Taking Girl From Boyfriend

[iLoveCookies]

Fellow DJs,

I am curious on what the best way is to take a girl from her BF, any suggestions or pointers

 

[NoClue]

Originally posted by iLoveCookies
Fellow DJs,

I am curious on what the best way is to take a girl from her BF, any suggestions or pointers

Don't do it. It's an a55hole move.

 

[iLoveCookies]

its the greatest good for the greatest number, I am better than him and she will be happier

2 > 1

 

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Okay, I'm still in this situation so take my advice for what it's worth....

First off, dont let anyone fill your head with crap about if she'll leave him she'll leave you, cheating, etc...

At the same time, dont put her on a pedestal and believe that she will change for you.

You have to feel out the situation yourself and approach it in your own way. NO ONE on this board can hold your hand through this, it's a difficult situation. But it all boils down to one thing.

Show her that you're twice the guy her boyfriend is. You may think you are. And if you think this chick is worth it you have to get her to believe the same thing.

I had a guy do that to my ex girlfriend. He showed he was twice the guy I was to her (And to her that was good enough. Sure it hurt but it helped me improve). And she left me for him. What did I learn? I learned where my mistakes were, what he did, and what I needed to do to prevent that from happening in the future.

So what do you do? Show her that you're a better catch than he is. Dont kiss her ass, dont go out of your way to meet her every wish. But show her she is special, show her how much more fun she can have hanging out with you compared to him.

Make time to hang out with her. Maybe just as friends first but slowly get more sexual with it. Whatever you do just dont rush into it.

(sigh, jumbled thoughts. Hopefully you can get something from that).

 

[Egoist]

Re: Re: Taking Girl From Boyfriend

Originally posted by NoClue
Don't do it. It's an a55hole move.

good job generalizing there, partner.

 

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Re: Re: Taking Girl From Boyfriend

Originally posted by NoClue
Don't do it. It's an a55hole move.

Yeah, it is *******. But girls dont play fair, and neither will other guys.

 

[Crowes]

Originally posted by iLoveCookies
Fellow DJs,

I am curious on what the best way is to take a girl from her BF, any suggestions or pointers

She'll come to you. Do a search on username Pook or mine, formerly crowes22. Pook really nails this subject.

basically, she'll make you aware she wants you to move on her, there is the short story. Do a search.

 

[superchristx]

Truly, this woman isn't a piece of property that her man "owns," it's a mutual agreement that she can break out of at any time. If this guy is better than her BF then she has a RIGHT to be with the better guy. If he isn't better than her BF then he won't be able to get her, no harm no foul.


Spend time with her, keep her busy, do a little kino but keep it light. Have fun but the things you do together should come nowhere close to a traditional date. Just treat her like you would any other woman (by the bible) and attraction will come. If she mentions the BF, run boyfriend destroyer on her (do a search) because it WORKS.

Don't talk about it, don't say she's hot or that you want her, or that she should dump her boyfriend. In order for this to happen she has to be able to justify it to herself. "It just happened!" if there is any premeditation on her part your whole effort will fall to pieces. In a moment of passion you kiss her, emotions explode, blah blah blah. Don't let her think. If she starts to act like you are trying to pick her up, play it cool, back off on the kino and just have fun. Fun is the key, she prolly isn't having fun with her BF anymore.

Your mouth says "friends baby! friends, friends, friends!"

your body says "Sex baby, sex baby, sex sex sex!"

 

[SeldomSeen]

RE:

first make sure he cant kick your ass. Hahaha

Some guy tried to take my roommate (who's female) from her man. When he found who my roommates boyfriend was he was scared ****less. Needless to say he backed off

 

[PurplePimp]

Re: Re: Taking Girl From Boyfriend

Originally posted by Crowes
She'll come to you.

listen this real man know what he talk.

girl will bf will give you all sign and come to you. she already have man so it is stuped to try and "take" her from bf. if she really like she let you know in different way.

for example she touch you lot or say cellphone number when you no ask. she give what you america say "hint" and lot of.

 

[MightyMate]

Its not an ******* move. Sometimes You are really into somebodys woman. But You cant know him or be his friends. Its the best to do tht with an enemy. Oncei fall in love with somebodys wioman. And she fall with me. So i made him my worst enemy and we hated each other. I mean really hated. So staling a girl wasnt a problem.

 

[tmpgstx]

It really depends on the girl and the stability of her relationship. Some girls wait in a comfort zone for someone they deem better to come along, and once they do, such as posters here suggested, she'll give you hints and her boyfriend is history.

Other times, the girl can be caught up in relationship where she is manipulated by having her insecurities and guilt exploited by her boyfriend. causing her to push away someone else she really likes to have less confusion and stress in her life.

If she has any ounce of confidence and self-worth it is just a matter of time before she starts seriously shopping around if in a bad relationship.

 

[resilient]

Alright I'm going to play the reverse side of this coin here.

Too many times I've lost my relationships in the past due to either:

A) best female friend telling her to break up with me because I got too clingy/co-dependent/or lost the mystery/challenge.
B) A guy friend in my group would be around to hear her vent about my said insecurities and eventually smoothed his way into the relationship when it ran its course.
C) and every time the guy who won her from me was at least 6 foot tall. I'm 5'9" and have felt miserable about being small my whole life but do my best to hide it with bigger arms, chest, and 6pack then them. Still I can never hold onto em' after turning into an AFC when I started out so strong and independent. And the guys who steal them from me are smooth talkers in that they can play on their feelings by acting ****ier, kino, and persuading than I can at the time.

I'm always pissed when I see them having a year+ relationship with my ex when I had maybe 3-5 months.

I always see these symptoms happen towards the end of my relationships as her interest level begins to drop. I think next time I should be smarter and become less available and hang out with other girls to keep them interested... when I see her becoming more and more disinterested. In theory she'll fight to have me back because she'll see I have options.

 

[tmpgstx]

Yeah, it's all about perceived value resilient.

It's kind of weird some of the things you mention. I'm tall - big and ripped and considered 'really, really hot' so i've been told.

Many girls will come around me that are very attractive and let me hear within a earshot of the problems they are having with their BF. They won't tell me directly but can tell they want me to hear it. So then i say to myself - well let's see if she dumps him and keeps him dumped and then if she wants me, she'll be back but definitely single.

I'm thinking these guys are striking while the iron is hot and getting them to their side of the fence. Some of the girls that come around me are in unstable relationships and they are the commital types. So as i said in a earlier post - their BF is ****y and exploits their insecurities - keeps them hooked or reels them back when they can sense their interest going down. They also use sex to keep these 'goody' type girls attached.

You have that take it or leave it attitude when their IL drops - this gets them back more times than not.

 

[iLoveCookies]

I have not read this becuase I have finals to study for (last 2 tomorrow morning) but keep the stuff comming


somebody link me to the pook thread

thnaks

 

[Lhemmix]

boyfriend destroyer

Why don't you use the Boyfriend Destroyer pattern. It can be found in the layguide at fastseduction.com.

 

[SeldomSeen]

Re: boyfriend destroyer

Originally posted by Lhemmix
Why don't you use the Boyfriend Destroyer pattern. It can be found in the layguide at fastseduction.com.

I quit doing the boyfriend destroying. Ive seen friends get pummeled, one get shot, and others get the short end of the stick with the girl they stole. In some cases its worth it (girl is with absolute chump who has no seductive qualities about him) and in many cases its not (girl is with badboy who treats her like crap BUT will beat the living sh** out of you if you take her from him) If this situation favors both of you then by all means go for it but otherwise take advice from Robert Greenes 'The 48 Laws of Power' which is Do Not Offend the Wrong Person.

 

[ScrewIt]

girls are human and can be as selfish as guys are.
I found myself in a similar situation myself recently but i can honestly say its worth giving it a shot.

Generally most people that are in relationships choose to settle with him/her because tehyre available.
ex: girl isnt seeing anyone or doesnt find anyone interesting she might want to date. Guy asks her out and she agrees and end up going out for a year without feeling all out attraction for the male...kind of a twilight zone thing if you ask me. Then her fantasy guy comes along.."oh he's perfect..blah blah" she will chase him.

And if the better catch comes along she will make herself readily available to his advances. The excitement of a new relationship with someone she's attracted to is all there. All you need to do is sit back and and do the deed. Just dont end up turning into an AFC and continue bonding/building attraction with her. Trust and communication is important, if she really digs you she will tell you about her current and past relationships.

Give it time and dont immediately invest your emotions, let it build over time then see how it goes from there.

 

[iLoveCookies]

bump for some more suggestions

 

[tmpgstx]

Find out what type of guy she likes. Does she like jerks? nice considerate guys? Does she have a heart or is she selfish? Is she attracted to you (is it mutual)? What's her current relationship like (on the rocks or solid)?.

If you see an oppurtunity and you both like each other and her relationship isn't working out (especially if the guy is a moron cheater etc.), i say go for it, but gradually by reading the signs she gives you by knowing when to be persistent and knowing when to back off.

If she likes you enough and things aren't going well and it wasn't good to begin with (with her current bf), then she'll eventually break it off and make herself available. Don't wait around, live your own life though at the same time but keep in touch with her.