Stripper question

[danielzxc]

This bit's from another thread, but I wanted to ask it here, so that I get more responses.

You can read the story behind it below, but my question is, is a stripper licking your ear while giving you a lap dance a "standard" stripper thing to do? This happened to me last night, and I'd never had a lapdance before, and I didn't know what it "meant". I didn't wanna kid myself that she liked me, but then again, it WOULD be nice that this hot stripper was into me in "that" way. I'm just curious.



[The background, from the other thread:]

Anyhoo, almost straight after that, I saw this other stripper that I liked, but she was talking to some guy, but looking towards me. I raised my eyebrows in a "hi" manner and just hanged out nearby. She excused herself from the guy and came over to me. We said hi and I go to her "you look REALLY good". She goes "thanks, so do you".

This chik had this really seductive smile on her. I was thinking she must get a LOT of customers with that smile. And yeah, it hooked me in, too, and I cut to the chase and go to her "listen, you really do it for me. I want u to dance for me". And off we went to some (semi) private room.

Interesting bit was, she started doing her thing, and then, as she was "riding" me, and had her head next to mine, she gave my ear a really nice lick. That turned me on BAD. But I was kinda confused by it, cos since I'd never had a lap dance before, I wasn't sure if that was a "standard" thing to do.

What a bytch man, lol. She turned me on that fkking bad with that little lick, but then it left me wondering the rest of the dance, and I didn't enjoy it as much as I otherwise would have, cos I kept thinking.. hang on man.. does it means she LIKES me? lol..

I didn't wanna seem like some fkkn chump stripper's-customer fooling himself into thinking the stripper wanted him in any way, but at the same time, i couldn't help but think that licking my ear was probably not something they do to everyone. Bytch!

I didn't even talk to her after it, cos I didn't want it to come out like I'm "trying to pick up a stripper", cos that feels uncomfortable to me cos I keep thinking that probably EVERY guy fancies his chances with her after she's danced, and I didn't wanna be some "average chump".

 

[Solarium]

Having been in a strip club a lot back when I first turned 18, just to learn how to talk to girls (great place to start btw), I learned that strippers are no go. Everything they do is a display, and EVEN if they liked you, they know that the code is not to date anyone who goes to strip clubs... I've gotten a few numbers, but it never worked out.

 

[ryannath]

Of course she liked you. You paid her, of course she liked you! She liked your money! I've been to strip clubs before and i did get a kiss on the cheek after the dance. I asked my friend if he got one from the same stripper and he said he did too. It's nothing man. She was just doing it so you would remain a customer.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

The only thing you can learn from a stripper is to not mess with a fvcked up woman.

Don't kid yourself. Stippers like everyone.

"does this stripper like me?"

Smack yourself, because I don't know where you live.

Edit: You live in Australia? I can't afford to go down there and smack you.

 

[ryannath]

Funny thing I saw on tv the other day on a talk show. They had strippers on there and these women were saying that every man they see anywhere, whether it be in the strip club, or walking down the street, they said that when they saw a man, they instantly just saw him for money and what she could get out of him. Some of them even said they really weren't all that attracted to men, just for the money.

 

[Celadus]

I don't understand the obsession with strippers. They are the lowest form of female, even worse than prostitutes. Why any fool would enjoy giving a female that is 100% pretending to like you is beyond me. How many ears do you think that bit** licks a night? Why would you even care if a woman like that liked you? She's not special. She got the exact response she wanted from you. Sell the fantasy.

 

[GamePlan]

I don't understand the obsession with strippers. They are the lowest form of female, even worse than prostitutes.

I don't think strippers or prostitutes are "lower forms of female(s)" for 2 reasons:

1) I bet all of them don't do it because they just love stripping or sleeping with (probably mostly ugly) men. Some of them might not have another option (not all, but some).

2) In our society I bet over half of the people go to work and work a job, they hate in order to get money. Thus they're prostituting their minds/brains not their bodies. This however is perfectly okay as we all are used to it and it's an everyday thing. Everybody does it...One could argue: What's worse: Selling your body for cash or your mind? (I know most people on here will find that ridiculous ;-)).

 

[NSUballer]

One time I was at this strip club on Bourbon Street in new orleans and this stripper was giving me the usual lap dance routine in booth in the back and the biatch tried to fukkin kiss me. ON THE MOUTH WITH HER TONGUE. I bit my lip so she couldnt. Nasty h0r.

 

[Celadus]

I don't think strippers or prostitutes are "lower forms of female(s)" for 2 reasons:

1) I bet all of them don't do it because they just love stripping or sleeping with (probably mostly ugly) men. Some of them might not have another option (not all, but some).

2) In our society I bet over half of the people go to work and work a job, they hate in order to get money. Thus they're prostituting their minds/brains not their bodies. This however is perfectly okay as we all are used to it and it's an everyday thing. Everybody does it...One could argue: What's worse: Selling your body for cash or your mind? (I know most people on here will find that ridiculous ;-)).

That's a good point. I think a lot of them do enjoy the attention though especially the ones working in high end clubs making more than the average person.

 

[Boston DJ]

Only stripper I was ever with was some girl I hadn't seen since grade school who recognized me while she was on stage. It was strange to say the least but she was a good f*ck. If you are ever with one I would advise not asking them about their work. This girl HATED when I brought it up so we just never talked about her "work". I agree w/ everything everyone is saying here though. There is no way she likes you by licking your ear you were just another one of her CUSTOMERS.

 

[rrrrr]

One of my friends told me a he went to a strip club,and the girl really liked him, she was following him around. He said something about maybe going back there. Strippers are bad news. They have wads of cash and spend it on the dumbest stuff, because they have so much of it. They are screwed up in the head. No stable woman is going to be a stripper, think about it. It's almost like dating a prostitute.

I've only been to strip clubs a few times in my life. I've got them to bite and blow in my ear plenty of times though, of course they flirt with you. That's their f'in job. I had one stripper give me her number and I called it a few days later and it was real, but she was as loopy as a box of rocks. What do you think strip teases are all about, staying out of your personal zone and touching you with your fingertips? NO, they grab you, they bite you, they even rub their cooch on you, I've had it all happen to me, that's the whole point of a strip tease and it's what you're paying for, a fantasy. It's like hiring an escort and she sleeps with you so you think she likes you.

I can tell you right now hardly anyone on this board is going to get/sleep with a stripper. They go with guys that are f'ed up as themselves. They are screwed up. Don't waste your time with them. A relative of mine dated a stripper and she ripped other family members off. You don't need that kind of crap in your life.

 

[Randallpink83]

hahahahahahahahahaahhaaha... *breathe* ..hahahahahahahahahahaha.

ok sorry. ummm strippers? are you for real? thats their job dude. J-O-B of course they are gonna make you think you are special. Strippers are the female DonJuans yet worse because all they want is money.

Now if you had cocaine thats a different story.. Just tell a stripper you have an 8 ball and her and three of her friends will be over your house that night to party.

hahahahahahahaha a stripper sucked your ear??? :crackup:

 

[danielzxc]

Okay okay, you fags, I only asked a simple question. Sheesh. Anyone would think I said i was in love with her. (And hey, it was a good long lick, dammit! )

I've just never had a fkkn dance before man, so I had no idea what was "normal". I HAVE had a stripper want before, telling me to call her and talking about stuff she wants to do with me (didn't get a dance off her, btw). So it's not OUT OF THIS WORLD that a stripper might, on occasion, like a guy. (They're female, you know.) Also, many that I have talked to stressed the point of how much they couldn't stand the clientele, so that's why I thought a lick like that might have been unusual.

Any-fkkin-way, i''ll shut up before one of you fags accuses of 'one-itis' over it.

 

[STR8UP]

I do some cross promotion with a strip club.

A couple of weeks ago we did a video shoot with a few of the girls. One of them walked to the back like she was looking for something, so I asked her, "Is there anything I can help you with?"

At first she said "No", then she thought about it for a second and said something about taking her into the office and bending her over my desk

She was new in town and looking to make friends so there was a possibility.....

But I never read too much into a stripper, and neither should you!

 

[Ken785]

its all apart of the "stripper hu$tle" dude...

www.stripperweb.com/forum

EVERYONE read that...its where strippers unite to talk about well...stripper things!!! its hilarious!!

 

[GamePlan]

That's a good point. I think a lot of them do enjoy the attention though especially the ones working in high end clubs making more than the average person.

Yeah, sure some or even many of them like the attention. But then again, I don't even think that is so bad. I think everybody should do what they want to do. If a girl wants to be a stripper, lets just let her be a stripper. Maybe shes a real fiend for attention. I wouldnt say that necessarily means she has to be a lower form of life, though lol. The lowest form of female imo are the chicks leading guys on and having them buy drinks without making it clear upfront that they want their money (like strippers do LOL).

That being said, I guess its probably true that dating a stripper (who does her job because it's fun to her) isn't exactly a good choice, if you want to be in a happy relationship...and want a girl that's faithful/not seeking attention from other men. Not in all cases, but I guess its more likely than with women who dont do stripping.

 

[Fenderules]

that stripper boad is funny

 

[djSlvt]

I've dated a stripper, I met her off myspace, at first she was like she's working at a bar, but then I found out she was stripper. Alright girl.


Strippers know a lot about men. She seen you very excited, she wanted to seduce you so much. Idea is to seduce and get cash. With each lap dance it's another $20..... That don't mean she won't go with you home. They get drunk before show, and are very horny during the show. So you have drunk and horny girl, anything possible.

My stripper would choose men off strip club, or maybe even inside it, I wouldn't know. She's pick and choose which one, I was one of those she picked. That girl would date people.

Lap dance at a strip club and lap dance at home is a very different thing. At home it's ordinary people doing things. Strip club is much more exciting.

 

[rrrrr]

That's a funny site!

Here's how strippers face rejection:
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=90126

One stripper even pointed out if you get rejected, show high value!


Here's an AFC customer. I would say beyond AFC to downright psycho:
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=90179

 

[GamePlan]

Hahaha an AFC? No its more of a PSY-CHO!!! haha