Thats it!, she's nexted!, I've been an idiot!

[Dave111]

I cant believe what a AFC prick I've been!,

Been working in this job with this girl for the past five months. We're both single, this girl is half Italian and is gorgeous. We have become good friends, and tend to go out a lot. We have kissed each other a few times, on drunken nights out on town, but nothing more.

I know she knows I like her & I was constantly flirting with her, kino/teasing etc and felt like I was getting somewhere, but she is the queen of false hope and I've been a total **** and deserve to be shot down.

She apparantly fancies at least four guys, including myself & constantly tests me by saying things to me like "oh xxx is so hot, but I like you too".

I'm fed up and I've decided to LBJF her as I cant be bothered with her silly little games. I've been an idiiot hanging around with her as much as I have, in the hope that something would happen.

 

[bp1974]

She apparantly fancies at least four guys, including myself & constantly tests me by saying things to me like "oh xxx is so hot, but I like you too".

This kind of immature little girl is not worth your time or trouble.

As soon as she realises you're abcking off she'll try and reel you in again, just to make sure she's still got you wrapped around her little finger. Here's a list of possible things she will do:

- Come onto you even stronger, until you respond and she sees that she's still got you

- Ask you if you're ignoring her, and try and make you feel guilty. Once you respond with "No of course I still like you" she'll go back to her old tricks

- Get annoyed with you, and try and make you feel guilty. Her goal is to get you to apologise, like it's your fault

I'm sure there's other things she might do as well but that's all I could think of at the moment.

All you ened to bear in mind is that nothing good is going to happen for you be you being flirty with this girl. Nothing. Don't respond to her flirting or her whining - it's exactly what she wants.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

by telling u how hot other dudes r is the ultimate disrespect and put u in the friend zone --- but that is where u always were so nothing changes "we have become good friends" ----- never become friends with girls that you r attracted to - either persue her romantically or dont hang out period - its' too late to persue now because if she wanted u she wouldnt b telling u about other guys.

 

[sux2bu]

Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! We have another winner!

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

And ofcourse you again have no idea what you are talking about.... This girl I used to fvck used to talk with her friend while I was there about all these hot guys etc, how hot they were etc. Was I put in the friendzone? Hardly since I fvcked one of them and the other wanted to fvck me again (I used to fvck her before) and the other one started getting alot of feelings... So your logic is flawed.

 

[sux2bu]

Never date girls from work!


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[NiceGuysFinishLast]

Originally posted by Dave111
I cant believe what a AFC prick I've been!,

Been working in this job with this girl for the past five months. We're both single, this girl is half Italian and is gorgeous. We have become good friends, and tend to go out a lot. We have kissed each other a few times, on drunken nights out on town, but nothing more.

I know she knows I like her & I was constantly flirting with her, kino/teasing etc and felt like I was getting somewhere, but she is the queen of false hope and I've been a total **** and deserve to be shot down.

She apparantly fancies at least four guys, including myself & constantly tests me by saying things to me like "oh xxx is so hot, but I like you too".

I'm fed up and I've decided to LBJF her as I cant be bothered with her silly little games. I've been an idiiot hanging around with her as much as I have, in the hope that something would happen.

I could have told you that when you said, "She's Italian"

 

[NewMan]

its' too late to persue now because if she wanted u she wouldnt b telling u about other guys.

This is not even close.

There are different kind's of women - some will not mention other guys, some will.

 

[Big Pappy]

You have to decide how much you're willing to put up with for this "gorgeous" girl. Sounds to me like you're getting smart. Why should you have to compete with other men for her attention, especially since that is all she wants from any of you!

You can wait and try to win her, or step back and let her try to win you. She has interest; she just has a lot of interests.

 

[imnexthere]

Dave,
Im in a very similar situation. After alot of thought and advice I decided to cut off all ties with her as of last week and call her beginning of Jan. to see if her attitude changes. Im very interested to know what happens with your situation because it will help me out.

 

[Trogdawg]

The real question is why are you not talking about your other girls???

Oh, you don't have any...THEN GET SOME!!!

 

[Dave111]

yeah too right about the above post!

where the hell are my other girlfriends??? I'll need to get my finger out and start filling my phone book!

"I'm next there", will try keep you posted on my situation. I think the chances are, if I take a step back, she will try and rope me in again, so if she does, I'm wise to it this time.

my emails, hypersonicboy@hotmail.com, if you wanna add me to msn messenger to talk bout these *****es!

 

[DEKKA]

the feminine immaturity you speak of never presents itself in situations where the man is in control and/or is not wrapped up in the woman in question.

problems only arise when the man is not clearly in control of the situation.

think about the times when a woman liked you, but you really didn't like her back very much. you were in complete control because you were not influenced in a harmful way by her beauty.

when you have a woman with very high IL she won't play a lot of these sorts of games.

also when you are in control much like you are when you aren't particularly attracted to the woman thats chasing you, you will not have to deal with these sorts of things.

if a woman senses that she can get to you, because you have too much attachment to the situation, she will start to play games with you.

if you're not who you need to be you'll be revealed for the chump that you are.

never blame women for playing games. in fact never really blame women for anything including immaturity. they are purely mirrors that reflect the manner of man that we are. that my friends is why its so impossible to figure out "what a woman is". she has no personal identity but rather is a fluid and changing creature that sways and molds herself according to the man that we are.

we are the end all, the be all, and the answer to all of our own woes. in order to solve any problem with women we must always look to ourselves for the answer.

peace playas.... and good luck.

 

[E-Z Rider]

Originally posted by DEKKA
the feminine immaturity you speak of never presents itself in situations where the man is in control and/or is not wrapped up in the woman in question.

problems only arise when the man is not clearly in control of the situation.

think about the times when a woman liked you, but you really didn't like her back very much. you were in complete control because you were not influenced in a harmful way by her beauty.

when you have a woman with very high IL she won't play a lot of these sorts of games.

also when you are in control much like you are when you aren't particularly attracted to the woman thats chasing you, you will not have to deal with these sorts of things.

if a woman senses that she can get to you, because you have too much attachment to the situation, she will start to play games with you.

if you're not who you need to be you'll be revealed for the chump that you are.

never blame women for playing games. in fact never really blame women for anything including immaturity. they are purely mirrors that reflect the manner of man that we are. that my friends is why its so impossible to figure out "what a woman is". she has no personal identity but rather is a fluid and changing creature that sways and molds herself according to the man that we are.

we are the end all, the be all, and the answer to all of our own woes. in order to solve any problem with women we must always look to ourselves for the answer.

peace playas.... and good luck.

Wow...that's some good sheet, mang!

 

[Player_Supreme]

1. Yeah you have
2. You have messed in the cookie jar but haven't tasted the goods yet?
3. A woman needs a man who will step up kid, not sit on the side and hope for a miracle....that means you should of taken the panties by now...what more did you need beside a basket of panties up side ya head.

4. She is teasing and testing you...hoping you would of been man enough to step up

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Women will only play games if you let them. The easiest way to prevent them from playing games is by feighning disinterest and not giving a sh1t about anything.

Example: I went on a date with a chick not so long ago. During the date she tried to make me jealous by talking about her ex-boyfriend. I didn't respond and when she saw that I didn't give a fukk she dropped the subject.

 

[OpenMind]

You have gotten some damm good advice so far... what I would like to add is if she starts to pull that talking about how other guys are hot shyt, then just act like you never heard her and start talking about the 10 other hot women that are begging for your c0ck.. tell her how they wont leave you alone, the calls at 3 am, the gifts, the crazy love emails..

throw her off guard but stay the hell away.. next this b1tch.. she is bad news.. i have delt with her kind before and it is just a game to them to satisfy their ego.. she is not relationship material, and God bless the fool that gets in one with her.

can you imagine the shyt you would have to put up with? too many quality women out their to subject your nuts to a flake like this, move on and find better, but dont forget to throw it up in her face because one like this is great for social proof, provided you dont fall into her trap again.. good luck!

 

[TooColdUlrick]

Originally posted by DEKKA
when you have a woman with very high IL she won't play a lot of these sorts of games.

enough said.