The best way to figure out the kind of girl she is?

[Beginner1]

Let's be honest, not all girls think alike. You have got ones who want to get laid almost immediately, ones who want a serious relationship, ones who will never have sex until they are married. The list goes on for miles.

My question is, what is the quickest way to figure out what kind of girl she is. I see figuring this part out is very important because, If we can sort of figure out what type of girl we are dealing with, we can rethink our game so we seem like we are exactly what they want.

Say for instance you really like a girl and you think she is the serious relationship type and you decide to not be super aggressive, she gets annoyed and then just picks up and leaves without even saying anything. (This has happened to me)

On the other shoe, you meet a respectable girl and you make an attempt to take things to another level too quick with her, and she gets annoyed and says all guys are the same, all they care about is sex (I know that line is true) but, if we knew what kind of girl she was from day one,we could have played our cards differently and let her believe, no , we're am not like that (Even though I would be sort of lying)

Any thoughts?

 

[tmpgstx]

This would be good for a flowchart. The first would be determine her self-worth to herself. This will let you know if she is a good/decent girl or an AW. I've found that most girls (if not all) with ugly blatent ass Tattoos and who dye their hair from one extreme to the other (from all black to all blonde and back again) have major insecurities with little self-esteem. These are usually your AWs.

On the other end of the spectrum, the girl who isn't trying to impress so much has more self-worth. She doesn't need that shallow approval.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Does anyone have a slide-rule?

 

[eoin2000]

Firstly, you have to stop trying to divide them into so many catagories. The true catagories are as follows:

1)Will fcuk you
2)Wont fcuk you

How you catagorise them, then, is up to your own experience. You should'nt have to adjust your game (to a great extent, at least). If your game is finely tuned, it will work regardless of what the woman is consciously 'looking for at the time'.

A DJ with a solid game (being a TRUE DJ automatically implies solid game, but the term is bandied about too much on this here board) should be able to invoke powerful desire in a woman which will override any conscious objections she makes to herself. If you fail to draw out these feelings of desire within the evening, then it is unlikely that she will see you differently several weeks from now anyway.

 

[Reed247]

what?

If you fail to draw out these feelings of desire within the evening, then it is unlikely that she will see you differently several weeks from now anyway.


So your saying if she doesn't sleep with you at the first opportunity then she never will?

 

[eoin2000]

No. I probably could have been a little more clear on that one. What i mean is this: You should be able to both trigger and RECOGNISE these feeling in a woman. Successfully triggering these feelings does not, however, garauntee a fcuk. It just means it is a likely future prospect. If you fail, a fcuk becomes an UNLIKELY future prospect.

 

[strong like bull]

lets see.

be a chameleon and mold yourself around each girl's infinite combination of traits, hoping to be the type of guy they want during a brief moment in time...

or

find out what you truly want in a girl, what type of women make you happy, then let them qualify themselves against your ideal match.

hmm... interesting.

-SLB

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by strong like bull
lets see.

be a chameleon and mold yourself around each girl's infinite combination of traits, hoping to be the type of guy they want during a brief moment in time...

or

find out what you truly want in a girl, what type of women make you happy, then let them qualify themselves against your ideal match.

hmm... interesting.

-SLB

I couldn't have said it any better...

 

[rgeere]

Don't do exactly what I have done in the past ... I tend to exude a major sexual interest aura that attracted every attention wh0re and slut within 10 miles of me. It drove mde nuts because I want a girl who is reasonable relationship material and not some quick fvck or c0ck tease. For some reason the good girls didn't respond so well to it because of this.