Stupid Petty Woman

[princelydeeds]

I just got off the phone with this chick the stupidity and pettiness of women is mind blowing. I boned this 33 year old chick 1 time. The sex was cool but she turned me off when she started crying about us not having a relationship and will you respect me crap so I was sick of her right away. We were on our way out the door, when my phone rang. My friend wanted me to help him with something so I said " Hey, I gotta take this girl home and Ill be right over. "

On the way to her house, she started b!tching about me saying "this girl" to my friend on the phone. I told her that it was just my choice of words, I had honestly given absolutely no thought to my choice of words. She went on and on about how it was "disrespectful and degrading." I cut her off and said "You know what I wasn't even talking to you, I was talking to my friend on the phone. You are mad about something very petty that I said to a friend on the phone." then I said, "hey if it offended you I'm sorry I didnt mean anything by it, I said it without thinking." The conversation was so stupid and petty that I barely remember it.

That was 3 months ago, I called her today hoping I could tap dat ass again today. We had a nice convo for about 20 minutes. I mentioned seeing her today. SHe said, "what you wanna see THIS Girl." At first, I didnt even get it. She had to remind me of the convo about "this girl." I cant believe that she could still be mad about something sooo stupid. She was like you play games and you are disrespectful, I felt so direspected and insignificant. HUH?

I can be dissrespectful but in no way shape or form did I disrespect her. Would someone help me to understand this chick logic? I wasn't even talking to her when I said it, nor did I mean anything by it. I asked her "would you have felt more comfortable If I had given your name and number?" I don't understand her point nor do I understand her logic. Why are women soooo petty!!!!

 

[electron]

Maybe she felt that by using that term, you were ashamed or embarassed to tell your friend who you were with, and just dismissed her as "some girl" whereas if you had said, " I have to take my friend home" or "After I drop Denise off I'll be there"

Not that I don't agree with you, we all realize that you didn't mean anything by it, but she sees it as though she wasn't worthy of being mentioned by name, as if she was some kind of secret you don't want anyone to know about....Seems stupid to us but all a part of the game.....lol

 

[ZeeOwl]

Originally posted by princelydeeds
That was 3 months ago, I called her today

Right when you said that, the first thought that flashed into my mind was "She remembered the argument from 3 months ago". haha

Explanation: When you said that, she interpreted it as you telling her that she was just "a girl". Any girl, nothing special or important, interchangeable with any other random girl who happened to be in your bed. Women need to feel special. Not just a place for you to put your sperm. In her mind, you'd just told her that's all she was.

As for bringing it up again: Women never forget, and by extension, never forgive. I was married, and in 2 other LTRs. I know what it's like. Anything you do wrong (in her eyes) is going to come back to haunt you whenever she feels like it. So you can either next her, or deal with it. That's just how women are.

 

[Knicknack]

she gives it up and then starts thinking about LTR? she has issues. if she wanted a LTR with no sex for a long time she needs to find an AFC. unless you both agreed before the sex to try for a LTR, she had no business crying to you. the car scene was just another excuse for her to b|tch to you. it was insignificant, but she needed some hard evidence against you, so she blew it out of proportion. you can guarantee you won't be getting anymore out of this girl. next.

 

[white_hype]

it all comes down to one thing

and that is... how hot she really is

she is totally not worth dating or even talking to

but if shes really hot, i might try to battle through her stupidness to tap her again

but from the looks of it, its going to be a tough one, just dj other girls, and call this one every once in a while to be nice and set up a date by saying look, lets patch things up, come with me to (a bar or club) and we can catch up" DO NOT TAKE HER OUT TO EAT OR SOME CRAP LIKE THAT

get her drunk and be nice/CF (your going to need to be funny more that caucky, shes already kinda pissed/skeptical) then go for the makeout then say lets go have 1 more drink at my place or something then do her till she bleeds

keep us posted and what you wil do

gl

 

[myfriendblu]

This is why you never re-hash old relationships. A NEXT is a NEXT. If you had other women on your plate, you wouldn't even bother. Get out there and meet other chiks.

 

[ManOMan]

Man this reminds me of a similar thing that happened to me

I boned this 33 yr old woman,she was ALWAYS drunk.

SO Im leaving her house, when she starts crying,I console her a bit, but didnt want to stay around just because she is crying to give me a guilt trip.

SO the next couple days she started calling my house 12 times a day, leaving drunk messages calling me an "a$$hole" and that I better check myself because she said she was HIV+(she wasnt, and I did get tested)

This constant calling continued for a week, when I told her to stop calling me!!

the calls finally stopped, thank god

 

[00Kevin]

The fact of the matter is you did and said the right thing. By referring to her as "This girl" you reminded her that she is just on a list and if she pisses you off you will next her.

Even if you did try to be friendly to her she would most likely start to show low interest in you. This woman is 33, I’ll bet she has fvcked around enough at this point in her life. She most likely deserves it! Ask her how many nice guys she has disregarded. I think she is just getting what she deserves.. So don't worry about it.

 

[princelydeeds]

Originally posted by myfriendblu
This is why you never re-hash old relationships. A NEXT is a NEXT. If you had other women on your plate, you wouldn't even bother. Get out there and meet other chiks.

I do have other women. Sometimes I forget why I nexted someone. I honestly had totally forgotten about the "THIS GIRL" argument. I had even forgotten about the whole relationship crying thing. We have spoken maybe 4-5 times since this happened and each time the convos went well like all was forgotten. I knew she was coming to town so in my mind I was thinking I wouldn't mind taping dat ass again. The sex was pretty straight the first time it was after the sex that broought on the disaster. In fact It wasnt untill after I said I wanted to see her that she brought up the "This Girl" argument.

I don't really care about her but I wouldn't mind banging her on a regular basis. Shes cool when she not acting like she has issues. Shes not bad looking I'd give her an HB7 in the face, but she is a personal trainer and tennis coach her body is incredible she gets an HB9.5 in the body. I like her friendship but the interest in LTR is almost 0. I wouldnt mind hitting it again I just dont wanna put up with her sh!t. Ill call her a little later and let you know what happens.