The attention experiment

JohnyTheArrow

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I loaded stolen HB7+ pics on popular dating website and let's see...WOW ... that was insane, within several minutes minutes I had at least 50+ dudes willing to speak with me, winks, love letters, asking for date,hearts and roses and all the shyt.And what I have learnt :

- men are excellent source of ego boost, I felt good about myself, I felt like somebody important and interesting and it had nothing to do with reality
- they spam you msg like machine gun, the faster the msg me the more weak and desperate they looked
-they are very attentive, willing to listen about any kind of problems or girly things like nail polishing
-I enjoyed rejecting guys, they meant nothing for me,I didnt even look at pictures or read profiles,it didnt matter,in few minutes someone new came
-I felt no remourse I can miss some 'nice or good guy' there was never ending stream of men
-If I showed disrespect and he stopped talking I felt respect increase for the guy and was willing more to talk to him
-I feel respect most to men who were good/cool looking or had sense of humour all other were 'loosers'
-I escalated showing sometimes lack of respect, weak answer or worse no reaction increased feeling of lack respect for the guy and I felt his desperation and weakness
-men who tried to 'buy me' by showing off their money/objects felt pathetic and infuriated me, I started to think how to get advantage of them
-men are excellent clowns,therapist,ego boosters and the source of free food
-smiles,roses,hearts any kind 'romantic' icons of felt childish and feminine
-they feel like bunch of children asking for the candy, you dont take them seriously and enjoy feeling their desperation, you feel will power over them

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I load attractive 'alpha male' pictures on dating websites.Very soon I had stream of women willing to talk with me.

-I started to feel attractive,confident and powerful
-women threw themselves at me and it felt pathethic, I quickly started to loose respect for them
-I escalated and if woman allowed any kind of disrespect I felt sadistic and I wanted to dominate her into submissive slave
-I enjoyed rejecting women
-the faster and more willing was woman to submit as my sexual object the faster I downgraded her in my mind to level of sex trash
-I enjoyed most attractive/cool ones or with sense of humour
-sex was offered on plate as soon I started to hint or talk about it
-the more I played 'hard to get' and 'not impressed by sex' there more they chased me
-my beta side was gone because I felt empowered by attention I got



NOW

what the 'attention' experiment tells us ?

- game is 100% right about the game
- it is universal human nature
- if these men and women were less desperate and more aloof I would feel more respect for them and give them more attention
- the more attractive you are the more disposable other people are, you could reject a potential millionere or good wife ? doesnt matter ... you dont think about this, there is too much choice
- online is hopeless place for men, the were more objects than people to me,
I used them as clowns or ego boosters
- the more attention you give the more powerful other side feel,attention is source of power
- when you have like 50+ people kissing your ass they ALL feel pathethic, you feel no mercy or human feelings for 'the loosers'
- women will put sex on plate fast and without hesitation if you are prize good enough and are willing to become your submissive slave, the more cruel and harsh you are the more turned on they were
- desperation or neediness is felt instantly and you are in instant 'looser' box

Next time you come and bytch about 'women' you must know you created this world.You are guilty.By giving attention and validation too much.too quickly,not respecting yourself you join ocean of beta loosers.Online is worst possible place to get a woman until you are top 20% in looks or money, then it is too easy.Why women want alphas ? Because there is too many betas.Too much candy taste like shyt.

It has most to do with universal human nature and not being female or male .Respect is most important feeling in women-men relationship, it makes you remebered, it makes you different.

RESPECT YOURSELF
 

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Surprised there haven't been comments on this post. Very interesting experiment and well written
 

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So true.

Focus on you- never let anyone lower your value.
 

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This is true online.

Would it change much in person to person interactions?

Example...beta shy guy would not send flowers or even wink at a girl in real life. Hence she would think hes mysteriously alpha. Hence she would chase.
 

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Yeah, it's the same for both genders - except that human nature fosters men to chase and women to choose, combined with other things that put women in a better spot by default.
 
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