So you want a stripper, eh? I promise it'll be one of the trickiest pick-ups you'll ever do. You need to apply your same basic DJ skills, with a smaller margin of error. I've never dated a stripper, but I've got a couple of female friends who are/were strippers.
These girls are the object of literally hundreds (even thousands) of guys sexual fantasies. They know this. Furthermore, they've heard just about every line in the book and probably from better looking guys than you. They are on guard against most advances a guy would make. So... how do you proceed?
I can't tell you exactly what to do or what to say, but here are a couple of tips to set yourself apart from the masses.
1. Disarm their power: These women wield amazing sexual power over mere mortals. It’s their currency and their power. You cannot allow this to phase you if you expect to pick her up. Mazman was right by not even watching the stripper when she was on stage. If it were me, I would hint that I like what I saw while keeping my cool. Suggest that you are comfortable with your sexuality. Make it non-verbally obvious that naked women don’t make you lose control.
2. Display extreme confidence: As we all know, women possess a keen ability to sense insecurity and needy traits in a man. Strippers even more so, because they’re surrounded by desperate men all day long. The first whiff of either trait will obliterate your chances with her. If you cannot summon confidence on command, your best bet is to go to the club on a whim when you’re having a really great day.
3. Don’t ask her out on a date: This follows the same logic of separating yourself from the pack. She gets asked out for drinks and dinner and quickies in the parking lot all the time. Ask her if she wants to get together for coffee, or something else that doesn’t seem like a date.
I think there were a couple threads in the tips section about picking up strippers, but I haven’t read them yet. I don’t know if they’re any good, but... I imagine there’s some good advice over there as well.