mahon83050
Banned
Swallow your damned pride and initiate things with women. Louis and Copeland explicitly state, a man must INITIATE EVERYTHING!!
This means the approach, the number, the date and everything thereafter. DATING IS NOT FAIR, but what can we do. WE MUST ACCEPT IT!!!
I.E. I had a tall, good-looking friend who would be very non-chalant around women. He would say.." No, don't look at her, do not give them the satisfaction. Unfortuantely my friend would not be very successful with women due to this attitude. Some guys just because they have a great physique, great smile etc. have too much pride and think.....hmmm.."why do I have to show interest first, I am HOT, why cannot she make an effort.? Sorry, this is not going to work either.
SHYNESS is another issue, a friend once told me, "Shy is cute when you are a little kid, not as an adult." BE A MAN, TAKE CHARGE, it is ok for boys to be shy, NOT MEN!!
Humbleness, modesty and passiveness are another thing. These things might get you points with God or the Pope, but NOT WOMEN!
The reason for this post is because sometimes I struggle with these problems and wish to HELP others with similiar feelings.
This means the approach, the number, the date and everything thereafter. DATING IS NOT FAIR, but what can we do. WE MUST ACCEPT IT!!!
I.E. I had a tall, good-looking friend who would be very non-chalant around women. He would say.." No, don't look at her, do not give them the satisfaction. Unfortuantely my friend would not be very successful with women due to this attitude. Some guys just because they have a great physique, great smile etc. have too much pride and think.....hmmm.."why do I have to show interest first, I am HOT, why cannot she make an effort.? Sorry, this is not going to work either.
SHYNESS is another issue, a friend once told me, "Shy is cute when you are a little kid, not as an adult." BE A MAN, TAKE CHARGE, it is ok for boys to be shy, NOT MEN!!
Humbleness, modesty and passiveness are another thing. These things might get you points with God or the Pope, but NOT WOMEN!
The reason for this post is because sometimes I struggle with these problems and wish to HELP others with similiar feelings.