Stupid or What?

[John11276]

There comes times in all our lives when we do things that we think are good ideas and then realize that they weren't. My example, I met a girl a few weeks back that works at the same place I do. Well I haven't seen her in a few so I looked up her email addy and sent her a hello, how you doing, send me your number so we can get together sometime email. While I haven't heard back from her, only been a day, I now realize that this wasn't that good of a move and I have actually taken a step backward. BTW, she mentioned to me that she would like to get together for some drinks, but I had other things going on at the time.

 

[John Juan]

should have hooked up with the # when she suggested/agreed to going out for drinks. but you know what to do next time.
-jlc

 

[jnallen]

Easy fix. E-Mail her back and tell her that you were busy at the time she asked you to go out but you are free such and such date. It'll work.

 

[John11276]

Does it look weird though that I had to ask someone what her last name was to find the email? That's the part I'm concerned about the most. Even though I know never to second guess my actions b/c they are done. There was nothing psycho or anything about the email, really light.

 

[jnallen]

No. It shows you have enough interest in her to take the time to look her up. May flatter her if anything.

If she was't interested she wouldn't have suggested drinks.

 

[John11276]

Cool. That's what I'm hoping for. Thanks