Student-debt laden chick angry that boyfriend with deep savings wants to go 50/50 on purchases

[MatureDJ]

My Boyfriend Demands We Split Everything Evenly. Uh, I Just Saw His Bank Account.

I'm stunned.

slate.com

I’m a woman who just moved in with my boyfriend of two years. We’re in our 30s, we live in a major U.S. city, and we each earn an annual income of $110,000. However, as a first-generation college graduate, I have $45,000 of student debt left to pay off. I paid off $20,000 last year, which I’m proud of—but because I’m trying to knock out the debt, I don’t have savings beyond my 401(k), and my credit score is just “good.”

My otherwise frugal boyfriend wants to splurge on our home and believes that because we earn the same salary, I should meet him in the middle for the high-end art and furniture he desires. This is how I found out he had way more money than he ever let on—like, half a million dollars. I saw his account balance when he handed me his phone and told me to send myself his share of the cost for a dining room set.

my opinion: If he stays with this chick, she is going to get his money, one way or another.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Both are at fault and should find a more compatible partner

 

[Dr.Suave]

Newsflash: Femin@zis want equality but only when its convenient to them.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This is only his girlfriend and she is already balking. Now imagine what happens if they get married.

Her attitude is already "What's mine is mine and what's yours is mine."

 

[Bigpapa]

This is only his girlfriend and she is already balking. Now imagine what happens if they get married.

Her attitude is already "What's mine is mine and what's yours is mine."

the vast majority of women are like that, especially the women from the more “traditional” countries that people here keep putting on a pedestal

traditional relationship means that resources are exchanged for p8ssy