The club scene

[Nerdy_A]

I was at a rave party the other night and I made it my goal to talk to 5 girls. Take in mind I have no experience what so ever with hitting on girls in the club scene. I know i'm going to do better next time. One question is how do you guys keep the coversations going and built rapport with the loud music? That's one of the problems I had, and how do you go about a number close since you only have a limited time set to talk to someone due to the music?

One of the girls I approached was a HB10, I was nervous as hell because I don't approach HB10s, but the music was loud so it masked my voice. But when I went beside her to say hi she was actually really sweet and nice, she smiled and looked so happy that someone actually approached her. I was nervous, I went and said,hi, I just wanted to come over and say that I really like your hair. at this point her face brightens up and smiles deeply. I then put my hand on the top of her head and say, but it's a little messy at the top. haha, at that pointed she got real nervous and put her hand on her head and turned to her friend to ask if her hair was ok. The look on her face was priceless. She kept coming around me that night, but I didn't have the balls to approach and say hi again, I know I did wrong, but it was my first club approach and next ttime i know it'll be better from experience.

I did another neg hit on another girl looked offended and totally ignored me out of the conversation haha dumb girls

 

[JackPrescott]

"Party Girls" are an enigma. On the one hand, they are sexy and desireable, and really fun. On the other hand, they seem "asexual" they would MUCH rather bump and grind on the dance floor, and basically f*** a man or woman on the dance floor to the hypnotic music than really do anything REAL in the bedroom, they seem to want to dance all night till 2AM, then go home where the party continues, get into their PJs drink with the pals until 5, and then go to bed....ALONE...

WTF?

 

[belividere]

congrats on the field work. You actually messed up this girls hair? I would have loved to see that.

I was nervous as hell because I don't approach HB10s

you do now. Keep it up.

 

[PRMoon]

IMO loud music in a club is a very good reason to press up on a girl. I've never had any trouble talking in a club, regardless of the music but I've been clubbing for years now. If you don't know how to talk over the music, then just bring her in close, like you're going to whisper in her ear, and just speak like you would normally.

Getting numbers should be no different then it would be anywhere else. I'll usually get a number after I've danced with a girl and we've had some drinks together. Other times I'll walk out with a girl and get her number outside of the club. If I end up in her hotel room later that night, then obviously she's going to give me her number without me even asking.

Confidence is key in a club. The girls pick up on the guys who know what they're doing and fiends who are just there. Clubs are fun if you know how to work them right.