Taking girls back to mom's house (lol)

[Snowman23]

Alright, it's a small house and I really can't take girls back there. I mean, I could but I'd probly wake her up and I really like the fact I'm saving money, especially in this economy. I mean, if it was a big house, it really wouldn't be that big of a deal... but it's not. It's tiny.

I'm 22, and am not sure how girls are going to react. This might be part of the reason I'm not scoring. It's usually what prevents me from approaching in the bars. In the back of my mind I'm thinking "Okay if I get a chick, what am I going to do with her?"

I'm not crazy about moving out and paying rent ether. I could go out and get a pad with a buddy but then you gotta worry about people coming up with their half of the rent, and I think it would just be a hassle. I think I've reached an impasse.

Anyone in a similar situation and if so... how are you dealing with it? I searched but didn't really find any good info.

 

[kraytkiller]

...Grow up. It seems like your just avoiding responsibility. If it's a hassle to worry about other people keeping up with their rent, don't move in with someone you'd think of as possibly unreliable.

 

[Snowman23]

Go blow a dead bear.

 

[mackdaddy27]

IF THERE is 1 thing I have learned in my 5 years of sarging is


1) PAD -- Always HAve Your OWN PAD
2) CAR -- Always Have Your Own Car


THEY are more essential...How many girls od you know actually live alone?

 

[everywomanshero]

You can have sex with them in your car or even in the woods of a nature park (take a blanket and call it a picnic) lol but there is always some chance of getting caught, on the plus side it is cheap.

 

[nabster]

Mate I'm actually in the exact same situation u are, 22 and still living at home. I have to say I dont really see a problem with bringing girls home and riding them downstairs. I share a room with my brother upstairs and according to him hes done the same thing. U just gotta be honest wit your mam I mean mine knows what I do she's not stupid. Talk to her about it if shes really got a problem with it maybe it would be best to move out

 

[CaptainJ]

Go blow a dead bear.

You asked for advice, he gave it to you. If you don't want to take it, then don't be a pr1ck about it.

I agree with kraytkiller, you need to grow up and move out of your Mum's house. Grown Men don't rely on their parents to provide their shelter, they get out into the real world and fend for themselves. You will discover a lot more about yourself living on your own, and you will grow in confidence.

Don't ask questions expecting to get an answer you want to hear. More often than not, you will get the harsh real answer that you DON'T want to hear.

 

[TheGameMaster]

theyre absolutely right. **** the economic climate, there are more important things than money, like developing into a man who fends for himself. On the massive plus side, your thinking is in the right direction, which it isnt for most people

 

[PeeGee]

I faced a similar problem living in the suburbs outside of Toronto and going to Toronto for clubbing. I mean, you'll end up driving halfway around the GTA by the end of the night, and if she lives near to you, she'd have a car downtown!

It is absolutely essential you get your own place at some point. You are still young so you can focus on improving yourself at the moment (that way something like some recession won't ruin your game)

Your reasoning for not having flatmates is terrible though. I'm not even going to bother explaining why it's better to have roommates than living by yourself or with your partner.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

But, why would you want to take anyone to your house, they will know where you live and then can mark you. There are security issues. Taking a stranger to your house? You can make up that excuse and go somewhere else, like her place.

 

[CaptainJ]

But, why would you want to take anyone to your house, they will know where you live and then can mark you. There are security issues. Taking a stranger to your house? You can make up that excuse and go somewhere else, like her place.

On second thoughts and deliberating over Luke's infallible advice, it seems we should never take girls back to our houses. Yes that's right chaps, these girls will "mark" us, and God help us when that happens. I can only assume this is part of their grand plot or conspiracy. Thanks for your wisdom Luke, I shall now on avoid letting any new acquaintance know of my address, for they will surely "mark" me.

 

[Igetit!]

But, why would you want to take anyone to your house, they will know where you live and then can mark you. There are security issues. Taking a stranger to your house? You can make up that excuse and go somewhere else, like her place.

Luke,you'll have to forgive me for my ignorance,but what....in the world.....are you talking about?

What do you mean by,"they can mark you"? What does that mean?

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Luke,you'll have to forgive me for my ignorance,but what....in the world.....are you talking about?

What do you mean by,"they can mark you"? What does that mean?

What it means is that you don't know what stranger you are taking into your home. If you have valuables, she can take notice of that, and then a few days later you find someone broke into your home. Or, if something goes south, maybe she'll get her mafia connections with a bazooka and blow your house up, I don't know. The fact is, she knows where you live. You don't know what other agenda she has, or what sort of connections she has. Maybe she's a scout for a gang looking for a house to rob.

So, if there is a legitimate security concern, you can hide behind that if you are living at home. Or just say, for security reasons, unless you've gone some place else with her (to do whatever) and you know her well enough, you are not going to bring her to your home like that. It just takes one wrong girl to mess everything up and knowing your address.

 

[FormerDonJuan]

The park idea is great. I have done that a few times myself but it usually takes some convincing. (Unless she's a freak that likes the possibility of getting caught.)

 

[CaptainJ]

So, if there is a legitimate security concern, you can hide behind that if you are living at home. Or just say, for security reasons, unless you've gone some place else with her (to do whatever) and you know her well enough, you are not going to bring her to your home like that. It just takes one wrong girl to mess everything up and knowing your address.

And ofcourse you speak with experience, having brought girls back to your place and laying them left right and centre.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

And ofcourse you speak with experience, having brought girls back to your place and laying them left right and centre.

No, I'm talking about a good excuse to hide under.

 

[Alle_Gory]

No, I'm talking about a good excuse to hide under.

Nope. You're talking out of your a55 again.

When you've done something, then you can give advice about it. Pretty simple thing to learn. Everyone here has. What's your excuse?