suggestions to ask bank teller out?

[Jumpman23]

Hi I would like to ask out one of the tellers at this bank I go to, in which I make deposits from time to time. I want it to be subtle and smooth, don't want to draw a lot of attention, its a smaller bank. can I slip her a paper " lets go out sometime." in the midst of a transaction. Any suggestions to ask her out.
assume many of you will say just be blunt and ask, but possible suggestions.

 

[Randallpink83]

Whatever you do I'm all for it... Seriously go get her! Try! and if you fail.. big deal atleast you tried. Go Go GO!!!!!

success rate with a working girl (especially in a bank) has got to be small... So whatever, don;t expect much.. just try what you want.. But push yourself outside of your comfort level.


Thats though only way I see this working if you show her how confident and different you are. A chode would slip a piece of paper... i think...

maybe go in real direct..

"Oh great not you... God you are Gorgeous!! I came here to do business, but with you helping me i cant even think anymore... This isnt fair" then look to one of her co-workers "Does she have this affect on all your customers?"
....."This isnt fair that you are doing this to me... Just give me your number i guess, but this is totally not cool" ...said with a playful smile. not sarcastic mind you.
lol... something like that.

either way.. go go go! try anything.

 

[insidious]

LOL in my younger days of ultra-AFCness, I got the hots for a teller at this small credit union I banked at. I can't even tell you how long I debated and hemmed and hawed about how to approach her.

Finally one day I friggin slipped her a note, like 'do you wanna go to lunch' ... I did this during our transaction. She said really loud 'oh I'm married' and mind you, this place is small, so everyone in the place phucking heard and one of the other tellers turned and looked. God what an idiot I was. She didn't have a wedding ring on, but I found out later that she was pregnant, so I consoled myself that she was swelling and not wearing it, but whatever! Why waste time wondering about that crap.

Anyways, I say you just go in and don't be afraid to speak clearly and confidently and askher out, don't write her any friggin' note. They might think you are robbing the place LOL.:nono:

 

[The Sperminator]

You should write a note that says go out on a date with me or I'll shoot you I have a gun.

 

[Dilberto]

You should write a note that says go out on a date with me or I'll shoot you I have a gun.

mmmm....not a good idea. I think that qualifies as attempted armed robbery.

 

[Jumpman23]

how bout you should go on a date w/ me, otherwise i am going to take out my gun and rob this place.
fyi.......i believe that this has happened before a guy robbed a gas station/corner store and wanted to get a girls # in the process

 

[Jumpman23]

Well I saw her this morning, unfortunately she did not do my transaction, this other girl did, i knew that was going to happen.

so i am came back again and pretended like a forgot to do something, this time she was able to help me out and she replied, "You missed us already." From that comment, making the assumption shes probably single and not dating anybody now.

I so just want to slip her a note... however i believe that is a good approach slowly just build up some rapport. i will ask her out for some coffee next couple of days.

 

[Dee-Zy]

Go hard or go home.

I wish I could find the exact post but a member reported on here that he was working at some store in a mall and in front of the store was clothing store or a hair salon (I forgot, it doesn't matter). So for Valentines day he finally worked up the nerves to buy flowers and ask her out, in front of EVERYBODY and he did not go there with his tail tucked between his legs.

So the girl shot him down because she already had a boyfriend but that night he ended up going home with two girls from the store/salon. The girls were very attracted by his boldness.

That is just to show you that women appreciate confidence and assertiveness. As much as I did not agree with the flowers, it got him laid! So two things to get out of this. 1) open your scope, perhaps that's the girl you want but if you don't get it there might be other opportunities. 2) Go hard or go home. If you're gonna go down, at least go down swinging.

You never know who will be watching or hearing you. It is a GOOD thing to be heard.

 

[PerfectCircle]

I think you have to get her into the idea by fluirting with her first. Otherwise youll just drop a big ball on her by asking her out. 99.4% rejection rate id say.

Fluirt. Then use the ol' "You know I kinda have a thing for Bank Teller's.. Im already dating 2 of them right now but how would you like to be the third?" Then ask her out for real or something. Be bold. Confident. and Creative. Oh and a jerk too. Good luck.

Slipping a note is creepy.