When you first start becoming conscious of dating, mating, sexuality, and your own destiny, it often revolves around becoming better-looking, wealthier, obtaining symbols of status, elevating your character, engaging in more comical discussions, learning NLP or seduction tips to make it all easier, or some host of EXTERNAL traits. But just like a disease, what you're searching for is only the symptoms to a much larger and grander issue, the inner game.
You see, the ******d symbols of status, money, beauty/appearance, and so forth, are the culmination of the work a person has put forth on the inside. The components, as most of us can fathom, to a human being are:
Body
Mind
Soul/Spirit
We know this, internally, but much attention is paid to 1 or 2 components, in most cases, the Mind and the Body. If even 1 of these is imbalanced, the others, no matter how strong will be out of whack, too.
Consider this...a structure built on 3 legs is capable of standing quite solidly, such as triangles, even pyramids use such dimensions as "3". But where does a structure subsist on only "2" legs or supports?
A person with an outstanding body, but a lacking mind and body is empty and souless. Bitter. Such a person could be a model, or an adult film star, who sought what gifts they could through their one primary gift (their body), but each day and night are left unfulfilled because they have no spiritual energy given to them, and no value of the mind. The people who reach to him/her will know this, and only value them for this.
A person lacking in Body, but full of Spirit Energy and Mind will be possessed of much potential and internal strength, but will be lacking in physical energy to accomplish daily tasks, or even lack confidence in their ability to pursue a worthy mate, who matches their internal worth.
And a person robust in Mind and Body, yet lacking in Spirit energy will be chock full of ego and thoughts, but lacking Energy of a greater power.
Whatever your personal beliefs are does not matter. The human body is comprised of these 3 pieces, and would be weak were it not built as such. I would implore you to explore all dimensions of yourself, as true self-improvement is not focused in one area of the being, but "3".
Ever heard the phrase, "sucking the life out of me." [Not meant sexually.]
Life in this instance is synonymous with 'energy.' We humans are abundant sources of energy. However, much like we learned in science classes, energy revolves in orbits, and can only be BORROWED, and then it must be returned.
In real life we experience this with friends, family, or even girls we date. Let's say you help a friend out, on repeated occasions. Initially, you do it because you're a friend. Giving them a ride because their car is broke. Perhaps $20 for a haircut because they're short cash. And on some off occasion, you go the bar with them to cheer them up. To continue this streak would not only be akin to Parasite-Host relationships, but would drain your energy (or spirit).
This very much applies to women. When you take the perspective of a third party observer over your actions, you can see where some girl might be a waste of time. Likewise, you can see (and feel) where she won't be. Most guys who consider themselves AFC, or even the best of us who have had mistakes, don't realize the extreme amount of energy expensed on wasteful people who would just "suck the life out of you" if possible.
The battle most people wage is against that "little voice" inside your head, imposing beliefs, requesting security, avoiding fear or stress. Yet, all these concepts are merely new age pieces of the "EGO". They've been drilled in by other people as if they HACKED your brain and INSTALLED their own software. Your inner core has been glossed over by everybody else, OTHER THAN YOU. So when people harp on self-improvement as some hokey, funny, cult-like science, one has to laugh, because evidently 2 things are apparent:
1. They acquired that belief from someone else. [Ask people how they specifically know something, and most times, 98% of people are full of BS unless they actually studied about it or can sight the source].
2. They don't realize that our inner core is only known to us. Who we are is who were are at our weakest moments, and who we are when nobody is around. Yet, getting to who we are is essential to our potential.
Every person is born with greatness, unlocking that chest of gems is the goal of improvement, and is possible only through much effort of introspection, understanding, and wisdom.
Do not neglect the components of the being. Many of us know these pieces, yet have not identified them. And once you open your mind to their realization, you can sense in people who has what piece in place. Once your more in tune with yourself, you can easily be more in tune with others.
If you conquer yourself, there is no need to conquer others.
The ego is that part of you that says...
"Be muscular, so you're better looking than the next guy."
"Be smart, so you can best the bloke down the hall for a raise, or show off in class."
"Be rich, so you can show off your manhood, or buy nice items, or go nice places." [Wealth is great, for the right reasons].
It's all those pieces that give you external reasons for doing something. Sure, we need motivation, but what about the RIGHT motivation?
What if you were sent on a journey, to where you were being tested to be the ULTIMATE BEST YOU COULD be. Not best against all others, BUT best of your potential. If you use the celing, or mark or other's, you've set your goals to low. If Gates had set his goals to beat the highest Billionaire at the time, would be as wealthy now? If Tiger set his sights on the top ranked golfer at the time, would he be such a phenom?
Using outside goals of people or previously set goals/marks is only the bare minimum we could/should strive for. We know not what potential we have, and using external forces imposes only known restrictions. What if you could be a Trillionaire and buy Gates?
It's good to compete, but realize, if you're competing against others, your bar is too low, and you're at best, ONE-UPPING them. True success will come from setting your own lofty goals, and exploding through them. Know the path the greats took, then alter it for greater success if you want to find your potential. If you don't, there's plenty of great books and systems available in libararies and BN so that you can get somewhere and be happy.
The only control one can exert is over yourself. If you can't control yourself, your spending habits, your eating habits, and so forth, there's nigh way you can manage a beautiful girl, $1,000,000, or any other host of responsibilities.
There's no ultimate holy grail that anybody on this sight can write. Nor will there be an all encompassing article that summarizes HOW to do EVERYTHING you desire to DO and HOW to lay every CHICK you desire. Obviously we want to sleep with every woman we find attractive, thus is the curse of Testosterone, however, it won't always happen for a host of reasons and that's ok.
The biggest secret I can reveal to any one person is this:
Personal Responsibility.
You're comprised of a mind, a body, and a soul. You owe it to yourself, and no one else, to maximize the ability in each area you possess. It's not that nobody else cares for you, it's that, nobody else will CARE AS MUCH AS YOU SHOULD ABOUT YOURSELF. Expecting someone else to care for you, as much as you should care for yourself is foolhardy.
We're all on the same big rock, on the same big journey, many of us with the same tales in life. You owe it to yourself and only yourself to take care of yourself, because no one can possibly do that for you. Even your own family, those who gave birth to you, know not what lies underneath, deep in your inner core.
Accepting ownership of life is the only way to true happiness, because in the end, you'll learn that only you know your destiny, and in turn, you'll get what you want because only you know what it is you want, and you'll find away, even if you're not implanted with the cheat codes on life.
End.
A-Unit
You see, the ******d symbols of status, money, beauty/appearance, and so forth, are the culmination of the work a person has put forth on the inside. The components, as most of us can fathom, to a human being are:
Body
Mind
Soul/Spirit
We know this, internally, but much attention is paid to 1 or 2 components, in most cases, the Mind and the Body. If even 1 of these is imbalanced, the others, no matter how strong will be out of whack, too.
Consider this...a structure built on 3 legs is capable of standing quite solidly, such as triangles, even pyramids use such dimensions as "3". But where does a structure subsist on only "2" legs or supports?
A person with an outstanding body, but a lacking mind and body is empty and souless. Bitter. Such a person could be a model, or an adult film star, who sought what gifts they could through their one primary gift (their body), but each day and night are left unfulfilled because they have no spiritual energy given to them, and no value of the mind. The people who reach to him/her will know this, and only value them for this.
A person lacking in Body, but full of Spirit Energy and Mind will be possessed of much potential and internal strength, but will be lacking in physical energy to accomplish daily tasks, or even lack confidence in their ability to pursue a worthy mate, who matches their internal worth.
And a person robust in Mind and Body, yet lacking in Spirit energy will be chock full of ego and thoughts, but lacking Energy of a greater power.
Whatever your personal beliefs are does not matter. The human body is comprised of these 3 pieces, and would be weak were it not built as such. I would implore you to explore all dimensions of yourself, as true self-improvement is not focused in one area of the being, but "3".
Ever heard the phrase, "sucking the life out of me." [Not meant sexually.]
Life in this instance is synonymous with 'energy.' We humans are abundant sources of energy. However, much like we learned in science classes, energy revolves in orbits, and can only be BORROWED, and then it must be returned.
In real life we experience this with friends, family, or even girls we date. Let's say you help a friend out, on repeated occasions. Initially, you do it because you're a friend. Giving them a ride because their car is broke. Perhaps $20 for a haircut because they're short cash. And on some off occasion, you go the bar with them to cheer them up. To continue this streak would not only be akin to Parasite-Host relationships, but would drain your energy (or spirit).
This very much applies to women. When you take the perspective of a third party observer over your actions, you can see where some girl might be a waste of time. Likewise, you can see (and feel) where she won't be. Most guys who consider themselves AFC, or even the best of us who have had mistakes, don't realize the extreme amount of energy expensed on wasteful people who would just "suck the life out of you" if possible.
The battle most people wage is against that "little voice" inside your head, imposing beliefs, requesting security, avoiding fear or stress. Yet, all these concepts are merely new age pieces of the "EGO". They've been drilled in by other people as if they HACKED your brain and INSTALLED their own software. Your inner core has been glossed over by everybody else, OTHER THAN YOU. So when people harp on self-improvement as some hokey, funny, cult-like science, one has to laugh, because evidently 2 things are apparent:
1. They acquired that belief from someone else. [Ask people how they specifically know something, and most times, 98% of people are full of BS unless they actually studied about it or can sight the source].
2. They don't realize that our inner core is only known to us. Who we are is who were are at our weakest moments, and who we are when nobody is around. Yet, getting to who we are is essential to our potential.
Every person is born with greatness, unlocking that chest of gems is the goal of improvement, and is possible only through much effort of introspection, understanding, and wisdom.
Do not neglect the components of the being. Many of us know these pieces, yet have not identified them. And once you open your mind to their realization, you can sense in people who has what piece in place. Once your more in tune with yourself, you can easily be more in tune with others.
If you conquer yourself, there is no need to conquer others.
The ego is that part of you that says...
"Be muscular, so you're better looking than the next guy."
"Be smart, so you can best the bloke down the hall for a raise, or show off in class."
"Be rich, so you can show off your manhood, or buy nice items, or go nice places." [Wealth is great, for the right reasons].
It's all those pieces that give you external reasons for doing something. Sure, we need motivation, but what about the RIGHT motivation?
What if you were sent on a journey, to where you were being tested to be the ULTIMATE BEST YOU COULD be. Not best against all others, BUT best of your potential. If you use the celing, or mark or other's, you've set your goals to low. If Gates had set his goals to beat the highest Billionaire at the time, would be as wealthy now? If Tiger set his sights on the top ranked golfer at the time, would he be such a phenom?
Using outside goals of people or previously set goals/marks is only the bare minimum we could/should strive for. We know not what potential we have, and using external forces imposes only known restrictions. What if you could be a Trillionaire and buy Gates?
It's good to compete, but realize, if you're competing against others, your bar is too low, and you're at best, ONE-UPPING them. True success will come from setting your own lofty goals, and exploding through them. Know the path the greats took, then alter it for greater success if you want to find your potential. If you don't, there's plenty of great books and systems available in libararies and BN so that you can get somewhere and be happy.
The only control one can exert is over yourself. If you can't control yourself, your spending habits, your eating habits, and so forth, there's nigh way you can manage a beautiful girl, $1,000,000, or any other host of responsibilities.
There's no ultimate holy grail that anybody on this sight can write. Nor will there be an all encompassing article that summarizes HOW to do EVERYTHING you desire to DO and HOW to lay every CHICK you desire. Obviously we want to sleep with every woman we find attractive, thus is the curse of Testosterone, however, it won't always happen for a host of reasons and that's ok.
The biggest secret I can reveal to any one person is this:
Personal Responsibility.
You're comprised of a mind, a body, and a soul. You owe it to yourself, and no one else, to maximize the ability in each area you possess. It's not that nobody else cares for you, it's that, nobody else will CARE AS MUCH AS YOU SHOULD ABOUT YOURSELF. Expecting someone else to care for you, as much as you should care for yourself is foolhardy.
We're all on the same big rock, on the same big journey, many of us with the same tales in life. You owe it to yourself and only yourself to take care of yourself, because no one can possibly do that for you. Even your own family, those who gave birth to you, know not what lies underneath, deep in your inner core.
Accepting ownership of life is the only way to true happiness, because in the end, you'll learn that only you know your destiny, and in turn, you'll get what you want because only you know what it is you want, and you'll find away, even if you're not implanted with the cheat codes on life.
End.
A-Unit
