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That actress feeling "sorry" for Putin made me think about the average man situation

Who Dares Win

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This is the clip for those who didnt see it.

Now while I believe she is missing countless points about the current situation, I believe she may have a point about how the past conditions of a man influence his thinking patterns, his personality and many other processes related to dealing with women.

We often talk about how older women are basically burned out from being pumped and dumped from chads that at some point their brain receptors for bonding with a man get fried and she turns into an emotional zombie that only seeks a beta to feed her.

I believe something similar happens to men especially the average ones which are getting a very raw deal when it comes of dating and being validated in their sensitive age from their teens to their late 20s.

Now we all know the 80-20 rule in real life and how dating apps probably pushed even more those numbers...we reach a point where a huge percentage of men live their life sexless and with no satisfaction from women when they need it the most.

I was wondering what is the long term effect in their head regarding such events, do they still hold a grudge generally and make a point of not investing in women later on when they manage to become succesful? do they get jaded so despite behaving decently they decide to "keep the distance" from their own girlfriend?

After being ignored/rejected and made felt like a secondary object unworth of intimacy does a guy may get paranoid even when later one girls are genuinely interested in him? Do they turn into simps due to their desperation and quit any ambition to being valued?

But most importantly how this intimate fact influence their overall personality in your opinion?
 

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I have avoided it (the video clip), on purpose.
It is embarrassing and so cringe that I want to puke.
It shows how weak our western civilization bas become. (I still refuse to watch it all. I seen shorter clips of it).
Vladimir Putana and China is rolling on the floor and laughing about it, (and us).

After being ignored/rejected and made felt like a secondary object unworth of intimacy does a guy may get paranoid even when later one girls are genuinely interested in him? Do they turn into simps due to their desperation and quit any ambition to being valued?
This is to generalize it way too much and I believe nothing either black or white. There are several aspect on a coin side when you flip it and often complex aspects too. It depends on personality. Some guys are resilient end will never ever fvcking give up while others are weaker and will fall into that category.

Why are some snowflakes while others thrive under the same circumstances? Hard to tell, right?
 
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Even if the guy meets a decent chick later on, there probably is a risk that he could unconsciously sabotage the relationship because he is so used to the wheels coming off (based on his past experiences).

I’m seeing somebody right now and have to be careful of this. (I was thinking about something close to this topic the other day.)
 
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I was wondering what is the long term effect in their head regarding such events, do they still hold a grudge generally and make a point of not investing in women later on when they manage to become succesful? do they get jaded so despite behaving decently they decide to "keep the distance" from their own girlfriend?

After being ignored/rejected and made felt like a secondary object unworth of intimacy does a guy may get paranoid even when later one girls are genuinely interested in him? Do they turn into simps due to their desperation and quit any ambition to being valued?
These are decent takes.

Ive pretty done everything above. If a girl gets close now, almost tell her to F off. It’s messed up, but it’s the result of not getting the girls when you want them, the ages where you have nothing except yourself. The relationship with a girl is not transactional.

I went out with a hot 30 year old Yoga teacher 3 days ago, After about 45 min, I was thinking, “is the date over? I don’t want to talk to you anymore. Get out of my face,” Brutal.

Posted an article a while ago about the sexual Revolution. Basically it said: the pill and the hot girls between 18 - 29 have destroyed the fabric of society.
 

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I just don't care at all. I have a cool projector, Occolus Quest 2, and other gadgets and could not care less. I've gained weight and am like 40% bf. Of course the points you've raised are a good reason not to care. You've nailed it, that's probably why.
 

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Even if the guy meets a decent chick later on, there probably is a risk that he could unconsciously sabotage the relationship because he is so used to the wheels coming off (based on his past experiences).

I’m seeing somebody right now and have to be careful of this. (I was thinking about something close to this topic the other day.)
I can totally relate. We have seen too much. We have a sort of dating PTSD. We are too Redpilled. We are right though that wheels will eventually come off ( statistically speaking). It's just that it's not an enjoyable way to experience an relationship.

We are coming from a place of fear. We should just enjoy the moment and accept that one day it will all end.
 

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These are decent takes.

Ive pretty done everything above. If a girl gets close now, almost tell her to F off. It’s messed up, but it’s the result of not getting the girls when you want them, the ages where you have nothing except yourself. The relationship with a girl is not transactional.

I went out with a hot 30 year old Yoga teacher 3 days ago, After about 45 min, I was thinking, “is the date over? I don’t want to talk to you anymore. Get out of my face,” Brutal.

Posted an article a while ago about the sexual Revolution. Basically it said: the pill and the hot girls between 18 - 29 have destroyed the fabric of society.
Where is this article bro? I was looking for it. Thanks
 

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For myself, there is the combination of a very levels of cynicism & burnout. If I ever continue my family tree, I can almost predict that my baby-mama will end up abandoning me in some way (i.e., dumping/divorcing or "closing up the shop"). I also have this inner rage at how women in their prime have rejected me, but then when they become harridans, they are ready for me.

 

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I just don't care at all. I have a cool projector, Occolus Quest 2, and other gadgets and could not care less. I've gained weight and am like 40% bf. Of course the points you've raised are a good reason not to care. You've nailed it, that's probably why.
OcculusCoping
 

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It used very infrequently. Like about a few times or so a month. Way more time is spent with Jesus or in spiritual activities in proportion. However, when I use the device, or projector, or TV, to watch a movie, there is a nice high experience similar to what people experience visiting a cinema. My parents buy food from outside and bring it home and the feedback is the type of food may be a bit fattening on my system, plus the type of desk work I do has me in my home office allot making calls out which is rather sedentary. So I'm not a couch potato that's coping by watching endless streaming content on an Occulus Quest 2. The novelty wears out quickly and there is eye-strain if you really go there, just like you'll get sick of visiting the cinema if you work there or visit such a place every day to watch a different movie or series of movies, etc.... The fastest way to kill any hobby is to overindulge in it.

As of late, I tend to enjoy the natural projector experience of watching a movie on the wall rather than on the Occulus Quest 2 because, despite the fact I can get an IMAX sized screen (not in quality but in terms of size) on the VR device, it has an weird "unnatural" feel to it rather than watching a natural movie with a real projector/TV set-up. I have not visited a since cinema before the pandemic and have given up on visiting cinemas for the time being since the selection of movies is always too limited and are usually out on streaming anyway before you know it.
 
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For myself, there is the combination of a very levels of cynicism & burnout. If I ever continue my family tree, I can almost predict that my baby-mama will end up abandoning me in some way (i.e., dumping/divorcing or "closing up the shop"). I also have this inner rage at how women in their prime have rejected me, but then when they become harridans, they are ready for me.

Same thing is happening to me. In fact, if the girl even has lost 90% of her looks, she still thinks she can do better than me. It’s not until they absolutely smash THROUGH the wall that they are suddenly interested. “Oh I was always interested, I just didn’t know what I want” or “you never made a move!” even though I’d asked them out several times only to be blown off or not taken seriously. But suddenly they’re easy to communicate with now that I’m the very last option lol
 

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Same thing is happening to me. In fact, if the girl even has lost 90% of her looks, she still thinks she can do better than me. It’s not until they absolutely smash THROUGH the wall that they are suddenly interested. “Oh I was always interested, I just didn’t know what I want” or “you never made a move!” even though I’d asked them out several times only to be blown off or not taken seriously. But suddenly they’re easy to communicate with now that I’m the very last option lol
Yes! Nothing hits them harder than the wall
 

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For myself, there is the combination of a very levels of cynicism & burnout. If I ever continue my family tree, I can almost predict that my baby-mama will end up abandoning me in some way (i.e., dumping/divorcing or "closing up the shop"). I also have this inner rage at how women in their prime have rejected me, but then when they become harridans, they are ready for me.

I feel you. Mentally Im like I hope my gf never leaves but I always have to be mentally prepared that the relationship could suddenly end any given day.
 

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Yes! Nothing hits them harder than the wall
But it’s highly insulting to me to think they can let themselves go and think I’d still be interested. Especially after the way they treated me in the past.
 

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But it’s highly insulting to me to think they can let themselves go and think I’d still be interested. Especially after the way they treated me in the past.
Hell yeah its insulting. By that point we are like nope, thanks. I rather invest a bit more time but pull someone better/Hotter/younger.
 

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Yes! Nothing hits them harder than the wall
Wrong. The wall is softer than we think.

 

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Why does she want to be his mother so badly? Is this some new fetish/kink?

Like a reverse Oedipus complex
 

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If only the internet had existed back in 1940. We could have dissuaded Hitler from devastating Europe by sending him a passive-aggressive Tiktok video.
 

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Biden is pathetic. He practically invited Russia in. It's no coincidence that Putin decided to do this right now whilst a verified turnip is running the White House. I'm pretty sure that Biden's performance in Afghanistan was the confirmation that he needed that the USA wasn't prepared to defend its allies.

I feel sorry for the people that have lost their homes and their livelihoods. I don't feel sorry for the murderer who ordered this just to make himself feel important. Any woman that does needs her head examined.
 
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