Strippers

[piday314]

I'd really like some input from men who have been there and done that. Rather than asking a specific question, I'm curious about stories and experiences you have that defines strippers for you -- epic failures, or even perhaps, the rare success. I'm leaning more towards stories of longer relationships, because we all know strippers are going to be pretty good for flings.

 

[squirrels]

Most strippers are party-girls...and there's really not a lot you can do about that. If you wanna go on a few dates, maybe have a fling, they're cool, but don't fall for one until you've cleared her thoroughly. They are red-flag-city.

 

[Paintballguy]

Wrap it up and don't get attached. That's all I got to say.

Strippers are bad news for a serious relationship, but they are really fun to mess around with.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

In my 20s I dated (see :"ƒucked regularly") 4 strippers. It came with the territory in the early 90s Hollywood music scene. After dating and knowing the stripper friends of strippers I can tell you that, as surprising as it may sound, strippers are rarely whøres. In fact I'd go so far as to say that, with the exception of porn actresses, they are probably THE most difficult women to Game. The reason I say this is because the "profession" of exotic dance (heh) puts a woman into the position of making her living from generating male attention. These women literally make a living from being praised and affirmed with male attention every night they work.

Good strippers have a unique set of skills and (usually) a body to make them work. From a behavioral standpoint, they can turn their sexuality on and off at will, so it becomes a challenge for any man spending more time than it takes for a $20 lap dance to really understand what is in fact genuine and what is "just working" for them. These women do this for a living, they see how their behavior affects men on a nightly basis and their self-affirmation, and in fact their financial livelihood, depends on their ability to manipulate the attention men will pay for the privilige to give to them.

The important thing to remember is that these women are paid to have attention given to them, so, assuming you really want to hit it with a stripper, you have to make your attention more sought after and more valuable a commodity than that of the constant flow of men in the place where she works. Your Negs must be flawless and your PUA timing and your freeze-out techniques have to be perfected. Needless to say you'll need to be somewhat good looking and be uncompromising in your determination. Strippers wont tolerate an AFC, in fact AFCs are their bread & butter in a club so there's little margin for error.

NEVER try to sarge a stripper in the club she works at. All the perfect 'reads' you could do to gauge her interest will always be offset by the fact that she's "working" so nothing is certain. There will always be a troll at the end of the bar with $100 who'll get more attention than you. Always arrange to meet up alone at a lounge later and never on the same night you run Game on her. The best way to bag a strippers is to find a way into her social circle. Most strippers hang out with other strippers on their off nights. Find out who her friends are. Do your reconnaissance work before hand and it'll go much easier for you to accidentally "bump" into her in her non-stripper persona.

Once you do establish some connection, from the outset, never give a stripper even the impression that her stripping in any way bothers you. That's just a cold hard reality of being with a stripper. Many a man before you has attempted to "reform" a stripper. The guy who ever does most certainly wont be you. There's too much money, too much attention, too much ego gratification for most men to ever offer more than what she gets nightly. Remember this, the only reformed strippers existing in the world are the ones who are too old or got too fat to keep it up. If you even hint that you might be possessive enough ask them to quit in the future, you're done.

All that said, bear in mind that a stripper will virtually NEVER be a good choice for a LTR. Beware the single mommy stripper. If you can approach the girl with the intent of having a good time in the short term and moving on after the experience, you'll do well. It's the guys that buy into the "hooker with the heart of gold" myth that fall back on their AFC behaviors and develop ONEitis with a stripper who have substantial damage done to them, and often their lives.

 

[davewe]

Here's an interesting article written by Johnny Soporno. It talks about approaching "professionally beautiful" women, including strippers.

http://www.cliffslist.com/letter/how-to-pick-up-porn-stars-strippers-escorts-and-models

I'd really like some input from men who have been there and done that. Rather than asking a specific question, I'm curious about stories and experiences you have that defines strippers for you -- epic failures, or even perhaps, the rare success. I'm leaning more towards stories of longer relationships, because we all know strippers are going to be pretty good for flings.

 

[scorpio1138]

I don't go anywhere near them and I suggest you do the same.

 

[Boilermaker]

Johny Soporno sounds like a beat-up Anthony Soprano

:crackup:

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

I had a beautiful fling with an ex-stripper three summers ago, ahh the memories.

Porno sex aside, everything else was bunk. She chain-smoked, dressed like a biker, and had this fukking dog that had to sleep with us.

I hit it for two months then pulled a Houdini

 

[horaholic]

In my 20s I dated (see :"ƒucked regularly") 4 strippers. It came with the territory in the early 90s Hollywood music scene. After dating and knowing the stripper friends of strippers I can tell you that, as surprising as it may sound, strippers are rarely whøres. In fact I'd go so far as to say that, with the exception of porn actresses, they are probably THE most difficult women to Game. The reason I say this is because the "profession" of exotic dance (heh) puts a woman into the position of making her living from generating male attention. These women literally make a living from being praised and affirmed with male attention every night they work.

Good strippers have a unique set of skills and (usually) a body to make them work. From a behavioral standpoint, they can turn their sexuality on and off at will, so it becomes a challenge for any man spending more time than it takes for a $20 lap dance to really understand what is in fact genuine and what is "just working" for them. These women do this for a living, they see how their behavior affects men on a nightly basis and their self-affirmation, and in fact their financial livelihood, depends on their ability to manipulate the attention men will pay for the privilige to give to them.

The important thing to remember is that these women are paid to have attention given to them, so, assuming you really want to hit it with a stripper, you have to make your attention more sought after and more valuable a commodity than that of the constant flow of men in the place where she works. Your Negs must be flawless and your PUA timing and your freeze-out techniques have to be perfected. Needless to say you'll need to be somewhat good looking and be uncompromising in your determination. Strippers wont tolerate an AFC, in fact AFCs are their bread & butter in a club so there's little margin for error.

NEVER try to sarge a stripper in the club she works at. All the perfect 'reads' you could do to gauge her interest will always be offset by the fact that she's "working" so nothing is certain. There will always be a troll at the end of the bar with $100 who'll get more attention than you. Always arrange to meet up alone at a lounge later and never on the same night you run Game on her. The best way to bag a strippers is to find a way into her social circle. Most strippers hang out with other strippers on their off nights. Find out who her friends are. Do your reconnaissance work before hand and it'll go much easier for you to accidentally "bump" into her in her non-stripper persona.

Once you do establish some connection, from the outset, never give a stripper even the impression that her stripping in any way bothers you. That's just a cold hard reality of being with a stripper. Many a man before you has attempted to "reform" a stripper. The guy who ever does most certainly wont be you. There's too much money, too much attention, too much ego gratification for most men to ever offer more than what she gets nightly. Remember this, the only reformed strippers existing in the world are the ones who are too old or got too fat to keep it up. If you even hint that you might be possessive enough ask them to quit in the future, you're done.

All that said, bear in mind that a stripper will virtually NEVER be a good choice for a LTR. Beware the single mommy stripper. If you can approach the girl with the intent of having a good time in the short term and moving on after the experience, you'll do well. It's the guys that buy into the "hooker with the heart of gold" myth that fall back on their AFC behaviors and develop ONEitis with a stripper who have substantial damage done to them, and often their lives.

This is interesting, because my older ex-rockstar buddy says the same thing about strippers. He claims they treat their bf's like kings. I got one as a plate right now, that I haven't fvcked yet, mostly because of schedule differences. She claims that she was going for a full year (in march) of no dating and no sex with men. We have several mutual friends and they all vouch for her, saying she's super cool, and down to Earth, and what not, so I'll give it a try. I met her when she was bartending at my watering hole. She's only a part time stripper. Of course., night bartenders aren't much better women! She likes me a lot, and told me she was breaking her year long vow for me, but she says she has to know she really likes me before fvcking me. (Yeah right haha!) When I first met her she said something about not banging a guy till her birthday in march. I didnt buy that for a second.

We went out for drinks once, and did a bunch of making out, but she had to go to work shortly after. Going out again thurs.

 

[Big Overseas 1]

The few strippers I've met were all either bisexual or hated men. Probably has something to do with seeing fellas at their worst all the time.

 

[piday314]

The few strippers I've met were all either bisexual or hated men. Probably has something to do with seeing fellas at their worst all the time.

What's wrong with them being bisexual??

 

[horaholic]

Thats one thing Im looking forward to with mine!