I have been a "nice guy" ever since i started dating back when I was 15 and where did it get me? No where. I finally realized that being JUST nice was not going to cut it after my girlfriend cheated on me with her ex right after we got back from the Bahamas on an all expense paid trip by yours truly. It was really hard to get over her, because I was really attracted to her sexually (mostly) and the fact that I still saw good in her, not anymore. I have finally realized that "women are the ****ing rake"- rounders.
I have treated them all perfect until now, girls dont want prince charming to do everything for them and never have problems. They want a nice mix of a bad boy and a sweet guy, I would venture and say 80%/20% in favor of bad boy, maybe even higher. So this past weekend I decided to test the waters, and see what would work and what would not work.
I still have not found a good mix, and maybe u guys can help me here but here goes.
I basically bashed every girl I came into contact with, while portraying the "I am the prize" look by looking and feeling confident. My boy came up this weekend, who you could say is a master don juan. He has hooked up with over 100 different girls over his illustrious college career, and now I know why after seeing him hug/kiss/makeout with probably 10 girls just yesterday. There is one moment that stands out of what he did the other day and told me. We were walking to get some food, whilst a little drunk, and we walked by a group of 3 girls, they diddent even say hi to us when we walked by. My friend with a loud voice said "You *****es aint ****". It was one of the funniest things I have heard. But it brings up a valid point- sometimes I think girls need to be braught down a peg. If they think they are hot ****, tell them they are not- this way they are looking for appreciation even more- this is where you come in. I did manage to get my drink spilled all over me by a girl who I told to "get the **** out of the way" when I was drunk, but ill chalk that up as a field injury. This weekend, I basically just neg'd every girl I came into contact with, never said hi to the girls I normally do, and surprisingly they all initiated the waves these past few days.
I am sorry for ranting, not even sure if this makes sense but it was on my mind- since I am still going through withdrawls because of my ex- speaking of which, is it even worth getting back at her? I feel like I was duped guys.. I am not a rich man but I spent maybe 1/2 my bank acct on her (most of which paid for the bahamas trip)
Any ideas? or should I just be the bigger man and leave it be?
I have treated them all perfect until now, girls dont want prince charming to do everything for them and never have problems. They want a nice mix of a bad boy and a sweet guy, I would venture and say 80%/20% in favor of bad boy, maybe even higher. So this past weekend I decided to test the waters, and see what would work and what would not work.
I still have not found a good mix, and maybe u guys can help me here but here goes.
I basically bashed every girl I came into contact with, while portraying the "I am the prize" look by looking and feeling confident. My boy came up this weekend, who you could say is a master don juan. He has hooked up with over 100 different girls over his illustrious college career, and now I know why after seeing him hug/kiss/makeout with probably 10 girls just yesterday. There is one moment that stands out of what he did the other day and told me. We were walking to get some food, whilst a little drunk, and we walked by a group of 3 girls, they diddent even say hi to us when we walked by. My friend with a loud voice said "You *****es aint ****". It was one of the funniest things I have heard. But it brings up a valid point- sometimes I think girls need to be braught down a peg. If they think they are hot ****, tell them they are not- this way they are looking for appreciation even more- this is where you come in. I did manage to get my drink spilled all over me by a girl who I told to "get the **** out of the way" when I was drunk, but ill chalk that up as a field injury. This weekend, I basically just neg'd every girl I came into contact with, never said hi to the girls I normally do, and surprisingly they all initiated the waves these past few days.
I am sorry for ranting, not even sure if this makes sense but it was on my mind- since I am still going through withdrawls because of my ex- speaking of which, is it even worth getting back at her? I feel like I was duped guys.. I am not a rich man but I spent maybe 1/2 my bank acct on her (most of which paid for the bahamas trip)
Any ideas? or should I just be the bigger man and leave it be?