Taking "advice" from bitter dudes.

[POFNinja]

For any of you who truly want to succeed with chicks some of the best advice you can get is to take advice from posters who aren't bitter with chicks themselves and offer positive advice.

If you are bitter, and the person you are taking "advice" from is a bitter themselves, you are only doing yourself a disservice in the end. So Suave is infested with these types who disguise their bitterness as just "helping" others.

Try it in real life.

You hang out with positive, outgoing, socially free dudes, who not only take care of themselves, and have things going for them (as you should) you'll wind up attracting more chicks as you'll pick up things from them in real life.

Hang out with negative, bitter dudes and you'll be the same dude they are till you one day get tired of it and decide to up and move on or they leave YOU.

Beware of those who are bitter and only want to see you as part of their "safety blankie club of the moment" because those same dudes will hate to see you succeed first as they see themselves as "better" than you.

Don't kid yourselves.

 

[( . )( . )]

Fvcks sake Zarky I honestly think you need a break. What's this like the 6th account you've made?

A word of advice while I'm here. Men don't use the word "bitter". Let alone use it as many times as you do as in every single sentence. "Bitter" is a shaming word coined by high IQ J@wish feminists. Knock that sh!t off woman.

I'll also leave you with a dasein post.

Bingo! Guys, "bitter" is a taste sensation, ever sit around and talk about "bitterness" with men other than ones who learned the word from women? Ever hear your dad or uncle use it? Ever talk about being "bitter" at the lake or out in the woods hunting/fishing? Ever say "I'm bitter because I didn't catch a trout today?" Of course the f not. It's been programmed into you/us, and as tits says it is very much politically charged towards an agenda. IME "bitter" as a feeling only comes to men via women. So...

1. OP, strip that gyno semantic frame BS off and out of your life right now, right this second, it's doing you no good at all. Don't buy into it. You may be -angry- (I suggest this one), you may be -disappointed-, you may be -dwelling- on negative emotions, you may be confused, irritated, annoyed, etc., but resolve to deep six the femme term "bitter" right now.

It's a two tiered semantic utility women use to blameshift to men. Notice how women aren't often framed as bitter, but rather "hurt," "abandoned," "used," "screwed over," "played." Ever wonder why this is? It's because they have reserved the "bitter" term mostly for men because it allows them to cast aspersions on his masculinity, devalue his feelings and imply that he is being a baby by not being able to let go. In short it's another version of the vomitous semantic nullity, "man up" with a very subtle "I don't give a rat about anything that takes the spotlight off me and my issues" chaser.

Be angry, sure you've made some mistakes, but that only goes so far, you've had a succession of pieces of sh-t in the female department and that may take time to move past. SO BE IT. Don't let anyone judge you for that, and most importantly don't judge yourself for it. It's good and right for men to get angry when f-ed over. We can't just go blow someone away or beat the hell out of them like in more civilized times. lol so anger it is.

2. Look for other gynoframing in your mind and attitude, you've been married enough and had enough experience with women that you are likely swimming in it without even realizing (they are great at brainwashing during relationships). Think of any and all instances of "conventional wisdom" about dealing with women and relationships, stuff well-meaning but ignorant people in your life told you. BS like "happy wife happy life," and every other gynoculture platitude. Root all that sh-t OUT right now. Drop it like a bucket of dirty diapers. Keep looking for that stuff and getting rid. You are the measure of your "conventional wisdom" going forward. Should start to feel good, if it doesn't yet, you aren't doing enough of it.

3. In that shovelling out the stables, you may find attitudes such as "a wife will make you happy," "a man needs a woman to be happy," "don't want to be a playboy, need to grow up one day and settle down." What you may be feeling as "bitterness" as others allude to, is that women are not one bit better than men generally. For every crappy trait men have like being violent, arrogant, blowhard bragging, women have an equally bad trait... and I mean at least equal. Lots of men feel they are "bitter" when in actuality they are just realizing women aren't any better than anyone else, and that can sting because it is so counter to our f-ed up culture and conditioning that every man alive today got a good snootful of.

If you can do these things or even start on them, you should start to feel better about your attitude. In all likelihood you are not "bitter" or unduly cynical, just realizing how things are after lots of experience. You probably appreciate what women are and the pleasures they can bring just fine, you just can't fall back on the old conditioning that they are some "answer" for a man to have a rich life. Sorry for the ramble, good luck

BITTER!!!

 

[POFNinja]

Fvcks sake Zarky I honestly think you need a break. What's this like the 6th account you've made?

A word of advice while I'm here. Men don't use the word "bitter". Let alone use it as many times as you do in as in every single sentence. "Bitter" is a shaming word coined by high IQ J@wish feminists. Knock that sh!t off woman.

I'll also leave you with a dasein post.

And on queue titty trips over himself to white knight for the bitter.

Titty boy seems to deem himself the authority on which words in the dictionary are "appropriate" for "real men" to say. LMAO

Back to crying about that scary feminism boogeyman for you "playa".

 

[( . )( . )]

And back to crying about "M-MUH MYSOGYNYYYY!!!" for you sweetheart.

 

[Krueg]

"You got me runnin' goin' out of my mind,
You got me thinkin' that I'm wastin' my time.
Don't bring me down, no no no no no,
I'll tell you once more before I get off the floor
Don't bring me down."

 

[POFNinja]

And back to crying about "M-MUH MYSOGYNYYYY!!!" for you sweetheart.

Sweetheart? LMAO. Ok Princess.