new (to me) club tip
My first post ever so bare with me:
I just went out last weekend and came up with a new line to hit on groups of ladies. This might not be as relevant to the OP, more for the 21+ clubs. Some of you may know this already, but for those of you who dont, read on.
Background information:
Dress NICE. As if you worked at the club. I had on a nice black dress shirt with a blazer and dark jeans. You
KINDA wanna seem like you work at the club, but not too much. Works great if you have no wingman.
Background info on myself:
Fresh out of a LTR (5 years). haven't been in the field/club scene in AGES. not the smoothest talker or the greatest conversationalist. Only been on this site for 2 weeks but have learned a TON. Noob to the forum, about a 5 on the Don Juan meter, with 1 being too afraid to talk to girls, and 10 being George Clooney. about a 6-7 in the looks category. Goal for the night was to just meet to groups of girls. Being in a LTR of 5 years, i lost contact with a lot of girl friends, so it was rebuilding time.
So here it is.
I get into the club pretty early and it starts to fill up. I Look for any groups of girls and just walk up to them. Use the 3 second rule so that you dont have time to think. Just 1.2.3. go. I say " hello ladies, my name is Wha, I'm going to be your host tonight. I'm just here to make sure you girls have a good time." From here, you can throw in some small talk if you want. Ask em how they're doing, what the occasion is for tonight, etc. After I say, "ok, are you guys ready to have fun?" then I tell them to follow me as if I'm going to be walking them over to the VIP section, but instead, I walk them over to the dance floor. Wave them all over and start dancing with all of them. You'll get confused looks from some girls and they'll be thinking "wtf, does this guy work here or are we being played for fools?" When they ask you, just give em a wink or just smile and shrug. After a little dancing, I leave them, telling them I'll be back later.
Then just leave and work on the next group of girls. Sat night, I did this to three groups of girls, it would have been more but I had to leave to meet up some other friends at a bar.
Anyways, this was great and worked like a charm. By the time i had to go, I worked girls from almost every corner of the club. When they see me walking past, they give me a shout out. I got a couple of "Where have you been!", "I'm ready to have fun", "your a bad host"(in a fun flirting tone from the first group that I wasnt back to in a while). Like I said, this worked like a charm. I only tried to number close 2 girls, but only got one. But it wasnt bad for 2 hours of clubbin. Some of you might think,"2 hours and only 1 number?!?!", but I'm a little picky on the girls i try to close on and needless to say, I had a blast all night. Just go out and have fun with it. it's always fun when girls you dont even know are tapping you in the back, making comments and trying to get your attention.
Just keep in mind the 4 C's i made up. always stay calm, cool, collective and most importantly of all CONFIDENT.
I'm not sure if others know this trick, but it was new to me. A light bulb just went off and boy did i have fun with it. It worked great and definitely broke the ice instantly. I felt like a genius. Like I mentioned earlier, I was out of the scene/game for a long time. This was a great way to jump right back into it and use it as a confidence booster. I think if I ended up with Zero numbers I woulda been happy because I had such a blast all night. But that isnt the Don Juan train of mind. Always at least TRY to close. I never made a rejection anymore fun. Feel free to use this, add your twist to it, take it word for word or whatever floats your boat. Just go out and have fun.
p.s. dont burn it out. I'm work the asians in the San Diego area. haha jk, but not really
To the OP. I would just work the eye contact. If you catch a girl's eye, just hold it and smile at her until she looks away. That's when I would approach and just say hi. If your bold, say "Hi, how are you,....lets dance". I've stopped asking for dances, I tell them to dance, in a fun inviting tone of course, not a mean, demanding tone. Just last weekend, I went out and was holding eye contact with a girl that would
NOT look away. It was pretty weird, but intense. Her friend noticed us and actually grabed her and threw her over towards me. And we started talking and dancing. it was kinda weird but kinda funny. Most importantly for you and your age, just go out and have fun. Stay confident and know that you are the man. If you arent good at dancing, you need to start practicing now. Know the beat and know how to bounce with it by the time you go on your spring break, and just experiment with girls you dance with. Hope this helps.
-Don Wha