Taking CONTROL of your life...

[Badmannaz]

well for the past.....um okay scince i can remember i have been overweight....but for alot of overweight pplz it's great for personality alot of people say that I am so much fun to be around and i'm a smooth talker so I've Actually gotten a few girls cuz of this.....

well getting to the direct point..there has been plenty of women that I could tell liked me but I would never approach...you say your AFC!!! no not exactly it's something more mental than that...I have never been happy with myself and I always felt as if i wasn't WORTHY or i wasn't even in her LEAGUE... Remember this is even scince i can remember like 10 when i started gaining weight...always called the fat kid...some days i would cry...I didn't even do good in school...i actually did terrible...


It was something missing.. I was getting lonely...turning down hb7's(cute girls not hot) because I wasn't happy with myself...because i hated being fat and I was embarrassed to even have a girl look at me....it was terrible... i would go to school and see jocks and my best friends just pick up girls like it wasn't anything and those were the kind of girls I wanted... My life was ****ty...now post highschool as of this year I have felt a mood change...more focused and serious and All of a sudden...
Im having dreams.....I'm incredibly in shape and like it looks like a fantasy and then all of a sudden I look in the mirror and i see it again....so i said to myself "i wanna be him" "im gonna be him" and this motivation was different than the other 1,000 diet attempts...i could actually see ME in incredible shape!! and talking to women and being comfortable with myself.. So i hit the gym and like over night i stoped eating Sweets,soda,pizza and chips and ice cream and i already feel better....i've started to hit the gym....and i've already lost 8 lbs....it's not a complete success story but I just start saying...take it one day at a time....

My message and point of this story is no matter what's wrong in your life we just have to SEize the moment...devote time out of your life to change it forever don't talk just do because hours turn days days turn to weeks and weeks turn into months...if you do not seize the moment and make things right you will be miserable for many years to come....believe i know...and this time im not stopping....

ps
also look up ontalogy it's an actual study...things you can imagine you doing or being makes for a incredible motivation technique

 

[DonJuanMonk]

That's great you're making an effort to change. Working out and seeing physical changes in the gym, really propelled me also to think about changing other aspects of my life. The thing is while I feel stronger, powerful while working out, I see that, and it gives me hope to work on other parts of my life too.

I think Pook made a post about his confident levels and how it kept increasing as he continued to gain muscle and a more athletic body.

He started out going for only 4-5s and by the time he reached his peak, he was knocking on 8s9s. Not sure, but this is a given since a healthy strong body tends to reach into the primal instincts of femininity.

 

[Badmannaz]

mos def i've read some of pook's post

it is about time we all get our fair share of hotties when i lose all of my weight and start toning next spring by summer time i should be looking like some action hero...and if not i'll look damn close too it and i will be hitting hotties with a full scince of confidence...

just had to take control and look at life from tje positives and the negatives