stuck in transition on Facebook

[adamw5963]

yes yes I know. I should have had a plan on what to do after the opener. anyways I messaged a girl on Facebook. I used an opener I saw a forum somewhere that said " is that a wig or your real hair??" she messaged back with "its mine??" the guy on the forum said just to say you were just wondering and then to go straight into an opinion opener but I don't think that would be good since usually opinions need to be spontaneous. so what should I say next to transition?

 

[Packers2010]

just be real man. say something like.

haha, hey i was just messin around there. i thought you wa cute so i had to message you.

then just talk about whatever. i would keep it short. then ask her for her number.

i hope this helps. ( this should come with a warning though. i am still a noobie so. take it was you will.)

 

[adamw5963]

Yeah I'm a newb too. I thought it would be pretty obvious that I was hitting on her by asking her opinion when there are millions of other girls on facebook. So why not just come out and be direct. But then again what do I know. haha

 

[Lilt]

I don't think Facebook is a good opening environment... it comes off as as "beta."

 

[adamw5963]

I pretty much agree with you lilt. But I will probably never see her unless I did message her so I figured what the hell might as well.