Successful number close.... FIELD REPORT

[golf299]

I posted earlier about a girl in one of my college classes. the first day of class she mentioned getting a study group together at some point. well, i only have the class twice a week and i've been playing it pretty cool. i havent been drooling over her like some afc, even though she is plenty hot.

today on our break halfway through the class i started talking to her out in the hall. i approached with something like, "hey whats your name again?" (as if i didnt remember) we started talking, then we went back inside and sat in our seats, which arent close together. sitting there i said to myself "you have to just do it man" so i got up and went over to her and got her number.

she gave me her cell number and home phone number. then she said "and i want your number too" so i gave it to her. then she said "is it michael or just mike?" i told her it was just mike. funny thing is, i never told her my name...

so i think she has at least some interest? am i right here? i just always read things so wrong. im planning on calling her on sunday probably to set up a "study date" at Barnes and Noble or something for Tuesday.

thoughts?
thanks guys!

 

[So pimp its scary]

My major comment would be to suggest NOT pretending that you forget her name... even if you really do forget her name. Chicks will most of the time forgive you once, but if you forget twice it starts to look bad.

Good job.

 

[killerasp]

GJ!

I myself have just started doing number closes and most of them have been sucessful. Now my only gripe is to follow up with these girls which i havent been able to do. Most people tell me to call them up only to ask them out. But ive been so busy, i just dont have the time to set something up.

Just keep the C&F and Kino and you'll stay far away from the friendship zone.

 

[GropeDope]

I can say from past high school experience that hooking up with a girl in one of your classes has the potential to be a horrible decision in the long run. This is just my opinion though.

A problem I had with this on my very last year of high school was that after Kristi, HB 6.5, and I were hooking up with for two months, we got into several bad fights (seems to be inevitable for any girl with me). This lead us to unsuccessfully try to ignore each other in the class we had together and pretend the other wasn't there.

It gets worse though. You see we both socialized with basically the same group of people in the class, so it was almost like we were forced to have contact with the other. ****in TERRIBLE. The first few times I ran into problems with Kristi and we didn't talk to each other in the class, a day or two would pass and either I would talk to her/she would talk to me after the class (or call me) and we'd try to straighten **** out. This temporarily solved the problems 4 or 5 times.

Then when it blew up again, that was the end of it. At that point, I had so much ****in tension in the class trying to get my hate/lust for Kristi out of my mind that my grade went down by the end of the first semester. I seriously contemplated switching classes. Pretty goddamn pathetic considering I wasn't even in an official relationship with this girl.

Eventually enough time passed where we had such little communication that the bull**** squashed itself and I boldly struck up a conversation with her again after weeks and weeks of silence; Kristi went from fcuk buddy to just a friend, and I was much more comfortable with her. It was still a flaky situation for me that I wished I never got into, and I can assure you that everyday I saw her during the "enemies phase" I wished I had never met her.

I promised myself I wouldn't let myself go through anything like this in college.

The only amazing perk I got out of all of this was this event that happened two nights before Kristi left to college (which was only 5 weeks after school ended, sometime in mid July). I kept telling her that I wanted to give her a "proper goodbye sometime before you leave" and she understood exactly what I meant. We hooked up after not doing anything sexual in MONTHS, and that was seriously the best night of sex I've ever had with anyone because all the anger, sorrow, lust, and regretfulness that we had pent up within (during the enemy phases in the year) was dealt with by screwing away on top of my bed. Unfortunately, that's also the last time I've had sex with anyone.

That last paragraph may have contradicted everything I said just before it, but I personally believe that you seriously have to consider a lot of things before you screw a person in one of your classes. If you and her stop seeing each other as much or stop talking, it can potentially affect your grades, and things can get pretty ugly and uncomfortable as hell.

I'm still an AFC though, so I have a natural tendency of looking at things in a negative light.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by golf299
she gave me her cell number and home phone number. then she said "and i want your number too" so i gave it to her.

When she says that I would have said "Yeah right... like I'm gonna give my number to a stalker like you" (with a smarta$$ grin)