goons said:
Where am I going wrong?
Had her on my lap told her "I was going to treat her right" in bed and she was ready to come back with me then was gone? I won't die a happy man unless I complete the ultimate conquest lmao.
This girl has high interest but a kid as well.
Was it that I was too forward with her and told her I wanted to lau er face first on my bed and treat her "right"?
You need to provide more details, but I'm going to assume you just walked in there, found a girl, she sat on your lap for 20minutes and you thought this means she was down for you to say what you did. All you did was put yourself in the same category as the 10 d-bags before you. They all told her something along the same lines as you did.
I used to go after strippa's and have dated 4. Took me a while to perfect my recipe but here's what worked for me:
1. Never be seen as a customer.
2. Never pay for lap dances, this labels you as a customer.
3. Never tell them how hot they are, this labels you as a customer as well. You never tell non-stripper HB9's how hot they are either. They know it already and it does nothing to benefit you by telling them. Its about like a bunch of chumps on some hottie's facebook telling her how hot she is. Those guys never get anywhere. You are the prize, not her.
4.You don't supplicate to a woman you are trying to win over. When you do then you're no different than the 50 guys before you that failed to impress her.
5. Dress nice and smell good. Too much cologne is just the right amount. Strippers love guys in sport jackets/suits. Remember ZZ Top's - Sharp Dressed man??.....cuz every girl come running just as fast as they can.
6. Make a grand entrance. Make lots of noise, bear hug your home boys, hi-5's all that stupid ****. Those hookers need to know you have arrived.
7. Be very confident. Get up on the pole. Walk up to the stage with a bottle of liquor and pour yourself a belly shot off some unsuspecting cutie's stomach. Haven't had one turn me down yet.
8. Make friends and introduce yourself to the DJ, house mom, lady who runs the in-house lingerie shop, waitress's, bartenders, and managers. You have to project that your the schitt and have social value. I used to record notes in my phone so I could remember all the names of the staff and what was going on in their life.
9. Make sure you are very approachable. Always sit by an aisle with your chair facing the walkway. Portray body language that says "I'm a bad mofo honey, and you want to come and sit on daddy's lap".
10. If you are at a BYOB place, you for sure need Crown, Goose, and Jager. Set up your table so it looks like a mini-bar. To save money pour your cheap vodka in a Grey Goose Bottle and offer that to the girls. Most won't know the difference. Save the Goose for yourself! Also they sell some liquor that comes in a bottle shaped like a tommy gun. Those make for great conversation starters.
11. Bring out all the personality and charm you got. You want to entertain them. Get pumped up. You need to be high energy.
12. Never tell them your real name. I always introduce my self as some hilarious nickname from some crazy place. And introduce the girls to your friends.
13. Tell them you're gay and your buddies(Gay Bob, Gay George) are too and you were looking for a girl to convince you to go back straight. They eat this up every time I throw it out there.
14. Once you find a girl that is into you, don't become posessive. Let her go make her money. Understand that there are guys who are paying her phone bill and car payment that come into the club on a regular basis. They will take precedence over you and should. You don't want that roll. Those guys aren't getting laid.
15. It always took me about 3-4 visits before I asked a girl out somewhere other than the club. When I did I never referred to it as a date or made it "date like". After 3 club visits with one stripper I met, I asked her to meet me out at a country dance club. To my surprise she showed up. A week later she was in my bed.
16. Most girls pick their own songs to dance to, although it does depend on the club. When she is dancing on stage, go tell her you like the songs and ask her if she picked them for you. ;-) Use the music to connect! When you go to the mainstage to talk to her, don't stand their and ogle her. Just slip a dollar in her g-string, say something funny, and tell her to stop by your table later.
17. Once you establish your self as a guy who just likes to show up to party, and not a guy there to try and molest them, they will start buying you drinks and offering up free passes to come back.
18. The best time to run strippr game is late Friday afternoon's. Its usually slower then and they have time to sit and b.s. so you can build that connection. Plus they like to unwind at the end of their week too. Its like a happy hour!
19. If you have a hot female friend that is social, bring her with you. She can help speed up the process and break down a few walls.
