Thank you so much........

[volkak]

First of all I have to thank each and everyone of you guys on this forum, you have all changed my life. Since I have been lurking on this site (off and on for about 2 years), I have learned so much about myself and about women.

I'm South African (Yes, the women are NO different here than they are anywhere else in the Western world).

The being "put on a pedestal thing", being spoiled rotten by mommy and daddy and having AFC's gush all over them, sadly happens here as well, BUT because of this site I am one step ahead, and too often find myself laughing at the way girls try to manipulate and play with me.

Lately I have been feeling like a "wild-beast with a man suit on", I swear girls pick up on it and love it, last night I went out and a girl I have known for over 10 years gave me the best compliment, she said "You've changed so much, what happened to the nice guy I used to know". I replied "Nice guys finish last, girls want a good guy that acts like a man".

If her boyfriend wasn't an old school friend, I know I could have had her....

I am continually learning and trying to absorb the DJ Bible, it lifts me up when i need a boost, when I get rejected and I'm feeling low it builds me back up and keeps me going.

So THANK YOU, you are the brothers I never had (the brothers that know about women that is...)

 

[cave dweller]

smile

volkak,

Here are a couple of thoughts for you.

1.. Find an interest in a couple of unique hobbies. (women love them)

2.. Try to always display confidence around women.

3.. Work on your smile.

4.. If you are not in school enroll in some type of course to better yourself. There are all types of schools available ie: night classes, online courses, ect. ect.

my 2 cents

cave dweller

 

[cave dweller]

hobby

Just to prove my point.

I am 57 years old and have been divorced for over 15 years.

One of my hobbies is antiques.

Why, you ask?

Because 99% of all women, no matter what age, love antiques.

If you don't believe me go to an antique mall, antique auction or an estate sale--guess what, 90% of the people that show up are women!

Also, when you go out for coffee take a book on antiques and lay it on the table and watch the waitress bend over and look at it.

One waitress sat down and starting looking though a book that I had in front of me.

I woun't charge you anything for this tip.

)

cave dweller

 

[disciple]

Always keep striving to learn as much as you can because knowledge is power.

I like to see a person change their life for the better and emerging from AFCism is like waking up from the Matrix and discovering that the world is not as it seems and that the nice guy doesn't ride off in the sunset with the pretty girl because she is too busy trying to get in some jerk's pants.

Good work man!!!

As you start to come up with your own unique insights to the game, share some of those insights with the rest of us so we can all learn.


"The strong rule the weak but the wise rule the strong".