If you are dependent on a “positive” outcome 100% of the time with a chick or chicks…… you are simply trying too hard and care too much. Don’t ever constantly rely on external sources for “eternal”, internal “happiness” or you’ll only disappoint yourself in the end. That internal happiness has to come from you and not an act of “confidence” in order to try to “always get what you want”.
No one can control every outcome to be a forced “positive” for self, let alone expect to control other people. Not myself included. People are going to do what they’re going to do. It’s called free will.
Learn and grow from your own mistakes or successes past/present rather than be “content” with simply finger pointing and playing the blame game no matter what happened even if it was the other parties fault completely. (You can always learn from even the worst negative experiences regardless if they truly weren’t caused by you while moving forward and progressing).
Groom and dress your best, be socially free and relaxed, work out to improve your physique and relieve stress, talk to all types of different people on various topics to grow a possible social circle of friends and acquaintances and to better your own knowledge of different topics/ others opinions and experiences in life.
Get rid of negativity (It’s not helping you and you aren’t fooling anyone but yourself). Improve yourself to be your best self for yourself in all aspects. That weight you're carrying will get lifted off your shoulders. What you project outwards you will get projected back at you. And that’s a guarantee.
Let that sink into your head and don’t forget it. If not, you’re already starting yourself off at a huge disadvantage while setting yourself up for a future endless closed circle of disappointment and further mental anguish.
*Recreational Drugs and Alcohol: Recreational Drugs: Wean yourself off them or better yet don’t use them at all. Besides a waste of money, brain cells and other possible consequences they’re only a temporary feel good and are only a mask to the fear of facing your own internal issues. (You are only kidding yourself if you think otherwise.) Alcohol: Limit it’s usage to occasionally or don’t drink at all especially if it’s your crutch and or runs in your family.
*Continually negative people/ Bad influences: Slowly distance yourself from them till you remove them from your life. They offer you no good in your lives progress while only seeking to drag you down like crabs in a bucket or use you as a temporary security blanket for their own issues and comfort zone till they decide to leave you where they found you. Their kind of “help” is the kind of “help” you don’t need.
You only live once. The choice is yours. Choose wisely.
No one can control every outcome to be a forced “positive” for self, let alone expect to control other people. Not myself included. People are going to do what they’re going to do. It’s called free will.
Learn and grow from your own mistakes or successes past/present rather than be “content” with simply finger pointing and playing the blame game no matter what happened even if it was the other parties fault completely. (You can always learn from even the worst negative experiences regardless if they truly weren’t caused by you while moving forward and progressing).
Groom and dress your best, be socially free and relaxed, work out to improve your physique and relieve stress, talk to all types of different people on various topics to grow a possible social circle of friends and acquaintances and to better your own knowledge of different topics/ others opinions and experiences in life.
Get rid of negativity (It’s not helping you and you aren’t fooling anyone but yourself). Improve yourself to be your best self for yourself in all aspects. That weight you're carrying will get lifted off your shoulders. What you project outwards you will get projected back at you. And that’s a guarantee.
Let that sink into your head and don’t forget it. If not, you’re already starting yourself off at a huge disadvantage while setting yourself up for a future endless closed circle of disappointment and further mental anguish.
*Recreational Drugs and Alcohol: Recreational Drugs: Wean yourself off them or better yet don’t use them at all. Besides a waste of money, brain cells and other possible consequences they’re only a temporary feel good and are only a mask to the fear of facing your own internal issues. (You are only kidding yourself if you think otherwise.) Alcohol: Limit it’s usage to occasionally or don’t drink at all especially if it’s your crutch and or runs in your family.
*Continually negative people/ Bad influences: Slowly distance yourself from them till you remove them from your life. They offer you no good in your lives progress while only seeking to drag you down like crabs in a bucket or use you as a temporary security blanket for their own issues and comfort zone till they decide to leave you where they found you. Their kind of “help” is the kind of “help” you don’t need.
You only live once. The choice is yours. Choose wisely.
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