superchristx
Senior Don Juan
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- Jan 13, 2004
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I talked to my ex girlfriend (M) the other day over the phone. We've been over for about a month now, now lingering feelings and only a little hostility between us. But she wanted to know the real reason I broke up with her, because I had given her a couple different answers. I told her the truth this time, I told her that I was still in love with my first girlfriend (E) and that I wasn't emotionally available to M and she was falling hard for me. So I broke it off to spare her feelings. I felt like a pretty righteous guy but M was pissed, saying that I misled her from the beginning. She said I was just using her for "experience" which I guess is technically true. E loves me, but she was my first and she wants me to try other women. I talk to her, it's cool, I even tell her when I find a new one. She lives long distance now, which complicates things.
M said that this is something I need to tell girls I date, that I'm in love with another woman and emotionally unavailable. I've just started a new one (K) and we haven't gotten serious. She says she wants to keep it light, yeah I've heard that before. I don't want to listen to advice from a woman, especially my bitter ex-girlfriend. Tell me, am I obligated to warn the girls that I date, kiss, **** that I'm really just using them? Seems like a bad idea.
M said that this is something I need to tell girls I date, that I'm in love with another woman and emotionally unavailable. I've just started a new one (K) and we haven't gotten serious. She says she wants to keep it light, yeah I've heard that before. I don't want to listen to advice from a woman, especially my bitter ex-girlfriend. Tell me, am I obligated to warn the girls that I date, kiss, **** that I'm really just using them? Seems like a bad idea.