tension with my female room mates

[carlitos]

ok so i live in a house full of international exchange students in mexico, and there are these two girls who are best friends and they're always talking and gossiping etc...

lately i've been feeling some tension between us (me and them), one girl is always sending me mixed signals. for example, not talking to me sometimes...not going to places with me when i ask her to..but always pays attention to me like sometimes she'll say i'm not nice to her (i know this is a good sign) or leaving her jacket in my room on purpose etc..

i don't know what's going on right now...i used to like that girl and i think she knows too...then the vibe kinda got cold but one day she gave me this doggy-dinner-bowl look but then later on she was semi-cold again...

i don't know what's going on...it's been like this for a month..always pushing and pulling..anyone have any idea how to escalate?

 

[carlitos]

bump. it's just that i feel there's a lot of sexual tension between us..like she's trying to make me jealous on purpose...a lot of girls seem to do this nowadays..anyone can explain it to me better?

 

[Answers]

Theres some tension there which is good. She doesn't see you as a friend so thats a positive thing. She might like you is my guess.

 

[amoka]

Female roommates?

 

[carlitos]

well..we all live in a big student house with a lot of rooms..
and i'm sayin' this because she talks to all these other guys and kinda ignores me...but she doesnt end up doing anything with them..

 

[Reborn]

I would ignore her. Talk to other people and have fun. If she's geniunly interested she'll try to get your attention back. Dont fall for her games. Guessing stuff from mixed signals has nearly always meant I've gotten played by a girl looking for attention.

 

[DonGorgon]

she likes you but wants you to chase which you must not do.