icantgetlaid
Senior Don Juan
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- Jun 27, 2015
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I met this girl 2 nights ago doing volunteer work -- we were kind of forced to start talking due to working together. As small talk, one of the first topics that came up was how we ended up working there--she mentioned how busy she was with school/work/child/volunteering/etc. basically mentioned that she had no time.
As the night went on we ended up spending a ton of time together (even though we were no longer required to work together we did), she was asking me a lot of personal questions, seemingly very interested in me, joking/teasing/etc., and generally having a good time in each others company. I ended up asking her for her number and got it.
I sent a quick "hey its ICGL save my number" type message after she gave it to me, and waited for her to text first, which she did the very next evening around 5pm .. this is how the conversation went:
(she's a 20 year old puerto rican chick who just came to the states 6 months ago ... her english isn't great):
Her: Hola 4:56 PM
Me: Are my Spanish lessons beginning already? 5:08 PM
Her: If you want to. Just to let you know, my writing is worse than my speaking. 5:11 PM
Me: It's okay as long as you don't mind me making fun of you 5:12 PM
Her: Btw, the office people of today are worse than you. 5:12 PM
Me: Lolololol 5:12 PM
Her: Well if you don't mind hurting my feelings 5:13 PM
Me: If I hurt your feelings I can make up for it by taking you out 5:14 PM
Her: Nice try 5:15 PM
Me: I'm pretty slick you gotta be careful with me 5:16 PM
Her: What does meant? 5:17 PM
Me: It means that I'm a wolf in sheep's clothing Lol 5:18 PM
Her: Lol at least you are an honest wolf 5:18 PM
Me: No but seriously what is your schedule like this week I'd like to get together for a movie or something? 5:19 PM
Her: Well that sounds great but right now I'm not having any free time. My only off time is midnight to 7am and I use it to sleep so... But if you tell me when you can 7:05 PM
Her: I can try to make a space. 7:05 PM
Her: You still there? 7:33 PM
Me: How about Sunday at 5pm I can pick you up if you need a ride 8:37 PM
Her: I have to talk to my mom first to see if she can take care of my son 9:17 PM
Me: What time do you get off tonight... I'll call you so we can figure something out 9:59 PM
(it's 8pm the following evening and i never heard back) ..
Definitely red flags with child/mom/new to US/etc. BUT she's attractive with a big ass and i want to smash.
Anyway, after never hearing back (nearly 24 hours later) basically what is the next DJ move in this situation? I instinctively feel she is into me (we seemed to really hit it off while working together) .. but i know the signs are starting to show other wise.
As the night went on we ended up spending a ton of time together (even though we were no longer required to work together we did), she was asking me a lot of personal questions, seemingly very interested in me, joking/teasing/etc., and generally having a good time in each others company. I ended up asking her for her number and got it.
I sent a quick "hey its ICGL save my number" type message after she gave it to me, and waited for her to text first, which she did the very next evening around 5pm .. this is how the conversation went:
(she's a 20 year old puerto rican chick who just came to the states 6 months ago ... her english isn't great):
Her: Hola 4:56 PM
Me: Are my Spanish lessons beginning already? 5:08 PM
Her: If you want to. Just to let you know, my writing is worse than my speaking. 5:11 PM
Me: It's okay as long as you don't mind me making fun of you 5:12 PM
Her: Btw, the office people of today are worse than you. 5:12 PM
Me: Lolololol 5:12 PM
Her: Well if you don't mind hurting my feelings 5:13 PM
Me: If I hurt your feelings I can make up for it by taking you out 5:14 PM
Her: Nice try 5:15 PM
Me: I'm pretty slick you gotta be careful with me 5:16 PM
Her: What does meant? 5:17 PM
Me: It means that I'm a wolf in sheep's clothing Lol 5:18 PM
Her: Lol at least you are an honest wolf 5:18 PM
Me: No but seriously what is your schedule like this week I'd like to get together for a movie or something? 5:19 PM
Her: Well that sounds great but right now I'm not having any free time. My only off time is midnight to 7am and I use it to sleep so... But if you tell me when you can 7:05 PM
Her: I can try to make a space. 7:05 PM
Her: You still there? 7:33 PM
Me: How about Sunday at 5pm I can pick you up if you need a ride 8:37 PM
Her: I have to talk to my mom first to see if she can take care of my son 9:17 PM
Me: What time do you get off tonight... I'll call you so we can figure something out 9:59 PM
(it's 8pm the following evening and i never heard back) ..
Definitely red flags with child/mom/new to US/etc. BUT she's attractive with a big ass and i want to smash.
Anyway, after never hearing back (nearly 24 hours later) basically what is the next DJ move in this situation? I instinctively feel she is into me (we seemed to really hit it off while working together) .. but i know the signs are starting to show other wise.
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