buyer beware. you have to definitely realize what you're getting yourself into
understand that a woman who can desensitize herself to the point where she's dancing naked for, and getting groped by strange, mostly gross men night after night with no problem is not a normal woman.
beware of the lies she tells. i've had the (dis)pleasure of personally knowing a few strippers. the bulk were married or had boyfriends but you wouldn't know it. they hide it so well. they give you all this time and attention and you think there's no way she could split her time with me AND another man or multiple men. wrong
they lie like it's a bodily function. they do it without breaking a sweat since they have to lie to customers so often. i dont know how you can ever trust a woman like that
also, you have to deal with super white knight customers who if she asked, would get into a physical altercation with you if she told them you wronged her in some way.
not to mention if you actually DO date. she'd be getting groped on a nightly basis by other men. you tell yourself "that's just her job, it means nothing, she's coming home to me"...but how did you meet her? exactly
the problem with most men is they tell themselves "i'm different". "the rest are just customers, but i'm special". "i'm the exception". odds are, you're not. these girls specialize in making you feel like you're the only man alive. they're providing a fantasy
you can find models or regular women that beautiful with less drama or worries.
not every stripper is like this, but you really have to be smart about who you decide to get involved with