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I posted this on another thread but the message got lost, I want to repost it for an easier reading:

Appealing to Womens 5 senses
Quoted from ZENMACK..
"let's start with building an emotional connection. It is my belief that inorder to build this connection you gotta access a womans 5 senses.

1. sound. through use of words to penetrate her brain

2. sight. by looking good

3. smell. you gotta smell good. I just read that womens sense of smell is so accute that they can actually smell men for correct dna matches. How many times have you heard a woman say "he just smelled good".

4. touch. you gotta know how to touch them rite to stimulate their intense desire.

5. taste. sometimes you gotta stimulate that taste bud also.
When you combine as many (especially sound), you can gain access into the deeper regions of womens minds. *****es go on over load and don't know what hit em.

Think about how the serpent whispered in Eve's ear and made her look at the apple and then smell it, then touch it and finally the deal breaker taste it. If you can see the game in that you are on your way. Imagine whispering in a womans ear words to create desire (sound) and as you lean in close you smell good (smell), ( I use vanilla oil so that I smell like cookies & cream which most women love, I don't take chances on them not liking a cologne). Usually I am dressed to attract attention (sight) and as I lean in close to them I casually touch them while I talk to their ear lobes, which stimulates them. Remember trying to sit still in the barber chair when he got near your ear it tickled.
How's this for a start if anyone wants to add to this their info. Knowledge and game go on and pull our coats.
 
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Here is an example of words:

I sent this email:

I think my other email got lost with this new aol 9.0, but I want to say that I had fun last night with you...your level of passion was a nice opening to our friendship. You have a level that needs to be tapped. And tapped deep.....

I was thinking and remembering laying on top of you. Thrusting and touching you down there...remembering your moans....

the touch of your tongue....your smell...

The feeling of your skin sliding against mine...holding you in my arms...

Your submitting to my strength...being a woman under me...

Your hands touching my body and finding pleasure...

Soft lips, soft tongue, willingness, deep penetrating thrusting...reaching

and becoming...

Feeling the flesh of your ass and hips...the softness there...delicious baby..

very delicious.

****

I recieved this one back:

"Hey, how's it going? I received your emails, and I tried to reply back, but they got returned. Sorry for calling you so many times this weekend...Iwasn't sure when you were going to be back. I really enjoyed reading your emails...they were very poetic and descriptive, to say the least. I'm looking forward to seeing you again soon, I hope the feeling is mutual. By the way, you can send me emails to this address, if you want. I check this
one everyday, and my hotmail account gets checked when I get the chance. I
will probably give you a call around 6 this evening, if that's okay. Talk to you later, have a good day."


words can be used to reach the other senses too.
 

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In that case I'll repost too since I spent a bit of time putting in my 2 cent:

Here's some stuff I do:

Touch: Open car doors and help her inside. Tap her on the other shoulder so she looks the other way and I'm not there. Another funny one is to point at something and then get her to look and then just laugh at her for looking where you point at. Then repeat that at some time later on in the date, even nudge her then point. She'll probably be shoving you by then which is great because then you have the opp to wrestle her back Games like thumb war and arm wrestling also open the physical door in a fun and unintimidating way. Most of the sensual touching I bring out later on in the date, but it is important to establish your sexual presence before even the first date is over.

Sight: Fvcking shave before going out. Don't look like a bum. I go for the musician look (good move considering I'm a damn good one), but I always make sure to pick the sh!t out of my teeth after eating, trim my nose hairs, iron my shirts, etc. At least as much as I have time for within reason. I vary my dress from date to date, so she has no idea what to expect next time she sees me. Always stylish, but never the same colors. I try to overdress so she knows i'm all class. Its also a good idea to develop your facial expressions so that they convey what you're saying non-verbally. A guy without an expressive face is boring, unless you're acting 'cool' like its sometimes good to do to a girl who needs to be put in her place.

Hearing: This is where she hears all the funny/smooth/confident lines flow from me. But it should be more than that. Have audible breath (yoga helps develop this, you'd be shocked what just your strong breath alone can do to a chick when she's close to you.. just sense the strength coming from you). Its also about what she shouldn't hear coming from you. Sighs. Tapping your nails and feet. Cracking your back or knuckles can elicit a good reaction, they are both powerful physical sounds. Learn to do an impression or two. My cartoon impressions crack girls up. This is also a method of getting physical: reenact a scene in a show where the character is going to touch another, and she'll be laughing when you touch her, not even realizing that you engineered it!

Smell: Playa's on target. Its better to use scents with wide appeal. Usually I'll put something on very lightly if at all, and if she swoons over it I'll apply a bit more next time I see her. But if you can get her to associate an everyday smell with you, she'll be thinking of you even more. I had a girl I see tell me the other day that she got wet when she went to do laundry at a friend's house because a couple days earlier I had pulled her into my laundry room (where the detergent and dryer sheet fragrance is strong) and practically freaked her right then and there. Smell is a powerful thing, so use classic conditioning to your advantage with it.

Taste: This is probably the one I use the least, but I will say this. If you eat good food when she's with you, she'll remember you more. So find where all the good mom and pops places are, as well as the $$ restaurants (she can take you out for those Also learn to cook a bit yourself. Sometimes I'll use this trick: don't kiss her for the whole evening then wait until you're eating something sweet like ice cream and go for a kiss between bites. She'll associate the taste of the ice cream with you.

As you can see I'm all about using psychology on them. They can be trained to like you more if you know what you're doing and practice using the five senses.
 
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this was taken from a contributor to the thread:

I think ya'll are getting distracted from the real issue Playa is bringing to fore with his original post, that the FIVE senses can be your best friends if you know how to untap them. Might as well use them to your advantage, because if you don't Playa, seeVIP, and I will on your HBs.

Here's some stuff I do:

Touch: Open car doors and help her inside. Tap her on the other shoulder so she looks the other way and I'm not there. Another funny one is to point at something and then get her to look and then just laugh at her for looking where you point at. Then repeat that at some time later on in the date, even nudge her then point. She'll probably be shoving you by then which is great because then you have the opp to wrestle her back Games like thumb war and arm wrestling also open the physical door in a fun and unintimidating way. Most of the sensual touching I bring out later on in the date, but it is important to establish your sexual presence before even the first date is over.

Sight: Fvcking shave before going out. Don't look like a bum. I go for the musician look (good move considering I'm a damn good one), but I always make sure to pick the sh!t out of my teeth after eating, trim my nose hairs, iron my shirts, etc. At least as much as I have time for within reason. I vary my dress from date to date, so she has no idea what to expect next time she sees me. Always stylish, but never the same colors. I try to overdress so she knows i'm all class. Its also a good idea to develop your facial expressions so that they convey what you're saying non-verbally. A guy without an expressive face is boring, unless you're acting 'cool' like its sometimes good to do to a girl who needs to be put in her place.

Hearing: This is where she hears all the funny/smooth/confident lines flow from me. But it should be more than that. Have audible breath (yoga helps develop this, you'd be shocked what just your strong breath alone can do to a chick when she's close to you.. just sense the strength coming from you). Its also about what she shouldn't hear coming from you. Sighs. Tapping your nails and feet. Cracking your back or knuckles can elicit a good reaction, they are both powerful physical sounds. Learn to do an impression or two. My cartoon impressions crack girls up. This is also a method of getting physical: reenact a scene in a show where the character is going to touch another, and she'll be laughing when you touch her, not even realizing that you engineered it!

Smell: Playa's on target. Its better to use scents with wide appeal. Usually I'll put something on very lightly if at all, and if she swoons over it I'll apply a bit more next time I see her. But if you can get her to associate an everyday smell with you, she'll be thinking of you even more. I had a girl I see tell me the other day that she got wet when she went to do laundry at a friend's house because a couple days earlier I had pulled her into my laundry room (where the detergent and dryer sheet fragrance is strong) and practically freaked her right then and there. Smell is a powerful thing, so use classic conditioning to your advantage with it.

Taste: This is probably the one I use the least, but I will say this. If you eat good food when she's with you, she'll remember you more. So find where all the good mom and pops places are, as well as the $$ restaurants (she can take you out for those Also learn to cook a bit yourself. Sometimes I'll use this trick: don't kiss her for the whole evening then wait until you're eating something sweet like ice cream and go for a kiss between bites. She'll associate the taste of the ice cream with you.

As you can see I'm all about using psychology on them. They can be trained to like you more if you know what you're doing and practice using the five senses. Aight that was fun, off to hunt for HBs, wish me luck cause I gotta get this celibacy challenge bullsh!t (check out DJGigalo's thread for more info on this) off my back before I explode!

-jlc
almost day two and counting
 
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I took this from a old file:

And if you need any further proof of the value of language, listen to these
lines from American writer Marya Mannes:

"All really great lovers are articulate --
and verbal seduction is the surest route to actual seduction."

****
If you want to see a brilliant example of seductive language, get hold
of a copy of the 1995 Jeremy Levin movie Don Juan de Marco. There's
a scene near the start which is just about the most inspiring thing you'll
ever come across.

The leading character (played by Johnny Depp) walks up to an attractive woman
sitting alone in a restaurant. He introduces himself. At first she's a little hesitant
to get involved and tells him she's waiting for her partner. He sits down anyway,
and begins talking to her, telling her that he won't take a moment.

He soon takes her hand and, holding it before him, begins telling her how
"certain women have fingers with the same sensitivity as their legs." She's
intrigued.

Then, in the most hypnotically seductive voice, he continues.

"The fingertips are the same feelings as their feet. And when you
touch their knuckles it is like passing your hands around their knees.
- And this tender, fleshy part of the finger is the same as brushing your
hand around their thighs."

"And finally ..." he says, and softly kisses her upper knuckles - with obvious
implications. By now the woman is gripping the table cloth in a state of intense
arousal.

The next scene, quite believably, shows them hard at it in bed.

So is that all there is to it? Not exactly. You have to make your words
work for you. And there are three things that will guarantee your success.

1. You have to believe in what you're saying - unreservedly. This calls for total
confidence and TOTAL COMMITMENT. If you back off, or have any hint of
uncertainty, you'll blow it. She'll recognize your hesitation (women are experts
at this), and deduce that you're really a wimp in wolves' clothing. So you must
take command and follow through - no matter what happens.

2. You have to speak with a voice absolutely dripping with sensuality. You
can't dribble these words out in a flat and lifeless tone. You must make every
word 'sound' like what it means. When you say "pleasure", it's got to feel like
pleasure. When you say "feverish rush", it ought to send shivers up her spine.

3. You must pay total attention to her non-verbal signals - her body language
and her facial expressions - and use these as homing beacons to guide you in.
And she'll let you know, she honestly will - so long as you PAY ATTENTION.

Do these things with your evocative language, and you're virtually guaranteed
to win any woman you want in an absolute minimum of time - because woman
DO long for a good seduction.

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And I found the original lost email, I don't recommend sensitive type of men reading this corny shyt. Yeah it's corny but she admitted to reading is many times over. Infact she read both of mind bomb emails several times over and still looks at them on her cell phone...dang technology is amazing...you can actually access the internet and get your emails from a cell phone:

You are quite a surprise to me J . Your passion was wonderful to taste....your kisses...igniting...you stirred a passion deep inside of me babygirl...I was amazed at your capacity to recieve pleasure....remember when I put my finger down there while I was taking you...our lips kissing so hard and strong....our tongues intertwined....tasting each other....my hands on your hips...thrusting...reaching.....I can still feel it....making me throb again.....you accepted my control like a real woman.....a woman who knows how to bend to a man's strength....to recieve....each moment of pleasure....I like that.

Here are some words to think about and feel from Heather Headly:

He is:



Mind injector

Heart protector

Sole defender of anything I feel

Baby conceiver

Make me a believer

Joy bringer

Love giver

Doe increaser

The pleasure releaser

The night school teacher

The good life preacher

The care taker

The kiss craver

I will keep this email short since I have to go to see my son in a few minutes. Until next time...


Yes this shyt is corny...I use the bulleted periods to cause her eye to stop and feel what I am saying. I don't know if my technique is perfect, but I do get good results. My stuff isn't vulgar since I am making comments on stuff that has already happened. If we had only kissed then I woulda talked about that kiss and how it felt to me.

Be relaying and getting her to relive the experience she is now becoming enthralled with "me".

Someone said this is speed seduction stuff. That I don't know, but I recommend reading an ebook called "the sexual key" I don't use their style word for word...instead I adopted it too my own personality.

Since I am the harder in your face with it type so is my writing.
 
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Originally posted by John Juan
In that case I'll repost too since I spent a bit of time putting in my 2 cent:

.

LOL, I didn't forget about your contributiion bro....Thanks again for your 2 cents on this thread...lol..

Anyone else got any ideas on reaching those senses?

Oh if you try the natural oil thing like vanilla, go get a sample and then test the results...you will be amazed at how many women will make a comment. I've used this one for about 10 years or so now.
 

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme

Oh if you try the natural oil thing like vanilla, go get a sample and then test the results...you will be amazed at how many women will make a comment. I've used this one for about 10 years or so now.
LMAO
 

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lol no prob Player, that cracked me up to see it reposted a minute after i put it in. guess they'll just have to look at it twice :)

i'll try that vanilla oil. do you go to bath and body to get it? the grocery store? or is it some cologne?

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try a natural foods store or a herb shop where they sell natural oils. Let us know how it worked for you. I think some people will be in for a surprise.

I've turned alot of guys to this one and no body has reported anything negative. I've walked through a crowded club and had women follow me and ask me "what are you wearing" or "is that vanilla that your wearing"

When you use it apply only a slight amount to those spots that you've read about. When you slow dance with a girl you will see an amazing result bro...
 

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
try a natural foods store or a herb shop where they sell natural oils. Let us know how it worked for you. I think some people will be in for a surprise.

I've turned alot of guys to this one and no body has reported anything negative. I've walked through a crowded club and had women follow me and ask me "what are you wearing" or "is that vanilla that your wearing"

When you use it apply only a slight amount to those spots that you've read about. When you slow dance with a girl you will see an amazing result bro...
I never use vannila oil but I have used vanilla scented candles which studies shows this as a form of aromatherapy to the woman. This work like a charm.

Player supreme,
what's the name of that technique where you ask a woman to give you her favorite color, animal that describe herself, body of water that describes her. Information on this would be appreciative.
 

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
try a natural foods store or a herb shop where they sell natural oils. Let us know how it worked for you. I think some people will be in for a surprise.

I've turned alot of guys to this one and no body has reported anything negative. I've walked through a crowded club and had women follow me and ask me "what are you wearing" or "is that vanilla that your wearing"

When you use it apply only a slight amount to those spots that you've read about. When you slow dance with a girl you will see an amazing result bro...
I know that women with those natural smells (strawberry, coconut, vanilla, etc) turn ME on...I don't know if it works the same for guys or not, but I believe it.
 
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yeah, funny how very few people know this shyt.

if dudes started buying natural oils such as amber or vanilla then it could cause a problem for the cologne industry. So let's keep it a secret.

Keep all the rest in the dark....

go try it. pick up a sample and put a little on next time your with a female or go to a club. Just one sample and I think you will be surprised. I respect you for not just staying in the dark and speaking up and willing to try something new...good for you squirrels.

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Originally posted by Eyecandie4ya
I never use vannila oil but I have used vanilla scented candles which studies shows this as a form of aromatherapy to the woman. This work like a charm.

Player supreme,
what's the name of that technique where you ask a woman to give you her favorite color, animal that describe herself, body of water that describes her. Information on this would be appreciative.
I don't know the actual name of this game or test. A friend of mine learned it in psychology class back in the early 80's and pulled it on me. I had such a great laugh from it:

blue ...................... wolf ........................... Ocean
deep...................... fierce ...........................Deep
powerful...................... strong ...........................endless
mysterious..................... loyal if tamed ................powerful


But I noticed the truth in it. I am like an old wolf. If you leave it alone it won't bother you. If you mess with it then you've got a werewolf on your hands.

The color describes your inner personality'
The animal describes your outter personality
the water describes the way you make love.

Test some friends with this game...you will be surprised 4 sho!
 

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
I don't know the actual name of this game or test. A friend of mine learned it in psychology class back in the early 80's and pulled it on me. I had such a great laugh from it:

blue ...................... wolf ........................... Ocean
deep...................... fierce ...........................Deep
powerful...................... strong ...........................endless
mysterious..................... loyal if tamed ................powerful


But I noticed the truth in it. I am like an old wolf. If you leave it alone it won't bother you. If you mess with it then you've got a werewolf on your hands.

The color describes your inner personality'
The animal describes your outter personality
the water describes the way you make love.

Test some friends with this game...you will be surprised 4 sho!

I appreciate the info!
Peace
 
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djeah! I've watched your posts. You got game. It's good to see a fello playa up here my nizzo. This is what I ment by my post " Pimps need the company of other Pimps"

It gets lonely in a land of symps. Other heads whose eyes are opened and can see reality are what I want to talk too. It gets tiring trying to pry open theses heads up here and show them the light you feel me.
 

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I feel ya.

I use to be in that land about 3yrs ago before some older cats pull me to the side at my job and told some things about women that I wasn't aware of. They told about the nice guy crap first and then referred me to some books for knowledge. At that point my eyes were open and I was able to call females out on their sh*t and recognize the game.

This job I had a that time (DEC 2002) held a ratio of 400:1 because it was at a Dr's building with a hospital next to it and a couple of office buildings on the other side. So you could imagine the babe magnitude in this joint.:cool:
 
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Originally posted by Eyecandie4ya
I feel ya.

I use to be in that land about 3yrs ago before some older cats pull me to the side at my job and told some things about women that I wasn't aware of. They told about the nice guy crap first and then referred me to some books for knowledge. At that point my eyes were open and I was able to call females out on their sh*t and recognize the game.

This job I had a that time (DEC 2002) held a ratio of 400:1 because it was at a Dr's building with a hospital next to it and a couple of office buildings on the other side. So you could imagine the babe magnitude in this joint.:cool:
Yeah! I wish I had some old heads pull my coat back when I was coming up. I read shyt everywhere. I did listen when somebody spoke.

What books did you find to be the best?
 

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Yeah! I wish I had some old heads pull my coat back when I was coming up. I read shyt everywhere. I did listen when somebody spoke.

What books did you find to be the best?
*How to love a black woman

* the tin man

* What our mothers didn't tell us

* Between lovers, cheaters = Eric Jerome ****ey

this is the first book and the most knowledgable

* the black men guide to understanding the black woman
by Sharazad Ali

This cat that help me see the light was 38 at that time and he not only talk the game but showed me in person in dealing with females. He use to have the women at the job bringing him lunch and I'm not talking about carryouts from a food joint, I'm talking about homecook meals: greens , cornbread, chicken, corn and yams. I was like DAAAAMNNNNNNNNN! I want to be like that.

His situation was just like yours. He use to be married and pretty much just pimping from this point on. He was a cat that was good with the words that made the females just humble. I was glad I came across a cat with the knowledge he gave me. You remind me of him when you speak.

Oh yeah, he learn all this game from living in CALI also!.:cool:
 
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hahahaha...my alter ego got out again...

it goes to show you can't reinvent the wheel. game is game it doesn't change just cause it's a different person spitting it.

I wish these cats could see how good I'm livin now. One of my girls just took me out to lunch. And told me she wanted me to hit this fine assed girl at her office and she wanted to watch.

In the pimp world your bottom biatch will bring you other women for your team.

I know this morrocon dude here in town. He is a freak....swinger & ****...He has this chunky but cute blond girl who hunts for him. I was watching him sunday night at the club. he sends the biatchout to gather intel from different ho's...oh he also now has a fine latin biatch on his team cause all three of them were together. When the biatch finds a girl who is down for some action off they went all 4 of them.

Next time I will ball steal his latin ho from him since she was choosin big time up on my pimpin. I owe this fool one.

aight playa...hit a nigga up at SactownnPimp@aol.com I will hook you up with some things.

appreciate you commin out and showin ya love family....you ain't like some of these coconuts up on here (brown on the outside and you know the rest)...Hell I didn't even realize there were so many of the peeps here until this other post showed up.
 
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