BeTheChange
Master Don Juan
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I am a firm believer in accountability; that people pretty much get what they deserve in life.
You are responsible for your outcomes, your successes and your failures. Don’t blame the market or social media, or the pill, or slvt culture or feminism. Good women, at least how most people in society choose to define them, have always been rare. Don’t believe me? Go and read Proverbs, written almost 3000 years ago.
Proverbs 31:10
An excellent wife, who can find? For her worth is far above jewels.
Proverbs 18:22
He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the LORD.
Proverbs 19:14
House and wealth are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the LORD.
And on the flipside....
Proverbs 5:3
For the lips of an adulteress drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil, but in the end she is bitter as gall, sharp as a double-edged sword
Proverbs 6:25
Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes, for the prostitute reduces you to a loaf of bread
For more modern red pill stuff go and read Hemingway, Bukowski, Fitzgerald, Dostoevsky, D1ckens, Hardy, etc. Most women, throughout history have always, by and large, been selfish and unruly. Many men today,frustrated with their lack of success with women seem to look back at the past with rose tinted spectacles. You want to go back two hundred years and get killed in a dual because some beta clown wants to steal your girl? Forced to marry a chick you knocked up because her only viable career path was housewife? To the 1950s before feminism? No thanks. As a black guy who loves white women just as much as other races, I’d rather not get Emmett Tilled for flirting with a disgruntled blonde chick.
If you are not getting the results you want in 2018 it is YOUR fault. Either manage your expectations or better yourself.
Weak men who make excuses for their lack of success fail to pass on their genes. This is nothing new. Except now there aren’t mass wars every ten years to decimate the male population.
I recently turned 30. I have no real desire to just sport fvck women. I’ve dated the ‘good’ girls and the slvts, doctors, nurses lawyers, accountants, college girls, church girls, tattooed chicks, photographers, musicians, gym bunnies, Italians, French, Spanish, Americans, banged h00kers, done threesomes and orgies. The point is I’ve lived and must be approaching a triple digit lay count by now.
I want a family and a good LTR is central to that. Having been raised by a single mother, who later remarried I know this to be very much a sub-optimal environment for kids. So, it’s vital that you get it right the first time. Who you choose to LTR and/or have children with is one of the most important decisions you’ll make in your life and a major determinant to your long-term success and happiness.
I’m setting up this journal in order to hold myself accountable. And to define for myself what it is I value. I find that if you visualise a goal and then write it down, you’re much more likely to accomplish it. It also leaves you nowhere to hide because it forces you to confront a reality: 'You want [insert desire]? What exactly are YOU doing to make it happen?'
I will then aim to review and update at least once or twice a month.
In my next post I'll create a clear picture of the ideal and then detail what it is I’m actually going to do to get closer to finding the woman I want.
You are responsible for your outcomes, your successes and your failures. Don’t blame the market or social media, or the pill, or slvt culture or feminism. Good women, at least how most people in society choose to define them, have always been rare. Don’t believe me? Go and read Proverbs, written almost 3000 years ago.
Proverbs 31:10
An excellent wife, who can find? For her worth is far above jewels.
Proverbs 18:22
He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the LORD.
Proverbs 19:14
House and wealth are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the LORD.
And on the flipside....
Proverbs 5:3
For the lips of an adulteress drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil, but in the end she is bitter as gall, sharp as a double-edged sword
Proverbs 6:25
Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes, for the prostitute reduces you to a loaf of bread
For more modern red pill stuff go and read Hemingway, Bukowski, Fitzgerald, Dostoevsky, D1ckens, Hardy, etc. Most women, throughout history have always, by and large, been selfish and unruly. Many men today,frustrated with their lack of success with women seem to look back at the past with rose tinted spectacles. You want to go back two hundred years and get killed in a dual because some beta clown wants to steal your girl? Forced to marry a chick you knocked up because her only viable career path was housewife? To the 1950s before feminism? No thanks. As a black guy who loves white women just as much as other races, I’d rather not get Emmett Tilled for flirting with a disgruntled blonde chick.
If you are not getting the results you want in 2018 it is YOUR fault. Either manage your expectations or better yourself.
Weak men who make excuses for their lack of success fail to pass on their genes. This is nothing new. Except now there aren’t mass wars every ten years to decimate the male population.
I recently turned 30. I have no real desire to just sport fvck women. I’ve dated the ‘good’ girls and the slvts, doctors, nurses lawyers, accountants, college girls, church girls, tattooed chicks, photographers, musicians, gym bunnies, Italians, French, Spanish, Americans, banged h00kers, done threesomes and orgies. The point is I’ve lived and must be approaching a triple digit lay count by now.
I want a family and a good LTR is central to that. Having been raised by a single mother, who later remarried I know this to be very much a sub-optimal environment for kids. So, it’s vital that you get it right the first time. Who you choose to LTR and/or have children with is one of the most important decisions you’ll make in your life and a major determinant to your long-term success and happiness.
I’m setting up this journal in order to hold myself accountable. And to define for myself what it is I value. I find that if you visualise a goal and then write it down, you’re much more likely to accomplish it. It also leaves you nowhere to hide because it forces you to confront a reality: 'You want [insert desire]? What exactly are YOU doing to make it happen?'
I will then aim to review and update at least once or twice a month.
In my next post I'll create a clear picture of the ideal and then detail what it is I’m actually going to do to get closer to finding the woman I want.
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