own money, and have 12-15 years of independent decision making and are not going to let "some guy" tell them what to do.

Up until now there is always a few guys willing to treat them like a princess, if she keeps her mouth shut and looks good on his boat or in his pickup.. That doesn't cut it for her anymore. And they have met and dated (once) all these Basement dwellers who moved back in with Mom and are looking for someone to cook them breakfast and do their laundry. All their friends are married and too busy to go out to the places they used to go. Her social circle shrinks...The only growth comes from work and newly divorced people her age.

She can't date a single dad long term, because she has no parenting experience, or qualification or desire to mom a kid or tween. She's never bonded to a child. She hates competing for single dad's time with his child, and career, and his buddies. She gets P'n'D'ed a lot. This is why I DQ'ed the single/divorced childless women as LTR's .

I think single childless guys in their 40's can have success with 30 year old childless professional women if they date them on weekends and live separately. He is gonna have to earn more than her for her to respect him. They are each others dates for events for years but never move in together because they are both too independent...

The women who seemed to me to chase harder were mothers in their 40's trying to relive their younger carefree days. Often their 30's were hell as a single mother to little kids. Especially if they didn't have a support system of family to help with them. Once those kids are in High school, they can meet the divorced dads who appreciate their struggle, (and have a little more time since kids are kinda independant) .

Just my observations within my social circles....

This observation is spot on. Consistent with what I’ve noticed dating women in both the 20s and 30s. In their 30s they make good poon buddies. They are like men when it comes to casual sex. By the 30s they have taken so many dvcks it’s impossible to pair bond. They hunt dvck just as aggressively as we hunt poon.

 

[SW15]

Less so nowadays.

I agree. As a 38 year old who has dated slightly younger women, I have not noticed this too drastically. Childless women in their 30s are still drastically chased, especially on swipe apps. The typical 30-35 year old woman has more prospects between her swipe apps and her Insta/Twitter/LinkedIn DMs than she knows how to handle. She also doesn't have to leave her place to generate prospects, unlike what women in her in place in life had to do 20 years ago.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

An article about the dating “power flip” at 30. Women have the power in their 20s, lose some of it in their 30s and all of it in 40s.

The Dating Power Flip at Age 30

Talking to many women like her, it’s intriguing how many look back on past relationships where they let good men get away because they weren’t ready

danielmiessler.com

Thoughts?

Modern women or as I like to call them, crash dummies are hilarious.

Decade + of pickup, game, rampaging. Look through a college or high school year book and compare in 2022? It's HILARIOUS. I don't understand why fellas have AA. The hottest girl today is a broken rubber or donut away from expired.

F&f despite their f ups had a short pointing out the pill + society eliminates disaster for women UNTIL IT'S TOO LATE. A lot of girls are too far gone even acres 23. I know girls weighing in after 40kg having gone full retard. 30 is when it's blatantly apparent. 40 it's a cemetery but the kickback starts soon times. They just don't see repercussions until the game is over.

So, sit back with that smug look on your face. Sniper approach. Enjoy the decline. Pillage what you can. Watch the world burn FROM AFAR. Get in the lane of thriving. In the words of NC (nomad capitalist) go where you are treated best. This goes for sovereignty, taxes, culture, lifestyle, women, etc.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I agree. As a 38 year old who has dated slightly younger women, I have not noticed this too drastically. Childless women in their 30s are still drastically chased, especially on swipe apps. The typical 30-35 year old woman has more prospects between her swipe apps and her Insta/Twitter/LinkedIn DMs than she knows how to handle. She also doesn't have to leave her place to generate prospects, unlike what women in her in place in life had to do 20 years ago.

True but they are delusional as ****kkkk. They think that the investment banker or footballer wants to raise some other man's kids. They conflate guys want to smash with landing a whale. It's comedy. Not much younger than you. On my early 30s, I can't fathom dealing with my age or god forbid older. A girl blew me in a parked car age 26 and blonde. I was annoyed with myself for not getting younger. Again my d won't suck itself. It is lock down and I am still putting in work. Just really prioritizing my pursuit toward individual sovereignty like you playboy.

Fortunately you are doing it right. You don't live in a place that's gone full retard.

 

[HaleyBaron]

There's a reason I like women closer to 18. Less ruined by the world, and lacking of experience makes them more fun and have less baggage. I have a couple 19-20 year olds right now testing the waters with me with flirting. Though as you get older, you come to realize eventually I'm going to turn them into a ***** cause I won't commit. The dillemma as a moral man.

 

[SW15]

True but they are delusional as ****kkkk. They think that the investment banker or footballer wants to raise some other man's kids.

Both childless women and single moms in their 30s are delusional.

There are many childless men who end up committing to single moms. These are low value men. I avoid single moms.

They conflate guys want to smash with landing a whale. It's comedy. Not much younger than you. On my early 30s, I can't fathom dealing with my age or god forbid older. A girl blew me in a parked car age 26 and blonde. I was annoyed with myself for not getting younger. Again my d won't suck itself. It is lock down and I am still putting in work. Just really prioritizing my pursuit toward individual sovereignty like you playboy.

Starting in my mid to late 20s, I would avoid women older than me.

Most guys would be happy with a blowie from a 26 year old woman in a parking lot. You were annoyed. This is good because you have abundance mindset.

 

[The Duke]

As long as a woman's value is her looks, then certainly most lose power by their late 40's.

 

[Alvafe]

So by this theory women (single, childless) should be easier to date in their 30's, but in practice they are harder. They don't need to rely on a man because they have their own money, and have 12-15 years of independent decision making and are not going to let "some guy" tell them what to do.

Up until now there is always a few guys willing to treat them like a princess, if she keeps her mouth shut and looks good on his boat or in his pickup.. That doesn't cut it for her anymore. And they have met and dated (once) all these Basement dwellers who moved back in with Mom and are looking for someone to cook them breakfast and do their laundry. All their friends are married and too busy to go out to the places they used to go. Her social circle shrinks...The only growth comes from work and newly divorced people her age.

She can't date a single dad long term, because she has no parenting experience, or qualification or desire to mom a kid or tween. She's never bonded to a child. She hates competing for single dad's time with his child, and career, and his buddies. She gets P'n'D'ed a lot. This is why I DQ'ed the single/divorced childless women as LTR's .

I think single childless guys in their 40's can have success with 30 year old childless professional women if they date them on weekends and live separately. He is gonna have to earn more than her for her to respect him. They are each others dates for events for years but never move in together because they are both too independent...

The women who seemed to me to chase harder were mothers in their 40's trying to relive their younger carefree days. Often their 30's were hell as a single mother to little kids. Especially if they didn't have a support system of family to help with them. Once those kids are in High school, they can meet the divorced dads who appreciate their struggle, (and have a little more time since kids are kinda independant) .

Just my observations within my social circles....

just a little quick note, even a guy in his 40 who is sucessfull can pull a 20, with money alone so again why waste time on a 30? now if the guy have 50+ and want to waste time then I can see it happening

 

[Bingo-Player]

So why do women seem to become miserable spinsters at 35 and beyond?

Women aren't really built to live alone without partners despite what they say , a real man can just about cope without becoming to sour if he hasn't been fvcked around too badly

For me alarm bells are ringing as to why a valuable good looking girl in her 30's would be single ......other than an unexpected break up i can't really see any

She's either a single mother , been too fussy/demanding in her 20's (this is the worst) or she's enjoyed being a wh0re in her 20's ( again bad news)

Throughout this entire year i have met 1 girl that i would consider dating and she was 20 , i could tell she hadn't been too badly fvcked up by the dating enviroment

All the others I've met have been damaged goods or trash

 

[SW15]

As long as a woman's value is her looks, then certainly most lose power by their late 40's.

There are women 50+ on Match and OurTime with flooded inboxes from men in their age brackets. It might never end.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

There are women 50+ on Match and OurTime with flooded inboxes from men in their age brackets. It might never end.

It won’t end and you are a smart and unraveled man because you can acknowledge this. Just continue to live your life and not constantly be bitter from drinking the sour age pill copium kool aid.