Text and phone game info

[IamtheAlphamale]

Text game just now. Girl I met at the bar last night

Thats pretty interesting how you played that

 

[SW15]

Did you mean it's difficult to just do the phone thing and kill the texting game? Or did you mean it's difficult to implement the text game?

I meant that it is difficult to kill the texting because some people won't pick up a phone for voice conversation purposes.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

I meant that it is difficult to kill the texting because some people won't pick up a phone for voice conversation purposes.

Yeah that makes sense. I will need to work on both things. Thanks for your input

 

[EyeBRollin]

A lot of young guys meet girls on OLD, unless she already has high interest u need to do some texting.

No you do not.

 

[anonymous12345]

I have this problem that my identity/style in my native language (Swedish) and in particular over text, is very unsexy, dry, formal, un-charming at the moment. With English it's much better (sexting etc.). It feels like in Swedish-mode it's much harder. If I wrote or said what @Velasco did in Swedish, I'd get ghosted/***** slapped/metoo'd/etc. It feels that way for me. English is cooler -- the wealth of movies with 'heroes' of various kind.

I guess my task is to find some steamy/charming Swedish identity that works for escalation and text game.

@PowerQuest, you're a Scandinavian too. What's your perspective on this? Any tips on Swedish movies?

 

[EyeBRollin]

Stop trying to game over text. It’s a losing battle. You have to game her in person.

 

[anonymous12345]

Stop trying to game over text. It’s a losing battle. You have to game her in person.

Yes, I agree. I'm all right in person, it's Swedish over text that is a concern. I don't try to game over text, but my experience is that girls want to warm up at least a little bit over text. I.e, not set up date on first message, but after maybe 3-4 messages.

This thread is on the texting topic too:

Texting

It’s absurd, but what me and one of my wing men have realised I need to work on the most right now is my text game. I mess it up more than my day game and cold approaches. In one way, that abstract phone brings out more a fear of rejection than otherwise — I typically rush, try to set up a date...

www.sosuave.net

 

[EyeBRollin]

Yes, I agree. I'm all right in person, it's Swedish over text that is a concern. I don't try to game over text, but my experience is that girls want to warm up at least a little bit over text. I.e, not set up date on first message, but after maybe 3-4 messages.

I posted my script I used for 3 years in another thread. Modify it to your liking:


Hey how are you?

I’m fine. You?

Glad to hear. I am well.. just planning my next trip. Did you travel often before the pandemic?

Yes, blah blah blah (woman speak)

Oh cool! Where was your last memorable trip?

I went to Mexico. It was blah blah blah

Nice. I’ve never been to Mexico. Tell me about it over a drink?

That sounds fun. (At this point roughly 30% of girls would comment how smooth the Segway into a date was)

Great, let’s meet at Bobs bar Thursday at 7 pm. Sound good?
Bobs Bar
Street Name
City, State, Zip

Ok

Is that a yes?

Yes.

Great, so I will see you there?

Yes!

Perfect. See you there 888-888-8888 if you need to reach me.

Thanks EyeBRollin. 999-999-9999

 

[Dr.Suave]

Text One: "Hey girl. How´s ur weekend going?" When matching during weekend. If matching Monday/Tuesday it was "Hey girl. How was your weekend?". If matching Wednesday/Thursday "Hey girl. Any cool plans for the upcoming weekend?"
Her: Bla bla bla

Next text: "Cool. What do you enjoy doing with your free time?"
Her: bla bla bla

If we have suff in common:

"Looks like we have a lot in common. Im craving my favorite sushi place, wanna meet 5:30ish pm next saturday?" Maybe Im implying that since we have stuff in common I wanna get to know her better.

If we dont have that much in common:

"I live in X city by Y mall. Anything interesting near your house?"
Her: Bla bla bla
"My favorite Burger place is very close to your house. Wanna meet Next saturday evening and grab a bite?"


If there was a new movie I actually wanted to see.
"I wanna watch the new Marvel movie. Lets go on day 1 to avoid spoilers. My favorite movie place has a show at 6pm"

No long texts. No double texting. No over-talking or over-sharing. STFU, Keep it simple and more or less mirror her response time.

So she showed up at the date. Cool. At the end tell her something like "Text me when u are home safe". When she texts u shes home, I just reply "Descansa" which is similar to have a good nights sleep or something like that. Dissappear 1-3 days and ask her out again.

 

[Zimbabwe]

No you do not.

If you can pull a girl from OLD without Texting, i would close my account