I'm new to this website, so if this subject has been adressed here, I apologize. But this something I have been thinking about for sometime.
What I have to say is something alot of people already know. Some dont know, and some are in total denial of it.
Ok. This is an example. This guy at my work. (no, its not me) Late 20's normal looking. His problem is that he cant seem to get a date, or if he gets one, it will maybe only be one date with a certain girl.
One thing I notice is, after he gets rejected he says things like, they are such *****es, its them ,not me, I'm a cool, good looking guy. He says this. What he needs to do, is take a look at himself. No one at work likes him. And he dosent know why. He's in total denial of his problems. When you first meet him you think he's pretty cool. But spend a few days getting to know him and you see how much of a jerk he is. This is why he cant seem to get a date.
The other day, I was talking to a friend of mine. I told her about all the times when I was younger that I got rejected by females. She said, you were too good for them. They didnt see the good qualities in you. Ect. Maybe sometimes. But I couldnt be in denial. But I had to be honest with myself, to see the problems. I had to look at myself, and realize all the things I was doing wrong. I had done this, I didnt do that, ect.
Once I fixed these things is when I was succesful with women, and I was happier in life.
What I have to say is something alot of people already know. Some dont know, and some are in total denial of it.
Ok. This is an example. This guy at my work. (no, its not me) Late 20's normal looking. His problem is that he cant seem to get a date, or if he gets one, it will maybe only be one date with a certain girl.
One thing I notice is, after he gets rejected he says things like, they are such *****es, its them ,not me, I'm a cool, good looking guy. He says this. What he needs to do, is take a look at himself. No one at work likes him. And he dosent know why. He's in total denial of his problems. When you first meet him you think he's pretty cool. But spend a few days getting to know him and you see how much of a jerk he is. This is why he cant seem to get a date.
The other day, I was talking to a friend of mine. I told her about all the times when I was younger that I got rejected by females. She said, you were too good for them. They didnt see the good qualities in you. Ect. Maybe sometimes. But I couldnt be in denial. But I had to be honest with myself, to see the problems. I had to look at myself, and realize all the things I was doing wrong. I had done this, I didnt do that, ect.
Once I fixed these things is when I was succesful with women, and I was happier in life.
