The Benefits of Being Nonchalant Towards Women

[alone]

After today I have realised the value of being mysterious. In high school I HARDLY SPOKE. Even my family found it annoying how I kept to myself Noone could get me to speak....

Now I am here in college I completely changed my attitude. I wanted to be the Life of the party . So i approached EVERYONE . From the street bum to the sexiest girl. And it felt good.
For the first time I felt as if I was bvecoming a social God. (bear In mind this is my first semester)
But then I began to notice something...

The women that were attracted to me during the first couple weeks began to ignore me... I couldnt figure it out.... I bgan to recieve disdainful responses and was constantly ignored by many women. Of course I started to feel frustrated and then I began to hypothesies y I was getting these rejections
I was coming off as too desperate
I was approaching too many women (after a while I didnt recognise girsl i had spoken to before)
Of course the frustration worsened when I saw women approaching my frenz but completely Ignoring me.( Ive been told I am very attractive)
So I was feeling very frustrated and then I saw an old colegue from high school online....
She told me how I was a work of art...veery Abstract
And how she longed to see teh other sides to me.
And as I thought back I realised that back at home The girls were cCRAZY for me the most when I was
Quiet
Laid Back
and Concerned with My Own Problems
Because I didnt display intrest in them they were drawn towards me...
So of course You know I am returning to my old ways.
Because
We are best when we simply dont give a f**k

 

[justsomeguy1984]

you have a very good point here and i have found success with this strategy as well. however, you cannot be completely silent. that is, you have to make initial contact with the woman, find out a little bit about her, tell her a little bit about yourself (you know, charm her a bit) and then, once you have gained her interest, play dumb!!! the next time the two of you meet, act passive and make her do all the work. this will make a woman want you more because it is very true that if a woman KNOWS you want her she will be less attracted.

 

[alphamale1]

Thanks,

This is very very interesting and I think two guys who I would like to consider friends, do this to me on purpose as well as some woman.

So......when a man is talking to many woman it shows that he is too desperate? or if he talks to one woman a bit, does it show that I am too clingy.

I never see myself trying to impress a woman but am always energetic about finding about some woman or people I hardly know and i guess that shows.

My workmate is very quiet and we talk about woman but I think I talk about it more than him. He doesnt want to be my wingman but still wants to hear what I experience and to my degree he is a user.

My friend scott never calls me anymore and I am sick of tired of it cos i have to call him to hang out and so I dont wanna know him now.

This girl I have been with for two dates kinda gets the feeling I like her as I questioned her "are u going to kiss me?' and we kissed but I think she now knows im interested in her so does that really mean she wont like me as much.....

Bizzare but true.

Ben

 

[BlackDragon]

Whats that old proverb saying?

"Its better to be thought as a fool, than to open your mouth and withdraw all doubt"

 

[aBAzLLnA]

No other way to learn than the hard way.

"Its better to be thought as a fool, than to open your mouth and withdraw all doubt"

Btw, who said this?