Genghis Juan
Senior Don Juan
Hello all,
Beware the conventional wisdom of life that we have all heard ad nasuem from friends, family and the media. There is no axiomatic age for men to get married by. In fact, there is no need to get married if you don't want to (i.e. George Clooney).
For those of us who are members of more conventional or conservative families, as we age and remain single, the pressure and inquiries into our love lives only increase, as they wonder, "when will he settle down?"...."when will he grow up?". In their silly and simplistic 1890's family values, they see a man who remains single in his late twenties and later as being immature.
But wait a minute...In my observations of many other men, they succumb to this pressure and eventually "settle down" like a dog being forced to heel from a Master. So I suppose this is not 1890's family values is it? No, its today's values as well!! So much has changed, and yet some of society's expectations of us remain the same.
Don't let this discourage you. In fact, take advantage of this because these same expectations are laid on women of course; women feel these pressures even more so and at earlier ages. Mother Nature has given us men a major biological advantage over women because of their Biological Clock.
When we were in High School, many girls (not all, just the ones who were good looking and knew it) manipulated, decieved, controlled or ignored the boys their age. They were far ahead of us in both physical and mental maturity, thus at this stage of the game....High School: Advantage Women.
During the College Years, men begin to catch up in mental maturity and are no longer as easily manipulated by the women. However, the women (HBs) still have the upper hand by virtue of the vast number of men making approaches to them. College: Advantage Women.
During the Mid-20's however, the HBs suddenly realize that they don't have "all the time in the world" to continue to "play the field". They realize that it will take at least a year or two in a LTR with a man before getting married, and then prehaps a year or two after that before having a child. (For example if a 27yo HB, just starts an LTR that lasts 3 yrs, gets married and has a kid a year later, she will be 31yo, and will only have a few years of child rearing ability left). Mid-20's: Deuce.
Late 20's and Beyond represents a time when the more robust and utalitarian design of the male body reveals its longetivity over the sophisticated and delicate feminine body. In their late 20's women begin to realize their body is starting to lose its firmness and showing very nascent signs of AGING. Furthermore, they know time is now against them if they have still not started an LTR, if they want children. This humbling Mother Nature bestows on the HB, (particularly the arrogant ones), knocks them off their high horse disgracefully. And to add insult to injury, men their age or older (the DJ's) are dating younger better looking women. From here on out: Advantage MEN.
So, the point is, if you are worried about not getting married by a certain age, don't fret. Don't fall victim to society's and your family's BS and settle with a girl you don't like. Even when you are well into your 30's, you will still be able to date women in their 20's. Prehaps, you will be older when youre children are running around, but at least you can still have children. Nature deemed us the PROPOGATERS of the human race so lets PROPOGATE!!
Beware the conventional wisdom of life that we have all heard ad nasuem from friends, family and the media. There is no axiomatic age for men to get married by. In fact, there is no need to get married if you don't want to (i.e. George Clooney).
For those of us who are members of more conventional or conservative families, as we age and remain single, the pressure and inquiries into our love lives only increase, as they wonder, "when will he settle down?"...."when will he grow up?". In their silly and simplistic 1890's family values, they see a man who remains single in his late twenties and later as being immature.
But wait a minute...In my observations of many other men, they succumb to this pressure and eventually "settle down" like a dog being forced to heel from a Master. So I suppose this is not 1890's family values is it? No, its today's values as well!! So much has changed, and yet some of society's expectations of us remain the same.
Don't let this discourage you. In fact, take advantage of this because these same expectations are laid on women of course; women feel these pressures even more so and at earlier ages. Mother Nature has given us men a major biological advantage over women because of their Biological Clock.
When we were in High School, many girls (not all, just the ones who were good looking and knew it) manipulated, decieved, controlled or ignored the boys their age. They were far ahead of us in both physical and mental maturity, thus at this stage of the game....High School: Advantage Women.
During the College Years, men begin to catch up in mental maturity and are no longer as easily manipulated by the women. However, the women (HBs) still have the upper hand by virtue of the vast number of men making approaches to them. College: Advantage Women.
During the Mid-20's however, the HBs suddenly realize that they don't have "all the time in the world" to continue to "play the field". They realize that it will take at least a year or two in a LTR with a man before getting married, and then prehaps a year or two after that before having a child. (For example if a 27yo HB, just starts an LTR that lasts 3 yrs, gets married and has a kid a year later, she will be 31yo, and will only have a few years of child rearing ability left). Mid-20's: Deuce.
Late 20's and Beyond represents a time when the more robust and utalitarian design of the male body reveals its longetivity over the sophisticated and delicate feminine body. In their late 20's women begin to realize their body is starting to lose its firmness and showing very nascent signs of AGING. Furthermore, they know time is now against them if they have still not started an LTR, if they want children. This humbling Mother Nature bestows on the HB, (particularly the arrogant ones), knocks them off their high horse disgracefully. And to add insult to injury, men their age or older (the DJ's) are dating younger better looking women. From here on out: Advantage MEN.
So, the point is, if you are worried about not getting married by a certain age, don't fret. Don't fall victim to society's and your family's BS and settle with a girl you don't like. Even when you are well into your 30's, you will still be able to date women in their 20's. Prehaps, you will be older when youre children are running around, but at least you can still have children. Nature deemed us the PROPOGATERS of the human race so lets PROPOGATE!!
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