Subtle Flirting

jhonny9546

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We know that one of the ways to keep your partner loyal is to be desirable to other women. The fact is that women's natural hypergamy means they want exclusive access to attractive men who have been pre-screened by other women.

When you're with your girlfriend, you actually have to flirt subtly with other girls, and those girls need to flirt back with you in front of her (without making it completely obvious; remember to be subtle).

A woman needs to know that she has managed to acquire a mate whom other women desire; she needs to feel the urge to protect her bond, fearing that her partner will be 'stolen' by someone else. She needs to know and feel that you can easily replace her if she doesn't meet your standards.

To convey that you are still desirable and desired by other women while maintaining respect for your partner, which are your favourite ways you do subtle flirting with other women?
 

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We know that one of the ways to keep your partner loyal is to be desirable to other women. The fact is that women's natural hypergamy means they want exclusive access to attractive men who have been pre-screened by other women.

When you're with your girlfriend, you actually have to flirt subtly with other girls, and those girls need to flirt back with you in front of her (without making it completely obvious; remember to be subtle).

A woman needs to know that she has managed to acquire a mate whom other women desire; she needs to feel the urge to protect her bond, fearing that her partner will be 'stolen' by someone else. She needs to know and feel that you can easily replace her if she doesn't meet your standards.

To convey that you are still desirable and desired by other women while maintaining respect for your partner, which are your favourite ways you do subtle flirting with other women?
This is actually terrible advice. No relationship is going to survive one party actively flirting with others. And women are far more cued in to behavior than men, and your woman will pick up on your ‘subtle’ flirting.
Also, if your flirting fails, you’ll look like a fool or worse in front of your woman.

The only way this works is if the girl 100% initiates flirting with you.

But let’s be frank. If girls initiate flirting with you, you already are desirable. And your woman already knows it.

Having a girl flirt with you in front of your woman is a nice little perk. But it’s not something planned for or worked for. It just happens.
 

AmsterdamAssassin

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To convey that you are still desirable and desired by other women while maintaining respect for your partner, which are your favourite ways you do subtle flirting with other women?
You don't have to flirt or even be a social butterfly. Other women just have to flirt with you. When you are desirable, women will flirt with you, regardless whether you are with your girlfriend or not.
 
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