penkitten
Master Don Juan
i would like to take this opportunity to tell you a story that recently occurred at the apartments i manage.
there is a couple that live together. he is smart enough to survive in the world, but a terrible judge when it comes to mating. she is... a weirdo.
he had previously been with a psycho, who has custody of his daughter, and he has custody of their twin boys. there is no child support exchanged and she rarely visits her boys and he has the daughter more than half of the time. him and the weirdo have one toddler together.
a few months prior, weirdo left him because she got hooked on prescription pain meds and went home to her mother with the baby. he did just fine while she was gone. but she came back, and he took her right back.
right after that, he was gone to work, i was off sick and another maintenance man was off sick, she begged the other maintenance man to help her carry something down the steps because of her bad health. a neighbor witnessed him carry the tv downstairs and leave.
she waits until the middle of the night to call my house to inform me that said maintenance man pulled her shirt and looked at her tits.
the neighbor witness says he did not.
she had a meeting with my boss, and the maintenance man and her were to have no more contact, which means that man can't fix anything in their apartment anymore.
the guy stands up for her, but doesn't believe her so he asks that the maintenance guy does not loose his job.
about four months pass. he takes a new job for better benefits and then she needs some emergency surgery and he takes off work. it is all too much for him and he has a nervous breakdown. he goes to a dr for help, they tell him he has to drive to this place for group therapy everyday for the next 30 days. he looses his job in the process.
i get a message on my myspace from her stating she left him two weeks ago because he was no longer working. blah blah blah . she is home bored and lonely because she dropped the baby off with him for the weekend.
the next day, gio and i had plans so we get a girl next door to them to watch our daughter.
when we get there to pick up our daughter at 10 pm, weirdo girl is outside cursing the guy acting very psychotic. she says he will never see the baby again.
he is brow beaten into a corner. i have to make this chick leave.
she left speeding 60 miles an hour in a 10mph zone with no license or insurance with the toddler. high on those meds.
she comes back, and he has left for the night.
she uses her key (because she is still on the lease) goes inside.
she kicks in 2 doors that he will have to pay for.
she smashes a cable box and telephone because those bills were in her name.
she throws his stuff everywhere and takes all her stuff out.
she threw the fish tank across the place.
she used windex to spray on the walls where his kids artwork and pictures are hanging.
she leaves a note stating he will never see the baby again.
she posts it on myspace along with threats.
the police say there is nothing he can do, because she is on the lease.
he asks me to take her off, but unless she willingly signs off the lease, he will need a court order from a judge.
he goes to get an emergency protection order and temporary custody order. they deny him. said he couldn't have one unless he was afraid for his life.
said the judge felt like he did not have enough proof that she couldn't take care of their child.
he came to me and cried.
he doesn't want her home, he just wants his daughter safe.
his kids are hurt and confused by her actions, and he does not have it in him to do this again.
then she came back the next night and he could not get her to leave. the police could not force her to leave and she brought the baby as bait.
the neighbors concur that she yelled all night "I DONT WANT TO LEAVE I WANNA STAY WITH YOU!"
she was still there when i got to work the next day.
he came back in the office and cried again. he said give me the paper she needs to sign so she can leave because she is too embarrassed to come in herself. he says he can't go on this way.
an hour later, she comes in and says he wants her to stay.
i give her the manager/tenant speech about damages and disturbances.
then i gave her the you ought to be ashamed of yourself speech.
he comes in the next day, head held down in shame.
i asked him what was going on, and he said i guess i got tired of the fight and just agreed she could stay because i couldn't fight anymore.
i told him the manager/tenant speech about damages and disturbances.
then i asked him what will he do next time she looses it and starts leaving and damaging crap because she got away with it?
he said if it didn't work out he was going to move out himself, then he admits that he already told her it wasn't going to work, but she wouldn't stop crying and begging.
this guy, did not even have a chance to disconnect fully from the matrix, before he got plugged back in.
i feel sorry for this brow beaten man, who actually tries hard to provide for his family, doesn't act a fool, to have gotten stuck with some one that treats him worse than a dirty sock.
moral to the story: get to know yourself first. get to know someone you date before you fall for them and start a family with them.
and once they threaten to never let you see your child again, TAKE IT TO COURT!
there is a couple that live together. he is smart enough to survive in the world, but a terrible judge when it comes to mating. she is... a weirdo.
he had previously been with a psycho, who has custody of his daughter, and he has custody of their twin boys. there is no child support exchanged and she rarely visits her boys and he has the daughter more than half of the time. him and the weirdo have one toddler together.
a few months prior, weirdo left him because she got hooked on prescription pain meds and went home to her mother with the baby. he did just fine while she was gone. but she came back, and he took her right back.
right after that, he was gone to work, i was off sick and another maintenance man was off sick, she begged the other maintenance man to help her carry something down the steps because of her bad health. a neighbor witnessed him carry the tv downstairs and leave.
she waits until the middle of the night to call my house to inform me that said maintenance man pulled her shirt and looked at her tits.
the neighbor witness says he did not.
she had a meeting with my boss, and the maintenance man and her were to have no more contact, which means that man can't fix anything in their apartment anymore.
the guy stands up for her, but doesn't believe her so he asks that the maintenance guy does not loose his job.
about four months pass. he takes a new job for better benefits and then she needs some emergency surgery and he takes off work. it is all too much for him and he has a nervous breakdown. he goes to a dr for help, they tell him he has to drive to this place for group therapy everyday for the next 30 days. he looses his job in the process.
i get a message on my myspace from her stating she left him two weeks ago because he was no longer working. blah blah blah . she is home bored and lonely because she dropped the baby off with him for the weekend.
the next day, gio and i had plans so we get a girl next door to them to watch our daughter.
when we get there to pick up our daughter at 10 pm, weirdo girl is outside cursing the guy acting very psychotic. she says he will never see the baby again.
he is brow beaten into a corner. i have to make this chick leave.
she left speeding 60 miles an hour in a 10mph zone with no license or insurance with the toddler. high on those meds.
she comes back, and he has left for the night.
she uses her key (because she is still on the lease) goes inside.
she kicks in 2 doors that he will have to pay for.
she smashes a cable box and telephone because those bills were in her name.
she throws his stuff everywhere and takes all her stuff out.
she threw the fish tank across the place.
she used windex to spray on the walls where his kids artwork and pictures are hanging.
she leaves a note stating he will never see the baby again.
she posts it on myspace along with threats.
the police say there is nothing he can do, because she is on the lease.
he asks me to take her off, but unless she willingly signs off the lease, he will need a court order from a judge.
he goes to get an emergency protection order and temporary custody order. they deny him. said he couldn't have one unless he was afraid for his life.
said the judge felt like he did not have enough proof that she couldn't take care of their child.
he came to me and cried.
he doesn't want her home, he just wants his daughter safe.
his kids are hurt and confused by her actions, and he does not have it in him to do this again.
then she came back the next night and he could not get her to leave. the police could not force her to leave and she brought the baby as bait.
the neighbors concur that she yelled all night "I DONT WANT TO LEAVE I WANNA STAY WITH YOU!"
she was still there when i got to work the next day.
he came back in the office and cried again. he said give me the paper she needs to sign so she can leave because she is too embarrassed to come in herself. he says he can't go on this way.
an hour later, she comes in and says he wants her to stay.
i give her the manager/tenant speech about damages and disturbances.
then i gave her the you ought to be ashamed of yourself speech.
he comes in the next day, head held down in shame.
i asked him what was going on, and he said i guess i got tired of the fight and just agreed she could stay because i couldn't fight anymore.
i told him the manager/tenant speech about damages and disturbances.
then i asked him what will he do next time she looses it and starts leaving and damaging crap because she got away with it?
he said if it didn't work out he was going to move out himself, then he admits that he already told her it wasn't going to work, but she wouldn't stop crying and begging.
this guy, did not even have a chance to disconnect fully from the matrix, before he got plugged back in.
i feel sorry for this brow beaten man, who actually tries hard to provide for his family, doesn't act a fool, to have gotten stuck with some one that treats him worse than a dirty sock.
moral to the story: get to know yourself first. get to know someone you date before you fall for them and start a family with them.
and once they threaten to never let you see your child again, TAKE IT TO COURT!
