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Don Juan
Before I begin, I want to say I'm not a bitter, jealous, angry, or racist person or anything remotely negative in making this post. In No way is this intended to make this a hate topic or offend the owners of this site. If this post is to be deleted or even get me banned by the mods, I guess I shouldn't have exposed them to the truth. If you can't take it, after all we are in at least high school and mature, then maybe you don't belong here.
These terms, especially "DON JUAN," are jokes. They are our fantasy world, something little girls wish in fairy tales, but realize it will never come true. I understand people want to improve, strive for perfection even, but many people have crossed the borderline and just turned plain out fake. Some people have let their egos take over themself, rather than being a "don juan" (as you would say). A "dj" is a man of integrity, a man people look up to, he even is regarded "the man." Yet people will describe a dj as a person who gets all the girls, yet is disrespectul towards them even though they are humans just like us. A dj maybe someone who has all the new stuff, all the money. Sure it's possible to be a great man, but the things spread around in these forums make me think of some people as a woman. A woman with make-up perhaps, you cover yourself with all these fake things to make you look better or perhaps feel better- yet at the end of the day when its cleared off you are different. I say to that- keep wearing your make up, at the end all it will do is ruin your face. Quit living the fantasy and wake up.
I'm sorry to say, but many of you are all sheltered and have no idea what the world is really like. Many are insecure, so you turn to these boards as a "religion" persay, to give you hope and guidance. But honestly, if you are a mature and "dj" man, you know that you can be no better than who you really are. Improvement is good, but when you become to vain and are willing to spend more(and i mean way too much) over looks (plastic surgery) that is just too far. Something simple to such as braces; who cares does it really matter? Sure, but what happened to the "dj" who doesn't let others opinion affect him when he comes first in his life. People are too fragile and I think they dont become men, they become pretty boys.
The youth...some of you are just too much. R3N3GAD3 for example, smart kid but takes these boards for granted. Bro I read your post about high school girls, that post alone makes you seem immature. The fact you will degrade all high school girls, and what you are a freshman? Sophmore at most? Both those age groups being young, fresh, and morons. Honestly if you are in high school and think high school girls are "dumb and you are too good" you are a stuck up person. Instead of giving a direct flame, get to know them maybe- dont base it off a few girls you've met or what not. I had awesome high school friends, and you can learn a lot from them. And if you can " mack 20 year olds " then that is sad for those 20 year olds you mack. What 20 year old goes out with a fresh/soph? Nope, I dont care how mature or "dj" you are, that is lame for them ( and no im not jealous ). Quit giving yourself a high status it only makes you seem like you think you are better than others, when really you aren't. We are all equal- who are you to judge someone else? Especially at your age, you should be living the innocent life like all high school kids, its the best years of your life dont ruin it by not having fun because you think you are too cool or too mature, because you definately aren't. You're a growing man and a LEARNING man- respect the elders just like your parents would say, because they are right. They aren't older for a reason, they know more and experienced more, no matter how "DJ" you think you are.
We are so quick to assume about people and compare, yet we never take the chance to see that maybe that should be a flaw we fix, and that doesn't cost anything. There will always be someone greater and lesser than you, so comparison is just a way of showing what an ass you are. All these mind games and tactics will only last you so long, because if you haven't noticed- People are different and we have different tastes and styles. You can't please all, you never will.
There are good points in these forums I admit, but seriously you won't learn anything until you actually do it. You will experience heart break, you will go through drama, and there is nothing your mom can do about it. If you don't want to accept the world then go in a bubble. Quit hiding and sheltering yourself, if you really want to learn then explore. You can never have the best looking style or the nicest hair, and why would you? Decent is good enough, you try to much you show your insecurity because there are more essential things to people than just that.
I was thinking of a bunch more but ill leave it at this till I remember, but my main "tip" is obvious but a lot have been blinded to believe in else. Go be yourself, forget what satisfies someone else wants. Don't judge someone because you think you know or you heard how people are, you will never be able to get all the girls so why judge them. Instead of racism, you are a sexist, and I doubt that is what a dj is suppose to be. Be a man of happiness, which comes from the integrity and satisfaction within, and be a man for others- what you would call a "dj."
"Try not to become a man of success but rather to become a man of value." - Albert Einstein
These terms, especially "DON JUAN," are jokes. They are our fantasy world, something little girls wish in fairy tales, but realize it will never come true. I understand people want to improve, strive for perfection even, but many people have crossed the borderline and just turned plain out fake. Some people have let their egos take over themself, rather than being a "don juan" (as you would say). A "dj" is a man of integrity, a man people look up to, he even is regarded "the man." Yet people will describe a dj as a person who gets all the girls, yet is disrespectul towards them even though they are humans just like us. A dj maybe someone who has all the new stuff, all the money. Sure it's possible to be a great man, but the things spread around in these forums make me think of some people as a woman. A woman with make-up perhaps, you cover yourself with all these fake things to make you look better or perhaps feel better- yet at the end of the day when its cleared off you are different. I say to that- keep wearing your make up, at the end all it will do is ruin your face. Quit living the fantasy and wake up.
I'm sorry to say, but many of you are all sheltered and have no idea what the world is really like. Many are insecure, so you turn to these boards as a "religion" persay, to give you hope and guidance. But honestly, if you are a mature and "dj" man, you know that you can be no better than who you really are. Improvement is good, but when you become to vain and are willing to spend more(and i mean way too much) over looks (plastic surgery) that is just too far. Something simple to such as braces; who cares does it really matter? Sure, but what happened to the "dj" who doesn't let others opinion affect him when he comes first in his life. People are too fragile and I think they dont become men, they become pretty boys.
The youth...some of you are just too much. R3N3GAD3 for example, smart kid but takes these boards for granted. Bro I read your post about high school girls, that post alone makes you seem immature. The fact you will degrade all high school girls, and what you are a freshman? Sophmore at most? Both those age groups being young, fresh, and morons. Honestly if you are in high school and think high school girls are "dumb and you are too good" you are a stuck up person. Instead of giving a direct flame, get to know them maybe- dont base it off a few girls you've met or what not. I had awesome high school friends, and you can learn a lot from them. And if you can " mack 20 year olds " then that is sad for those 20 year olds you mack. What 20 year old goes out with a fresh/soph? Nope, I dont care how mature or "dj" you are, that is lame for them ( and no im not jealous ). Quit giving yourself a high status it only makes you seem like you think you are better than others, when really you aren't. We are all equal- who are you to judge someone else? Especially at your age, you should be living the innocent life like all high school kids, its the best years of your life dont ruin it by not having fun because you think you are too cool or too mature, because you definately aren't. You're a growing man and a LEARNING man- respect the elders just like your parents would say, because they are right. They aren't older for a reason, they know more and experienced more, no matter how "DJ" you think you are.
We are so quick to assume about people and compare, yet we never take the chance to see that maybe that should be a flaw we fix, and that doesn't cost anything. There will always be someone greater and lesser than you, so comparison is just a way of showing what an ass you are. All these mind games and tactics will only last you so long, because if you haven't noticed- People are different and we have different tastes and styles. You can't please all, you never will.
There are good points in these forums I admit, but seriously you won't learn anything until you actually do it. You will experience heart break, you will go through drama, and there is nothing your mom can do about it. If you don't want to accept the world then go in a bubble. Quit hiding and sheltering yourself, if you really want to learn then explore. You can never have the best looking style or the nicest hair, and why would you? Decent is good enough, you try to much you show your insecurity because there are more essential things to people than just that.
I was thinking of a bunch more but ill leave it at this till I remember, but my main "tip" is obvious but a lot have been blinded to believe in else. Go be yourself, forget what satisfies someone else wants. Don't judge someone because you think you know or you heard how people are, you will never be able to get all the girls so why judge them. Instead of racism, you are a sexist, and I doubt that is what a dj is suppose to be. Be a man of happiness, which comes from the integrity and satisfaction within, and be a man for others- what you would call a "dj."
"Try not to become a man of success but rather to become a man of value." - Albert Einstein
