Telling a girl that you are leaving if she won't have sex anymore

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I asked her if she was mad and she told me she doesn't want to be texting me on and off because she can't have a boyfriend right now and that she doesn't want to lead me on. I told her that I'm not looking for a girlfriend either and that I'm not going to lead her on either. Therefore, if you are done having sex with me than I will cease contact.
 

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Better to just cease contact while she's left to figure out in her head what went wrong.

Going no contact is one of the best tools we have.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Women respond better to actions rather than words. Don't tell her. Just do it. Strangely enough, it gets their pu$$y even wetter.
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
She didn't reply cause she's wierd
Nope, she nexted you already and you said that from a position of weakness i.e. you care too much and she ain't interested. Next time, don't tell a girl you're leaving. Just go ghost. Though in this case, she wasn't interested anyway.

Actions speak louder than words, and if she likes you, she'll get wet.

Case closed.
 

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El Payaso said:
Women respond better to actions rather than words. Don't tell her. Just do it. Strangely enough, it gets their pu$$y even wetter.

Exactly ! I wouldn't tell her anything. I would just do it, withdraw the attention. If she was ever interested, shes almost bound to contact you.

NOW, you had to throw in your 2c right ? I try to minimize ''direct-logic'' communication with HBs to a minimum since I believe its counter productive most of the time.

If I were you I wouldn't as If she's mad thats cliche, instead test the waters by doing.If she told you she doesn't want a boyfriend what was stopping you from just keeping your mouth shut, proceeding and keeping it as it was ?

Food for thought.
 

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I didn't even want a girlfriend. I just wanted sex. I thought girls liked you more after you dumped them?
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
I didn't even want a girlfriend. I just wanted sex. I thought girls liked you more after you dumped them?
Yeah, if the girl wasn't premeditating a breakup with you. If she was, and you drop her, it makes her decision to go after that football player who wouldn't rail her last Tuesday all the much easier.

The girl has to have high attraction and interest and emotional investment in you for you to have power.
 

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nismo-4 said:
Yeah, if the girl wasn't premeditating a breakup with you. If she was, and you drop her, it makes her decision to go after that football player who wouldn't rail her last Tuesday all the much easier.

The girl has to have high attraction and interest and emotional investment in you for you to have power.
she did, but I went drunk psycho mode one night, called her every insult in the book, and dumped her. She said she wanted to keep talking, but it went downhill after that.
 

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she did, but I went drunk psycho mode one night, called her every insult in the book, and dumped her. She said she wanted to keep talking, but it went downhill after that.
If a woman considers you beta then she expects you to be whipped and under her control. If her attraction is already low (which it always is for betas).. plus you are not that into her for a relationship.. then she feels she can't trust you to be a good puppy dog/assistant/ATM. So she leaves.
 

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She's going to get some elsewhere if you leave. She has the power, not you.
 

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Poon King said:
If a woman considers you beta then she expects you to be whipped and under her control. If her attraction is already low (which it always is for betas).. plus you are not that into her for a relationship.. then she feels she can't trust you to be a good puppy dog/assistant/ATM. So she leaves.
This is what I felt. Once, I agreed to a relationship, she felt she could get away with shvt but I was like no.
 
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