Success but maybe to much?

[jb92563]

Hi guys,

I've learned and followed the concepts and advice of these forums and have come to be an amazing killer closer.

Sex on first dates is almost a given, they just can't resist the aura and confidence I exude, but I have been seeing this one girl for 2 years, she has a killer body....never seen better anywhere, and she is the cutest girl ever.....she practically worships me and can never get enough of me, we always have sex when we see each other, and we are great together......so what could the problem???????

I have been feeling like I want to get other girls as well......I think its the thrill of the hunt......the first fresh seductions......getting her so worked up on the first date and seeing her turmoil as she tries so hard to not have sex on the first date, but she can't help herself.....my power over her is impossible to resist.

But I still want my 2 yr "Perfect" girl as well.

I feel like I am victim of my own success as I see that my magnetism attracts other girls that much harder when Im with my "10"......its hard to be faithfull but Im doing it, and its becomming hard to stay out of the game.

I've been thinking of trying to introduce some 3 somes with my 10 in order to have my cake and eat it to.

Any suggestions

A very successful DJ (45yrs Young)

 

[Alphathree]

You're 45 years old?

I'm only 22, so I don't feel like I have much situational advice to offer you.

You've obviously got game... but then... if you can keep an HB10 for two years, you'd think you'd know how to do pretty much anything you wanted.

If you overcome all of the limiting beliefs you needed to get a 10, why can't you overcome whatever else stands in your way?

At any rate, take Style's message: gaming women just makes you hungry for more women, which makes you hungry for more women....

Maybe what you really need is a fresh emotional connection with your HB10?

Try Radical Honesty by Brad Blanton.

You might find that getting closer to your girlfriend will fill the hole in your life more than getting OTHER girlfriends.

We measure our happiness by how emotionally close we are to single individuals, not how many individuals we know or even have sex with in general.

 

[Alphathree]

Oh, and maybe you could help ME out in a private message (I don't want to highjack your thread.)

I have this horrible fear of getting old. I'm 22, but what about when I'm 30? 40?

It's not that I'm worried about "looks" per se, I'm just worried that I'll have no way into a social circle with young women in it.

What do you do in life? (Career wise?) Do you just cold approach young hotties?

Respect,
Alphathree

 

[DJohnson]

I am not a threesome type player, but one thing I read in the game seems to make sense: The Dual Induction Massage, gradually leading to kissing, making out, and then sex. Do a search for it, or better yet buy the book. It isn't a pickup manual but it does offer advice. It is sort of like "Zen and the art of Fast Seduction"

 

[dannyc]

Yeh dude tell us how you still going strong at 44? Respect for that coz most people in there 40s just lose it and are basically waiting to die. Thats a fear of mine.

Theres a soccer coach in England called Jose Mourinho (hes 40 something), that guy exudes confidence when he speaks and i can imagine even if he wasnt known, that he would be the perfect example of a older DJ.

 

[aftershock]

Originally posted by dannyc
Theres a soccer coach in England called Jose Mourinho (hes 40 something), that guy exudes confidence when he speaks and i can imagine even if he wasnt known, that he would be the perfect example of a older DJ.

He's a legend. I think he's married, and I bet his wife is hot.



I can sort of relate to your problem, actually - despite the fact I'm 20. I've been in a two year LTR with the best looking girl I've ever known. Added bonus she's not a slut and a really cool person. All my mates are jealous of my "perfect" relationship, and can't understand HOW I do it.

There are times when I think about going out and pulling and seducing random girls. It means that for half my sexually active life, I've been with one girl. You've only spent about 7-8% (I think, did that in my head) of your sexually active life with her.

But I don't go out and get other girls, because I realise exactly what I'd be throwing away.

Instead I decide to make every girl I know attracted to me. Just knowing that they want me to fvck them makes me happy, knowing that I've still got it, for the time being and hopefully when I'm 45 as well.

Instead, you might need to spice up your relationship. Do different things, go to different places, try new things together.

 

[salsipuedes]

Same thing is happening to me, i came here because i was having problems with this 9 girl i was dating, after about a month i found a new me and i can't seem to settle on what i want, i already got the girl, i am dating her and thinks look great, but now i am looking at hundreds of women each day and i am realizing i can date and **** hem all, so i am unsure about whats going to happen, i think many men who break from their shells of self doubt and low self steem seem to feel similar to us, i don't want to be a player, thats was never my goal, but theres sooooo many women, sooo many things to see and experience, be careful because what you wish just might come true.

 

[Alphathree]

All of you guys really need to read either the last few chapters of The Game or start reading IdeaGasms.com newsletters.

Once you've mastered The Game, there is a new game to master, and it's called,

"What do I actually want out of life now that I can f*ck hot women?"

Good luck.

 

[salsipuedes]

Originally posted by Alphathree
Oh, and maybe you could help ME out in a private message (I don't want to highjack your thread.)

I have this horrible fear of getting old. I'm 22, but what about when I'm 30? 40?

It's not that I'm worried about "looks" per se, I'm just worried that I'll have no way into a social circle with young women in it.

What do you do in life? (Career wise?) Do you just cold approach young hotties?

Respect,
Alphathree

Dude, i am 32 now, and trust me, i would NEVER want to be 22 again, things are so much better for me now, i take care of myself, i work, i dress well, and i attract far more women today than i ever did 10 years ago. I understand that some men age badly, but i sure didnt, women just love the way i am right now and with each year things get better, who the hell knew that was going to happen? anyways, i am now in a position where guys i knew in college that where popular and got all the chicks, actually envy me and get jealous when we go out because i get all the attention.

Most of the women that hit on me are under 25.

 

[salsipuedes]

Originally posted by Alphathree
All of you guys really need to read either the last few chapters of The Game or start reading IdeaGasms.com newsletters.

Once you've mastered The Game, there is a new game to master, and it's called,

"What do I actually want out of life now that I can f*ck hot women?"

Good luck.

Right on!!!!

 

[jb92563]

Getting old

I just wanted to say to Alphathree, getting old is a frame of mind more than anything.

What women are attracted to is the confident guy that is not sucking up to them like all the other chumps.

In many ways an older guy has an advantage in that the women are looking for successful mature guys that know what they want and go after it.

Just 3 years ago when I was 42 I was doing contract work for a couple months in Vegas.

Perfect place to practice my skills.

In the 3 months I was there I dated and had sex with hot 23 year old stripper....a hot 38 year old tourist from Virginia and another hot girl (35) that lived in Vegas.....and I wasnt even trying, just doing the layed back and ****y thing......no need to ever be bored.

So don't worry about getting old physically, just keep your mental attitude at what ever age you like and your set.

Actually what I am finding is that there are a ton of single and hot older women that will screw your brains out as hard as they can.

There are also lots of young women that will do the same with older guys......but I avoid girls younger than 25 since they are just to dumb and annoying younger than that.....although I sometimes make exceptions if they are especially hot ;-)

Now with my 2 yr girl Im very happy, and we drill the hell out of each other......last weekend we nailed each other 4 times in one day.....thats a lot of moaning and orgasms.....so the sex is also good at 45.

Its been my observation that orgasms feel better and better as you get older.....they are just way more incredible now in ways I can't even describe.

So you do have a number of things to look forward to as you get older.

I think perhaps I'll just stay with my 10 and tease the hell out of the other hotties I come across......I suppose one day I may nail another, but at least I can still have the fun part of the hunt and seduction....a 3 some is perhaps a possibility.

I'll check out those resources some people suggested.

A successfull 45yr old DJ.

 

[jb92563]

Hitting them up

I just talk to girls that interest me.

I like busting on them, and I use the laid back casual, I dont give a damm approach.

They dont feel like Im hitting on them, and I dont compliment them in any way.

I let my charm and intrigue do its work for a bit and before long they are hooked.

The 23 yr old stripper was particularly interesting catch and caught me off guard.

I was bored in Vegas and went to this little hole in the wall strip place.

I got my drink and sat way in back in a quiet corner.

As expected the girls would come by and ask if I wanted to buy a lap dance, but i would turn them all away with a polite "no thanks, Im just chilling and trying to relax."

The 23 year old acted all offended and stormed off......seems the more I turned them away, the more they were determined to visit with me....so some would sit and chat a bit.

The 23 yr old sat and asked why I didnt want a lap dance....so I told that it would just get me all worked up and then I would want to have sex so why torture myself.....then I told her that I was looking for a girlfriend here in Vegas, but was taking a break before I went out to some clubs later on.........so she said she was looking for a boyfriend as well......then we talked about things we liked to do like hiking boating etc.....small talk.

I suggested that maybe we should go out some time....and she said how about in an hour when I get off work.....then the fun began......every girl saw that she was having a great talk with me and as soon as she left to do her dance they were on me.....one girl just ran right over and jumped in my lap and rubbed her self all over me, gave me a kiss, put my hand on her private etc etc......as soon as my 23 yr old was done her dance, which I pretty much ignored, she came right over and sat in my lap with her arms around me and didnt leave me till her shift was over....rubbing herself on me etc etc......boy were they competative....buy I had a great time.....and I would pick her up after work by sitting in the club for a while, and the other girls would come over and rub them selfs on me......it really made my 23 want me even more.....supply and demand was a good thing.

Never paid for a single dance, although I did tip the other girls now and then on stage, but never my 23.

Needless to say, I always got a lot of attention and had lots of fun.

A successfull 45 DJ