Taking viagra to get over performance anxiety?

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So I'm convinced that I have performance anxiety due to the fact that I cant get hard during sex. This is likely due to the lack of experience that I have with women and it can really be frustrating. Anyway I'm going to have sex for my 3rd time with this girl in a few days and so I managed to acquire a 50mg Viagra to give it a shot. I've heard that taking viagra a few times can help you overcome performance anxiety and so I've decided to give it a shot because I really want to keep this girl around. Has anybody tried taking viagra to overcome their performance anxiety and how much of a dose should I take? I'm thinking of taking 25mg just because its my first time around and I'm also scared of the possibility of priapism. What should I be expecting from this 25mg dose given that I dont have ed. I will also be consuming alcohol the same night, but I've heard that as long as its not excessive it should be okay. Btw Im 20 years old and in good health.
 

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Take the whole thing: You will be able to fvck a hole through concrete wall sh*tfaced or not. Nothing to be afraid of. As soon as you get the slightest bit turned on your c0ck will get hard so take it maybe 45 minutes before you expect to close the deal. Will be well worth it.
 

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done it before in your situation, not proud of it, but it works.
 

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Cool, so I'm definitely going to try it but do you think 25mg would be enough to get me hard as a rock for a while. I just dont want to take the entire pill if I dont need to especially due to the fact that Im going to be drinking as well.
 

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I've taken as little as 10mg to get over performance anxiety. It doesn't take much if you're young and in relatively good shape. Viagra is very strong... for me anyway. That 10mg gave me the tickle down there after just light kissing. You might be able to stretch that pill out a while lol.
 

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Take it if you want but realise this is not a solution.

By taking pills you are resolving the symptom not the CAUSE of your problem.

datkid55 said:
...lack of experience that I have with women...I really want to keep this girl around...
DEAL with this above...

Next time you have sex, remember this:

Sex is mostly for YOUR pleasure (get mine before I get yours)...if she gets some that's a bonus.

Relationships with women are paradoxical...the more you want to keep her the less likely it'll happen.
 

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3agle 3yes said:
Take it if you want but realise this is not a solution.

By taking pills you are resolving the symptom not the CAUSE of your problem.



DEAL with this above...

Next time you have sex, remember this:

Sex is mostly for YOUR pleasure (get mine before I get yours)...if she gets some that's a bonus.

Relationships with women are paradoxical...the more you want to keep her the less likely it'll happen.
Viagra isn't a permanent solution, but honestly, it does help get the confidence up when you have performance anxiety the first few times with a girl. Once you get that comfort level, boners happen almost by command with a chick you have chemistry with.

Obviously the caveat is that you don't use it long-term and get dependent. It would take a long time for that to happen though. Especially if young and healthy.
 

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j.619 said:
Viagra isn't a permanent solution, but honestly, it does help get the confidence up when you have performance anxiety the first few times with a girl. Once you get that comfort level, boners happen almost by command with a chick you have chemistry with.
yes, exactly this. If you boner works on its own, then getting comfy with a chick using viagra can help you. You will feel real good once you get a good bang in without the pill.
 

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I got over performance anxiety, but kinda got lucky. I wound up with a girl who was totally infatuated with me and I was sexually attracted to her (although my limp **** wouldn't have suggested it) because she was slightly better looking than any girl I'd been with before.

If the girl is cool, she'll be understanding and give you time. Once I overcame it, i never had the issue again. ****ed many randoms and short-term relations with it.

I considered the pill initially, but decided to get over the mental block naturally and I think it was a good route for me, personally.
 

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Viagra is usually 100mg. The 50mg is a half dose already. 25mg will still work, but it helps a lot to not have very much food in your stomach when you take it.
 

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MtnMan said:
yes, exactly this. If you boner works on its own, then getting comfy with a chick using viagra can help you. You will feel real good once you get a good bang in without the pill.
This. You won't need it after a few times. I can personally attest.
 

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Careful OP. Youre 20, in good health, and dont have a medical problem stopping you from getting an erection. Dont take drugs that you may become dependent on to maintain an erection. Work on your confidence kid...mind over matter.

Because I can definitely see the drugs making you unable to get an erection without it...because once you end up trying to have sex without the drugs again...you may have even greater anxiety because of the mental crutch the viagra gave you. If you were older, or had a legit medical issue keeping you from maintaining an erection, Id be all for it. Be smart.
 

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Jaylan said:
Careful OP. Youre 20, in good health, and dont have a medical problem stopping you from getting an erection. Dont take drugs that you may become dependent on to maintain an erection. Work on your confidence kid...mind over matter.

Because I can definitely see the drugs making you unable to get an erection without it...because once you end up trying to have sex without the drugs again...you may have even greater anxiety because of the mental crutch the viagra gave you. If you were older, or had a legit medical issue keeping you from maintaining an erection, Id be all for it. Be smart.
Wut....
 

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j.619 said:
Hard time understanding what I said?

Basically Im saying that theres a possibility the kid gives himself a psychological crutch. Ive heard of it happening before. Im just telling him to be careful of making his erection dependent on pills. Ive read stories of younger guys using it to help get hard, and then not being able to maintain erections once they decide to stop taking pills.
 
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