The issue I’m having is quite interesting. I think I’ve stuffed this one big time. Read the following and let me know what I should do next.
I met this chic at a club about 3 months ago. We went out about 5 times. This chic has some issues, she could out-drink pretty much anyone I know … and that’s saying something.
She doesn’t work, though has an abundance of cash (don’t think it’s from the parents)…. Always insisting to pay for meals drinks etc… when we go out (gives me an annoyed look if I offer to pay). I think she’s spent a good $1000 USD on me by now.
What confuses me the most is her attitude, she claims to like me and wants to take things slow. But unless she’s drunk, she is too shy to show any affection.
More Info:
She’s Taiwanese, hasn’t lived with her parents (whom are now divorced) since she was 14. By the way she is 29, I’m 27(Caucasian).
She went back to Taiwan about 1 month ago to be with her mother, who supposedly was having an operation and needed someone to look after her.
She tells me that she will be coming back to Australia by the end of the year.
The reason that she came to Australia was to get away from her parents whom are gamblers and rely on her for cash, and secondly her cousin lives here.
Now the real icing on the cake, one day before she was to leave for Taiwan I convinced her to catch-up. She was meeting up with a friend and told me I could tag along. Well her friend was a guy, which didn’t fuss me too much as she held my hand and stayed close to me. But at the end of the night we separated from her friend whom was dancing at the club. She was way intoxicated, so I suggested we catch a cab to her place. She agreed, but whilst in the cab she calls up her friend and tells him to come to her apartment. When me and her arrived to her apartment, she tells me to leave … I tried to make an excuse to stay by saying that I needed to sober-up before I drove home, didn’t want to have an accident … but she didn’t budge. I was Pissed as hell, and stormed out and sent her a txt along the lines “hope you have a good time with your friend. You messed me up!”
The next day she was leaving overseas, I was supposed to give her a lift to the airport. So I sent a txt, asking if she still wanted a lift. She replied “no, don’t worry”. I asked why, her reply was along the lines ‘she didn’t want to see me coz I made her angry. the text from the previous night really upset her’.
So I made-up some excuse as to why I sent the text, by saying her friend had an aggressive attitude towards me (which he slightly did). Her reply “we were both really drunk, I’m sure he didn’t mean it”.
I left it at that. A few days later I get another text from her, that she misses me. Also found out that she dated the guy for about 3 months and went through a really bad break-up … now they are really good friends. (hmmm … yeah, right)
I’m planning to go on holiday in July to Japan and Taiwan (one week in both countries). She’s agreed to catch-up whilst I’m in Taiwan. Though, going by her emails and phone texts she doesn’t sound interested in me anymore.
I also suspect that her friend is currently in Taiwan, as I’ve managed to track him down on facebook. He could be drilling her as I’m writing this post.
I’m wondering what you guys suggest I do to turn the tables back into my favour. And don’t say ignore her, coz I’ve done that for three weeks and had no success. I haven’t s**wed as yet, though got close … was too pissed to get it up. We slept together, but I had to head off home … I’m living with another girl at the moment (opps, forgot to mention that). My plan is to just get at least one s**w from this chic whilst in Taiwan … then she can go on her marry way.
Any suggestions?
I met this chic at a club about 3 months ago. We went out about 5 times. This chic has some issues, she could out-drink pretty much anyone I know … and that’s saying something.
She doesn’t work, though has an abundance of cash (don’t think it’s from the parents)…. Always insisting to pay for meals drinks etc… when we go out (gives me an annoyed look if I offer to pay). I think she’s spent a good $1000 USD on me by now.
What confuses me the most is her attitude, she claims to like me and wants to take things slow. But unless she’s drunk, she is too shy to show any affection.
More Info:
She’s Taiwanese, hasn’t lived with her parents (whom are now divorced) since she was 14. By the way she is 29, I’m 27(Caucasian).
She went back to Taiwan about 1 month ago to be with her mother, who supposedly was having an operation and needed someone to look after her.
She tells me that she will be coming back to Australia by the end of the year.
The reason that she came to Australia was to get away from her parents whom are gamblers and rely on her for cash, and secondly her cousin lives here.
Now the real icing on the cake, one day before she was to leave for Taiwan I convinced her to catch-up. She was meeting up with a friend and told me I could tag along. Well her friend was a guy, which didn’t fuss me too much as she held my hand and stayed close to me. But at the end of the night we separated from her friend whom was dancing at the club. She was way intoxicated, so I suggested we catch a cab to her place. She agreed, but whilst in the cab she calls up her friend and tells him to come to her apartment. When me and her arrived to her apartment, she tells me to leave … I tried to make an excuse to stay by saying that I needed to sober-up before I drove home, didn’t want to have an accident … but she didn’t budge. I was Pissed as hell, and stormed out and sent her a txt along the lines “hope you have a good time with your friend. You messed me up!”
The next day she was leaving overseas, I was supposed to give her a lift to the airport. So I sent a txt, asking if she still wanted a lift. She replied “no, don’t worry”. I asked why, her reply was along the lines ‘she didn’t want to see me coz I made her angry. the text from the previous night really upset her’.
So I made-up some excuse as to why I sent the text, by saying her friend had an aggressive attitude towards me (which he slightly did). Her reply “we were both really drunk, I’m sure he didn’t mean it”.
I left it at that. A few days later I get another text from her, that she misses me. Also found out that she dated the guy for about 3 months and went through a really bad break-up … now they are really good friends. (hmmm … yeah, right)
I’m planning to go on holiday in July to Japan and Taiwan (one week in both countries). She’s agreed to catch-up whilst I’m in Taiwan. Though, going by her emails and phone texts she doesn’t sound interested in me anymore.
I also suspect that her friend is currently in Taiwan, as I’ve managed to track him down on facebook. He could be drilling her as I’m writing this post.
I’m wondering what you guys suggest I do to turn the tables back into my favour. And don’t say ignore her, coz I’ve done that for three weeks and had no success. I haven’t s**wed as yet, though got close … was too pissed to get it up. We slept together, but I had to head off home … I’m living with another girl at the moment (opps, forgot to mention that). My plan is to just get at least one s**w from this chic whilst in Taiwan … then she can go on her marry way.
Any suggestions?
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