Talking to a group of women w/o being ****blocked

[Your_Royal_Flyness]

A lot of guys are intimidated by groups of women. Basically your technique is to "show equal time" to everyone and engage in interesting dialogue. Women always read the vibe you're giving off. Confidence on your end breeds confidence on their end.

Here's a quick example of me in PR:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eSv7JTEqFY4


If, for instance, I was attracted to one woman in the group, I would show her less attention (at first) and make her compete for mine. Once you get in good with the group, you can pick the one you want without interference/****blocking

 

[t00dumb]

great video fly! i'm very interested what was the end result, did you ever get anything out of the girl you were attracted to?

 

[Scars]

Actually, I've learned that you need to clearly make it known which girl you want, or it will create confusion/perhaps "drama" within their circle later. The fact that you have good enough conversation skills and getting them all to be openly receptive to you is a DHV in itself. No need to ignore her or try to devalue/neg her. If you're doing it right, they will all take their turn trying to get your attention, or just completely interact with them as a group and get them all laughing. Sexual undertones to your target, but don't ignore her friends, just be extremely friendly. I've tried it the way you described and because I was nice to the fatty she took it as me wanting her, and her being more "alpha" within her circle she pretty much nonverbally was telling her friends "stay away from him, he's mine!". Pretty gross right? You got to shut that sh!t down quick. More or less, pick out your target and then spend the rest of your time being friendly to her friends so they "approve" you enough to let you sleep with her, or at least seclude her somewhere private.

-Scars

 

[Nutz]

A lot of guys are intimidated by groups of women. Basically your technique is to "show equal time" to everyone and engage in interesting dialogue. Women always read the vibe you're giving off. Confidence on your end breeds confidence on their end.

Here's a quick example of me in PR:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eSv7JTEqFY4


If, for instance, I was attracted to one woman in the group, I would show her less attention (at first) and make her compete for mine. Once you get in good with the group, you can pick the one you want without interference/****blocking

To be blunt, this isn't new information. You've got win over the group before you actually go after your "target". Or as my friend and I liked to say when we were doing pickup without even realizing it back in 98-2003, you've got to appease the notty before you can get the hotty.

 

[Vice]

Actually, I've learned that you need to clearly make it known which girl you want, or it will create confusion/perhaps "drama" within their circle later. The fact that you have good enough conversation skills and getting them all to be openly receptive to you is a DHV in itself. No need to ignore her or try to devalue/neg her. If you're doing it right, they will all take their turn trying to get your attention, or just completely interact with them as a group and get them all laughing. Sexual undertones to your target, but don't ignore her friends, just be extremely friendly. I've tried it the way you described and because I was nice to the fatty she took it as me wanting her, and her being more "alpha" within her circle she pretty much nonverbally was telling her friends "stay away from him, he's mine!". Pretty gross right? You got to shut that sh!t down quick. More or less, pick out your target and then spend the rest of your time being friendly to her friends so they "approve" you enough to let you sleep with her, or at least seclude her somewhere private.

-Scars

This is ON POINT. And talking to the whole group is Mystery Method 101. And as much as I don't like MM because the lines he puts in it are weird and feel contrived, the actual framework of social interaction is excellent.

But it does not go too much into detail of the hazards of talking to the whole group like Scars does. My own personal touch would be to make my intentions clear to one specific girl once I sense the group has accepted me, but still remain cool with the other members of the group.

Excellent thread.

 

[cola]

I never do groups without wing men. Too much bull. Duos are much easier. Clubs suck for picking up girls btw. Its possible but annoying talking over music etc etc. Parking lot pimpin after the club is fun thoe. Dont even gotta go to the club just the let out.

 

[Szyzzlin]

you guise are phockin sissies. Chat them up for a while... then go up to the hot one and tell her you gotta use her phone. Call your own number from it. Game over

 

[Mike32ct]

I agree with Scars. The other this is, doesn't the hot chick want to pawn off the UG on someone? She'll be happy to see her fat friend finally meet a cool guy. So you win over the fatty and then the hottie is supportive. How exactly do you then ditch the fatty and switch to the hottie without confusing and/or annoying them both?

The hottie knows she gets the lion's share of the guys. On some level she must feel bad for her fat friend who gets ignored a lot. I'm thinking she would be eager to set her up.

What is laughable is Mystery's idea that you can win over a dude obstacle and he'll support you F-ing his female friend.

Just to be clear, I like Flyness and his stuff. I loved one of his first videos about "Going Dolo." I'm not picking on him or his methods. I just think we need to be careful not to "game" the fatty TOO much.