Stripper stops 5 minutes into sex (repeatedly)

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Hello all!

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I have been hanging out with a new stripper for a couple of months now. I used to date (still do occasionally) an incredibly attractive poison of a girl for several months who works at this strip joint I have been frequenting since last fall. I won't go much into the story but I'll say that once I caught up with the only lie I wasn't willing to put up with, I went to the club one night she wasn't working and got a new girl. The jealousy plot worked enough to have her bust into the VIP room on her day off as I was with the new girl. In street-clothing and all, smudged make-up, trembling demeanor, and confrontational as hell... we ended up being escorted by security into the parking lot. God how I miss her...

On a brighter note, her unusual and emotional display sparked the interest of the new stripper girl she was attempting to confront that night and so within a few short days we met up for the first time. No dinner, no trips to the mall, just a quick drive to a hotel close by. Short stay. It all sounds good so far but here's where it gets sketchy.

She's quite the pot head so after going through the 2 joints she had rolled up, we're on the bed and she is lap dancing for me. After quite a bit of this, my underwear comes off, the condom gets slipped on and we begin to have sex. She's a bit reluctant about doing it and says something about my history with the other stripper. Says we should maybe wait until I'm really done with her. I ignore her. We're about over 5 minutes into it at this point. I can feel she's fairly wet and she still brings up the name of the other stripper. She orgasms, or at least does a great job faking it, I am not sure. She had goose-bumps over much of her skin and started shaking. I remember thinking how we had just started. She gets off me, checks her phone and comes up with some extravagant excuse that her mom needed her car back. It's 2:30 in the morning. About the same time she would've gotten off work. I'm staring down my undeniable boner as it angrily stares back at me. I'm pissed. This is the first time I've been with a broad who claims to orgasm and then just leaves me there. I waited for the part where I would usually get asked for money but it never comes.

I keep on seeing and paying her at the club. I even book the VIP and get a three-way "dance" with her and the previous girl. They all play nice and it quickly turns into a contest of who can be the freakiest.

I go out with her to the same hotel last night. The mood is good as a lot more rapport has been established in the mean time. She's cracking jokes and does some pretty good voice impersonations to the cartoon that's playing on TV. Some more personal stories from her childhood and about her family follow. She's 2 joints in and after dancing on me, we're at it again. I guess this time I should've aimed to bust a nut as soon as I possibly can but I didn't. We're about 7 minutes into it. She starts complaining about being dizzy again. She had done that during the first time, too. I ignore it and keep pumping. I ask her if she enjoys being a dirty little ***** as she starts moaning. A minute later she says there's something wrong with her stomach and is about to hurl. Runs to the bathroom but instead of throwing up she's just spitting inside the toilet. She asks me to drive her back to her car. It is curiously around 2:30 am again.

What do you guys make of this? My first worry was that I must've been not doing it right. I was actually a little proud of myself and the performance. After the dances that she gave me, I was on some mental Viagra ****. My thing was a steel pipe. I jokingly refer to her as a "little *****" from time-to-time. It is an inside joke she slipped out one night so the dirty talk was there. But letting me walk out with a loaded gun TWO TIMES IN A ROW is too much for it to be a pure coincidence. I can't even ignore it when I try. Is this a way for her to hold on to her power? My gut tells me yes but I have never been done like that before so I am confused.

I ignored her texts today saying she was sorry about last night. I ignored her call and voice message. My gut's been telling me to cut her loose and do it as fast as I can. Her leaving me like that has bruised my ego but I am not emotionally invested in her yet. I'm still hung up on the one before her. I called her back a while after listening to her message again. I told her it's time to say our good-byes but she was able to turn it around. Some drivel about being a person and having feelings too. Her not wanting to become attached because I seem to still be hung up on her co-worker. Strippers are masters at weaving excuses. She's no pro though... I've seen a lot better but it's just enough to keep me tangled.
 

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You're a weird dude, man.
 

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Yeaaaaaa........it might be the weed. If she's like that when she's not high, then you MAY have a weirdo on your hands. But that's ok though. lol. Everyone's got a little weird in them. lol
 

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Strippers are people that sometimes just don't take care of themselves. Also have a high chance of being molested/raped previously. What i'm basically saying here is that they are wild cards. Anything she says could be true, it could be not true.
 

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Thanks for the replies!

It looks like some of you think it may be the weed. I'm not a drug user and try to steer clear of the ones who use heavy drugs. I haven't known a single stripper who didn't partake in some kind of substance abuse. Most are moderate to heavy drinkers, pot smokers, and some do heavier drugs. It helps them blur out the reality of their work. I asked a friend with experience and he said that smoking 2 blunts in a row can most definitely make someone light-headed and dizzy.

When I first started going out to the hotel with her, she appeared to be stuck in some kind of routine. She was almost mechanical at times. Lately, she's been singing along to songs in my car, jokes around, and seems overall pretty loose and happier. She talked about recently discovering that her younger sister has been abused by her step dad while growing up. I later asked if something like that has happened to her also but she insists that she doesn't remember much of her childhood and asked me if I thought she should seek a therapist. I always thought the sexually-abused girl turned stripper to be an overblown stereotype.

She seems to like it rough. Biting and light choking turns her on. I think she wants me to be more in control and in charge during sex. She's hinted towards it. Considering that she's always on top while on the job, that makes sense. The problem I am faced with is how do I go about being more sexually aggressive with someone who's most likely been through some kind of sexual trauma? I don't want to overdo it.
 

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Is there a term for a thread that pretends to ask a question but actually is just a way for the OP to brag? There must be, it happens so frequently.
 

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Zarky said:
Is there a term for a thread that pretends to ask a question but actually is just a way for the OP to brag? There must be, it happens so frequently.

I'm sorry you feel that way... :(

Why in the world would I need to brag on the internet on an anonymous forum site that I just joined? The truth is I was too embarrassed to even discuss this with any real life friends so I resorted to this instead. I don't see what there is much to brag about. I feel like I had sex with her but not really since she left during the middle of it both times just minutes into it before I even finished.

There are pertinent questions that I brought up. Mainly because I wanted to know why she left me like that and how to be more dominant during sexual play without going overboard due to her sexual abusive past. Again... not exactly the kinds of questions I wanna ask friends or family members.

I was reaching out to people who may have more relationship experience with strippers or went through something similar. Maybe I'm at the wrong site.
 

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Take control, and dictate what happens in bed. You don't have to slap her around or choke the **** outta her to be "dominant". She spends all day sexually/mentally dominating men (even if there is no sex involved, it is all of a sexual nature). I used to work at a strip club, most of the ones who were abused or went through bad **** have a pretty open sexuality. You aren't going to break or scare them by taking control. While some of them are messed up, they are generally quite "tough".
 

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GQ Scott said:
Take control, and dictate what happens in bed. You don't have to slap her around or choke the **** outta her to be "dominant". She spends all day sexually/mentally dominating men (even if there is no sex involved, it is all of a sexual nature). I used to work at a strip club, most of the ones who were abused or went through bad **** have a pretty open sexuality. You aren't going to break or scare them by taking control. While some of them are messed up, they are generally quite "tough".
Thanks man, I appreciate it!

I think I'm meeting up with her again tomorrow. It's going to be tough following your advice since she's always so dominating in the sack. She's always on top and even when I try to play around with her before the sex, she usually pulls away saying that she doesn't wanna mess around and burn me accidentally when she is smoking. After she gets on top again I'll try to change it into more positions and I'll see if I can keep her from smoking up a storm right before the act like usual.

And what did you work at the strip club? Were you a DJ, security or door guy?
 

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Zarky said:
Is there a term for a thread that pretends to ask a question but actually is just a way for the OP to brag? There must be, it happens so frequently.
I've heard the term "closet brag". In this case however, I agree with others that it's likely the weed.
 

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Ok now THIS sounds like the stripper that everyone thinks I was dating when I said I dated a stripper.

When I took my stripper outside the club, she immediately morphed into the sweetest, shyest, most ladylike girl. She used to play guitar and sing at church. I remember the first time I brought her to my apartment I didn't lay a finger on her because she was just precious. Even my mom loved her.

They are not all the same. There are women you know and love who are secretly strippers. But one common factor with the OP is they sure don't want you in VIP with another girl!
 

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bigneil said:
Ok now THIS sounds like the stripper that everyone thinks I was dating when I said I dated a stripper.

When I took my stripper outside the club, she immediately morphed into the sweetest, shyest, most ladylike girl. She used to play guitar and sing at church.

I stopped reading at that part

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BigNeil get over it dude, your still talking about that slore? what you can't get any other type of hoes?

whats up with all these stripper threads lately?

Strippers are good for fuccNchucc's only


you phaggots who are trying to play "house" with strippers got the game confused

srs

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I've been dating raunchy women since Solomon was a gleam in his dad's eye, and only dated one stripper. I paid 2 others for ONS but would never call that dating.

Solomon (and most members) probably never had his favorite (out of 100) stripper ask him out and offer to sleep over free. But he wants to pretend he's actually better off. The fact people think they can say "You don't know - you only spent 6 months with her" and then say "I know because she's a stripper" is absurd. and I don't care if it turns out she faked it for ulterior motives (what women doesn't have them?) - I wish more girls would wake a 6 month relationship! And what hot girl isn't having constant sex?

Half the hot women you know are secretly strippers. Note that none of her 1000 FB friends know she's a stripper. Maybe you are one of them. While you were Liking her photo, I was banging her.

Beautiful, young women are crazy - regardless of whether they are strippers. I never had any crazy stories like above so they are not all the same obviously. But go on believing that just because your girl is not a stripper, that she's not a wh0re sometimes. They all are. That was the real lesson I learned. It's not that strippers are good, it's that all hot women are bad.
 

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bigneil said:
I've been dating raunchy women since Solomon was a gleam in his dad's eye, and only dated one stripper. I paid 2 others for ONS but would never call that dating.

Solomon (and most members) probably never had his favorite (out of 100) stripper ask him out and offer to sleep over free. But he wants to pretend he's actually better off. The fact people think they can say "You don't know - you only spent 6 months with her" and then say "I know because she's a stripper" is absurd. and I don't care if it turns out she faked it for ulterior motives (what women doesn't have them?) - I wish more girls would wake a 6 month relationship! And what hot girl isn't having constant sex?

Half the hot women you know are secretly strippers. Note that none of her 1000 FB friends know she's a stripper. Maybe you are one of them. While you were Liking her photo, I was banging her.

Beautiful, young women are crazy - regardless of whether they are strippers. I never had any crazy stories like above so they are not all the same obviously. But go on believing that just because your girl is not a stripper, that she's not a wh0re sometimes. They all are. That was the real lesson I learned. It's not that strippers are good, it's that all hot women are bad.

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

BigNeil I seriosuly get a kick out of your post, Your ego never ceases to amaze me.All hot women are bad, ROFLL aww I miss the aboslutist such as yourself. Correction All the hot women you deal with are bad

and lol @ half the women you know are secertly strippers.

Keep the lulz coming BigNeil please do old man

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I'd chalk it up to a troubled past/daddy issues. The weed is to numb the memory of anything that happened in her past, but once the actual sex starts, the memories are to vivid to ignore and she wants to stop. That's my take on it. She's a stripper for god's sake, take what she does with a grain of salt.
 

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Well since you are tricking.. just tape a $20 bill to your chest and tell her its not coming off unless she lets you ride for 20 minutes.. seriously whats the deal with strippers? Just go to a college bar and pick up some breezie..
 

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3countriesPlan said:
Well since you are tricking.. just tape a $20 bill to your chest and tell her its not coming off unless she lets you ride for 20 minutes.. seriously whats the deal with strippers? Just go to a college bar and pick up some breezie..
^^^ LMFAO! Thanks, I needed that! :crackup:

I've always liked strippers for as far as I can remember. I think it has to do with wanting what one cannot have (or not supposed to anyways). They're strippers after all, not prostitutes. Taking the fantasies they sell on the job to the next level has always been a challenge I look forward to. Contrary to popular belief and from my own experience, they don't all engage in sex with people they meet in the club. This is a Go-Go bar that sells alcohol and therefore in my state they have to be fully clothed so there isn't any nudity on or off stage. Some strippers will stay incredibly loyal to their man.
 
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